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I have a very dear friend, who despite her age, 42, and mine, 13, was probably the closest and best friend I ever had. She worked at my dads laboratory and I would always come after school and tell her everything. she saw me go through the fases of a growing child, from a different point of view than a parent, and we had so many good times together.
Recently she got pregnant when she wasnt married. Since the guy didnt know and she had no contact with him, she decided to move back with her family back east. I miss her terribly, shes been gone about a week now but it seems like ages. My life is a wreck without her. And I know she misses me too but she hasnt talked to me recently. What should I do to relieve the pain? Its not the same anymore without her because her impact is vital in my life. Please help.
[ ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
It's going to be tough to deal with, but this sort of thing happens. Friendships are hard to keep together. Those movies you see where the people have been best friends since the second grade? Not real. Life takes us places.
I'd write letters. Yes, I know there's e-mail these days, but letters are so much more theraputic. Don't worry, you can live without her, it's just tough for a while. ]
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