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I've been chatting with a girl online, and she suggested mee
I've been chatting with a girl online, and she suggested meeting. She gave me her phone number. Sounded into meeting me. I figured it'd be kinda tacky to call her without ever meeting her, so I decided to wait. She says, "I don't make plans. One day I'll call, and we'll go out". Subsequently, she disappears offline for a week or 2.
Did I just stumble across a crazy person, who seems to like leading me to believe one thing, yet prove another with her actions? Or is this a regular sort of behavior, in meeting a woman?
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First, you should call her. One thing I've found with online friends is that over the phone, they become much more real, and you learn a million times more about them. They become more than the person on the other side of the computer when you hear their voice and have a real life conversation. Going straight from online chat to dinner and a movie sounds insane.
In addition, what were you expecting from her? If you just wanted to be friends, you should make that clear. If you expected her to meet you, shake your hand, then throw her arms around you and be your girlfriend for the next six months, then you were way overthinking the whole deal. If she's met someone and doesn't have time to meet you, then that's probably what she's afraid of. Either rethink your expectations or do a better job of communicating the fact that meeting you doesn't have to mean anything gigantic. I know that would scare me off.
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