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my father
well i have never met my father and my mom told me that he was married 2 times before he met my mother but he never married my mom and he had 6 boys beofre me and i'm a girl. and the only thing i don't get is why he could get married 2 times before my mom and then have 6 boys with 2 other women and spen time with them but when he realizes that he has a girl he runs and i ahve never met him and i don't understand how he could handle 6 boys but not me? and all i want to knwo is how like when i talk about my dad that i don't break down in tears how can i do that?
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Your father doesn't seem to be a good guy to know. I don't think it has anything to do with you being a girl either. You need to find a friend, counselor, or therapist to talk to. Getting it out of your system helps.
There may be a time in the future that he would come see you, but I doubt it. I doubt seriously he is "handling" 6 boys. There are two words for this guy: "sperm donor." Find a mentor at school or church or the Y.
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I don't think it's because you're a girl... it sounds like he knew the other women much better, so maybe he feels like he's responsible for the boys. After all, he was married to their mothers. If he didn't marry your mother, he was probably going to run whether or not you were a girl - likely whether or not you even existed. And in the off chance that it was because you were a girl, then I don't think he's the kind of guy I'd want to have around. Still, it's sad you haven't met him. Is there any way you could? That's the best solution... if you can't, just know that it's not your fault.
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the first time i saw my dad i was 17 and he came to visit my mom and tel her he got hitched up wit some aerobocs instructor he met at te wal-mart. mom was all made cuz she hates that aerobocs stuff and she threw a bottle at him, wich i think shows that women can be tough as hell wen some men doem wrong, so maby yr dad is just scared shitless of what you women would do if you had him in the same room and knew he had six kids wit other gals. shit, id be scared of other women if i trated women like that too.
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