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older love


Posted Friday September 9 2005, 6:55 am

I'm a twenty-one year old girl in love with a forty-seven year old man. We met at church, went back to my house on only the second time of meeting and had sex. After that he has been distant but kind. He says he feels afraid of his own disconnection. I don't know why, but I feel more for him than I have felt for anyone in a long time. I miss him when we're apart, even though we're not dating and I play it cool, determined not to crowd him or drive him off. But do bachelors that age remain bachelors?

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Why do looks matter in a relationship?


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 10:11 pm

My frined would like to know, since she insists even when she's dating somebody, looks wouldn't matter. This is what I told her:

And, you know what, looks do matter. Nobody would go out with me if my clothes were ragged, smelly wet and ripped jeans, my hair unbrushed, would they? I don't get you, looks do matter. I swear. I thought you liked somebody because they're cute, and cute=looks. Like=personality and/or looks.

So, you have to re-think what 'looks' means. You think your Dad married your step mom because of her personality? Yes, but not alone. he also cared aout her looks.

Also, if looks don't matter at all to you, why do you think Jesse is ugly? it's because of his LOOKS.

Wh...

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Pink Shirts , Rolled Sleeves , Secret Crush (again)


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 9:41 pm

I already asked this but idk i need more answers ! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!


Ok so Im a freshman and theres a new kid whos a sophmore, Macon, And he rides my bus and is in two of my classes on the other side of the room in one. Everyone thinks hes annoying becasue he asks a lot of stupid questions (beiing sarcastic) in class but i think its kinda funny. Hes kinda short but really cute. And idk if he even notices me besides when i get on the bus.. but i thought i saw him looking at me in spainish. I dont think i can ever EVER work up the nerve to talk to him. Im trying to look interested like today in class he said something and everyone laughed and i was laughing and i looked at him and smiled.. i think he saw. Hes a...

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help


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 9:33 pm

there is this guy who i've liked for like 2 years and we're like friends and all. and like a week ago i went over to his house and e were just talkig and then in the end i gave him a hug good bye and he kissed me2 time he is so sweet to me he supports me in everything i do. and he's deffinetly not a player well ever sense then we haven't talked alot but i mean we do like he called me the other day but i wasnt home...do u think it means he doesn't wanna be with me? do u think im looking too much into it ? what do you think i should do?

please help me out


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Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 9:30 pm

what are some good ways to bring up a past relationship when talking to your ex??
like for example if i want tot ell him that i still have feelings for hima nd that i miss him??..do i come out and just say it or what??

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Boyfriend


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 9:19 pm

I really liked my boyfriend, but I just started school and everything, and I kind of want to see whats out there. I really don't want to dump my boyfriend, but I still wanna like fish around I guess. Its a new school year and I want to make the best of it. I am not really sure what to do. I don't mean to sound like I am using my boyfriend or anything. If you could help it would be appreciated. Thanks a ton,

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HELP


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 8:47 pm

Hey! okay so i like this guy named zach. he's my best guy friend's friend. I barely know him at all. He doesnt really know me.. So what do i do?

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Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 7:47 pm

i have a boyfriend that i love much, but i have a best guy friend that i care for but hte feelings that i used to have are not there like they used to be, i havent seen my best guy friend in months. we used to hang out everyday and then one day he just dissapeared,now the other day he called my grandma's house out of the blue b/c he wanted to talk to me. well we talked but before we hung up the phone he said i love you, and i started laughing a little b/c i was surprised but i said it back even though i was laughing i told my boyfrind about it and he said he expects some other gy to do some crap like that i told my boyfriend everything but the thing is when my friend said i love you it kind of brought back some memories that the two of u...

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anyone pease!


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 7:33 pm

what do boys do to show a girl they like her

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presents??


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 7:27 pm

ok my boyfriend birthday is coming in 2 weeks he is turing 16. i have been with him for 3 months and i have an idea of what to get him but i dotn know if i should get more and which to get or both. i know he wants a hoodie which is 15 dollars at tillys (red) or either a 50 cent cd or tony yayo but i dont know if that is enough. i am also have a poem that i wrote and a picture of me to give to him.. do you guys think that would be enough?? and should i get the cd? if so which one? or the hoddie? thanks

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oh wow. stoopid boys.


