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Question Posted Tuesday December 16 2003, 4:21 pm

I'm not worried. . . I don't care what my friends think. If they could accept me then, they should be able to accept me now! I don't even think they are realy my friends. . I mean sure they sit with me at lunch, but in class they never really talk to me. . One of my friends talks to me all the time though. I moved so all my old friends are in different schools. My mom doesnt care, I asked her she said why not you didn't have to ask me! Also if people could talk to me and hang with me then, why can't they now? Im the same person just because I chnaged the type of clothes and a little bit of how I act towards things?? When you become punk you dont change you, you just chnage ur whole lifestyle. . Like you reborned and your a whole new person, but you still do the same things you sued to do! This may seem like im answering my own question, and that Im not even asking you a question. . but I just wanted to let you know. . I will never be a poser! Posers are people who have know clue what they really are, they do what everyone else wants, they try to be the ebst, they try to be things that they cant and they dont even want to be what they are trying to be, so they are always confused!

PEACE:::::::::\m/:::::::::PEACE

BrItTaNy *Im not a wanna be, im what I wanna be*


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kathykat answered Wednesday December 17 2003, 11:43 am:
I don't know you, so I can't ultimately tell you whether the punk scene is really for you. But I do know that when you look "different," people are going to target you for abuse---when I had a mohawk, I regularly had people I didn't even know shouting stuff at me, calling me names and insulting me, even spitting on me. And if you don't have an in-your-face punk attitude already, and are worried about what everyone thinks and that people aren't going to like you any more, it is going to be very hard for you to deal with that. Because there *are* people who won't like you if you are a punk. It's dumb and it's not fair, but it's the way it is.

Good luck whatever you decide.

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