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Oh things aren't going well...


Question Posted Tuesday February 17 2004, 4:49 pm

Well I think things have way mellowed out--perhaps gone downhill for me and him. Nothing really exciting has happened for a while. No notes, no 'signs', whatever.

Well, I think I'm getting mixed signals and that pisses me off. Marie still thinks he's "SO into you(me)!". Anyhow, a little 'exciting' thing kind of happened and I feel the need to tell you since I have left you hanging since last time.

Well in the action hour, our teacher was yap yapping and I looked over at him (I do that quite often) and he was looking STRAIGHT at me. Like his whole body was shifted over in my direction, and I could see him head-on. It freaked me out and my heart jumped and I quickly turned back around. I looked again a little bit later and he was looking at me. I looked again, later still, and he was sleeping. Then, I looked AGAIN, and he was getting ready to look at me when I turned away.

Maybe he just thinks it's fun to mess with me because he knows I like him? Marie suggested writing him a note about 'could we ever be together' blah blah blah. I truly think he isn't ready for anything serious, so maybe I should leave him alone? Maybe I'm not ready either?

What to do, what to do.


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OneMan answered Tuesday February 17 2004, 5:46 pm:
Well, you could very well be right when you say that maybe he's messing with you because he knows how you feel. That's why i suggested earlier that you just tell him or ask him outright what exactk he feels. Dont ask him if he THINKS there will ever be a future type question. When you give him that, it leaves him the option to say yes when he knows it may never be and you'll be sitting by waiting on things....based on his answer. No, ask him directly, and that will end it. Make him shit or get off of the pot. I can see you're getting a bit tired with him, but you do have to be fair, so that you'll know you've done all tha you can to find out. And thanks for keeping me up on things.

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