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if my ex like me
Ok, I had a boyfriend let call him (troy) but anyway I really like him but i broke up with him to have sex with someone else. he stop talking to me for a year and now we just started to talking again we are closer than ever. he said that he would take me back if his two friends give him a good reason to go back with me. But i don't understand what he means? I think he cares about me but don't like me. Because i fall asleep in the cafeteria and no body woke me up. BUT HE DID. So does he like me or what?
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That's just his way of exacting revenge, love. You took control of the relationship when you chose to run off and have sex with someone else. Now, HE"S in the position to determine the outcome of the impending relationship and he's loving the opportunity to make you squirm.
It's simple...he already knows whether he'll take you back or not. His friends have very little to do with it. Unless he's one of those guys who still picks his girlfriends only if his friends think she's "hot". I would guess he does want you back, but not until after he's had enough fun dragging it out and making you pay.
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Honestly if I was him I don't think I would be talking to you again let alone like you, what you did probably ripped out his heart, kicked it around a bit, peed on it, and then left it there. It was a pretty poor use of judgment, I’m sure you know that, especially now. Well he very well could have feelings for you still, but I suggest until you figure out your own life and expectations, talk to him more and figure out his, you pursue the relationship...
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It sounds like he does, but is friends don't think that he should go back out with you because you dumped him to have sex with someone else. Friends are very protective, especially guys. Odd, I know, but they are. My advice to you would be, talk to him about it, ask him what he means. And try to show his friends that you wouldn't do that to him again. I'm not saying prove yourself to them (because you should never have to prove yourself to anyone), I'm just saying let them know they can trust you not to hurt their friend again.
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No offense, but maybe he was just thinking, "Hey, maybe she'd like to go to class, I should wake her up".
I think you hurt him pretty badly and he's not going to want to take you back. That's the blunt truth and there's not really much else to say.
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