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I have noticed that your general advice when someone has an
I have noticed that your general advice when someone has an unsolvable qualm in their realationship is 'dump them!' (said with a bit more compassion of course)! Well, I kinda agree. I have just realised that for a long time I have been trying to get my guy to be something he is not - something i would like more! He dosn't exactly treat me that well and is often very annoying.I have fallen out of love with him. I want to dump him. But he won't let me end it! Many times in the past when he has been a total arse and I have wanted a break he has refused and I think that the only reason we have not broken up before is because he makes it so difficult! 1. He flatly refuses to break up+ 2. He does the classic be really really nice for like a couple of days after the break up possibility to build me up again and then goes back to being nasty. So how can I dump him in a way that might mean we might still be able to be friends afterwards!? Aaaaagghh, help!
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He can't refuse to break up, that's like refusing to be hit by a car. It happens no matter how hard you stand against it. If I were you I'd just be like, "We're DONE" and then stop all relationship-like behavior afterwards. Don't talk to him for like a week. Maybe don't even offer to be friends with him, just be like, "Sorry, even that's too much, I'm doing my own thing now." Lock your doors and windows, spend the afternoon at the really far away shopping mall... eventually he'll have to get the hint. Or a restraining order. Let's hope for hint.
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