greetings One Man..
most of all i would like to compliment U Sir on the valuable and so caring advice u have given to the people who have have been seeking Ur professional help..by reading Ur answers to the so many different concerns people have, has helped me in so many ways..ty Sir, for taking Ur valuable time to help others in so many ways..
could U please advice me how to discipline myself not to miss the man i love so very much to an extend that the only thing on my mind is, how to make it possible to share every day of my existence with him?...(he do live in another state)
i wish U peace, happiness and love in Ur life Sir..GOD bless U and Ur's..an admirer of ur patience and knowledge of life
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? OneMan answered Saturday January 17 2004, 12:05 pm: Thank you so much. It helps to know that the things I say do truly make a difference to some.
As for your question. I don't think I'd really want to stop thinking and feeling the way you do. To find yourself in that position is a gift. Aside from the two of you living in different states, it sounds as if you have an incredible relationship. A relationship that has you thinking of your loved one constantly, longing to be with him and even considering the rest of your days with him. THAT...is a relationship.
How about this. Instead of seeing it as "occupying your mind", let each thought of him encourage you, knowing what it is that you have, and let those feelings drive you to do the things that someday WILL have you in each others lives forever. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
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