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 6:56 pm

okayy well. i like this one boy. lets call him "Michael" alright?? okay well michael and i went out last year. and ive liked him like over the summer and this year at school. okayy well. im not sure if michael feels the same way. be4 school started me and a couple of friends played truth or dare and i made out with him like once. and then i like kissed him twice. anyways. that was august 20th. and its now septemeber 08. we talk on aim not too much in person.. and i really dont know if he likes me. i think he knows i like him cause every1 in the whole effing school does. and i mean. how do i fidn out if he likes me without me having to just be like. hey do u like me. I DO NOT want to tell him how i feel because.. that would make it...

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very important


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 6:27 pm

i know this may be a little gross but what exactly does it mean to pop a girls cherry? is it a bad thing?

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So like do you think i can get him?


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 6:17 pm

So i hang out in the small quad by myself because i dont have any friends and i wear glasses and im 5'2" and kind of have these roll thingys on my sides. but i think im really cute. and theres this guy Todd and he is so cute. hes a senior and im a freshman. he plays football and baseball and hangs out with all the popular group. i really love to watch digemon and i think he would like it to only if we got the chance to hang out. do you think if i talked to him he would like me and ask me out and we could get married.

love molly

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getting sick cuz of it all..


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 6:12 pm

my bf just broke up wiht me, and i am throwing up cuz of it, and i also can't breath wen im crying. what can i do to help?

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slut


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 6:09 pm

these two guys (one is my X who i never liked) think that i am a slut now because of a note that they misunderstood or something. i really dont care about theyre opinions but now theyre telling the whole school im a slut and thats theyre away message! what can i do?

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3 guys.. how do i choose??


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 6:09 pm

alright.. well i have a major problem here.. theres this guy chris ( my ex from a year ago.. hes 20 im 16) well weve gone through some bad times but i always end up forgiving him and going back to him.. hes such a sweet heart and weve been hanging out alot lately and he text me the other night and asked if i thought we could ever try being together again.. but im not sure if i want to ...

then theres nick hes 15 (which age doesnt bother me) we met in summer skool and well he likes me and hes very funny and sweet and he is very good at making me smile.. we always are hugging and flirting in class and everyone tells me he likes me and i like him too!!..and i just feel liek theres something there.

then theres br...

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why wont he call?


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 5:11 pm

my boyfriend tells me he loves me. but he never calls me... he says he's shy ...but, he is sooo not shy. what should i do?

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idk help me


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 5:04 pm

okay my ex bf , i dont know i still have feelings about him and he says he still likes me too but i dont no what to do he went to the dance with me and didnt even dance because he "didnt no how" but i always think about him i dont know if he feels the same way but im so confused right now please help idk what to do should i ask him back out or wait for him to ask me back out
♥ Michaele♥

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How to get him back,


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 5:04 pm

Okay Me and My boyfriend, just broke up because of school, we don't go to the same school anymore & he only can hang out with girls 2 a week, has to be home at 5;30 on school days, he's not allowed to have anyone over during the day, his parents both work, and his parents would kill him if he went over my house or any girls house without them knowing, or home. he does like me still but a little bit.

how can i get him back? I will try everything
i am hanging out with him tomorrow so

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holly i'm screwed


Posted Thursday September 8 2005, 4:53 pm

well over the summer i got lonely so i tured to my ex boy friend Gary and well got a little closer so we decided we were going to try it again after the first week of school....which would mean....on saturday....most girls would be exited at this time right? wrong...i'm having second thoughts because i fell for one of the guys i hated most last year(we didnt get along at all) but this year he opens up doors for me..gives me hugs everytime i see him...and we play fight constently....so ya you could see why this is hard.....i kinda dont want to tell Gary i dont want to go out anymore because i dont want to hurt him and he's so exited that he's getting another chance so what should i do....go for the ex boy friend that made me miserable when w...

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