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This guy I've been friends with for a long time is more spec


Question Posted Sunday October 12 2003, 9:29 pm

This guy I've been friends with for a long time is more special to me than a friend. Yet, sometimes, he makes me so goddamn angry; for some reason, we can't manage to make sustained eye contact or talk about much of anything. Though we have had some really deep moments/conversations. So I know I feel something, but I just don't want to be in a relationship with him, yet I want to be more than friends deep down inside. I think he may have the exact same feelings about me but I'm not entirely sure. If we just gave in to each other would everything be right? Or worse? Or the same? Is that question better left unanswered?

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spacefem answered Sunday October 12 2003, 9:29 pm:
I think if you really like each other, then sure, go for it. Maybe the conversation thing will work itself out, maybe not, but it's worth a try. I think it sounds like you do want a relationship with him. It may not sound like the most logical thing in your head, because of these barriers you've talked about, but some part of you is thinking hard about it.

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