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Question Posted Thursday December 4 2003, 10:44 pm

i started seeing this guy we got along great then his exgirl friend who is crasy started calling me telling me that he is still with her. i broke things off we decided to just be friends he calls me every night and the other night we kissed (peck)"hold on we are just friends" i told him i was confused all he said was that "he was to" what should i do?

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musicismyworld answered Saturday December 6 2003, 7:18 pm:
it sounds to me that u still have feelings for him and him with u tell him how u feel and decide whether or not u should hook back up and if he is still with his girlfriend sat hell no because u dont want to ghet a rep as a cheater

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koshii answered Friday December 5 2003, 8:10 pm:
Sounds like he likes you and miss ex still likes him. I wonder who did the dumping? Do a little research. It shouldn't be hard. If you see any suspicious activity on his part, run away. Run far, far away. Don't even give him friendly smiles, much less kisses. People don't change. Don't let him use you.

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Celena answered Friday December 5 2003, 12:40 pm:
Another no-namer. I guess this means I get to dig into the sack of random horrible names again.

Well, Bertha, let's review your decisions about this guy! He dates you, while also dating his crazy girlfriend She somehow mystically gets your number and harrasses you, so you break it off. GOOD MOVE! You keep in contact. BAD MOVE!

By staying in contact with this looser who obviously had boundary issues before you broke up with him, you're only setting yourself for more of the same crap. He'll continue to play mind games with you until you cut him loose. Worse - he won't even be aware of the games he's playing with your mind! To him, you are an available female who is a willing participant in what he is currently doing. Unless you absolutely put your foot down with him, he will keep this up and get progressively worse. Oh yeah, and you leave yourself in the breech for more harrassing calls from girlfriends and ex-girlfriends.

Run as far and hard as you can.

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