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How should I convince her to have sex with me before marriage?
Please my girlfriend is a virgin and is 19 years old.I wanted to have sex with her but she keep on telling me that she will not do it until we got married.How should I convince her to have sex with me
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Don't pressure her.
Wait if you truly loves her.
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I'm sorry, but you're not going to get the answer that you want from here. YOU CAN NOT CONVINCE A GIRL TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. Don't push her to compromise her values and beliefs.
Maybe you should wait also,
Andrew
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You don't. She has said no and that is all she needs to say on the matter. If you continue to push her to have sex with you then you are sexually harassing her which is a crime.
Your girlfriend has chosen to save the most precious gift a woman can give a man for her husband. You should understand this and accept this. If the only reason for dating her is to have sex with her then find another girl to date.
There are very few women like your present girlfriend who are willing to wait to have sex until they marry. There are more than enough women out there who feel differently and if they wish to have sex with you will do so without your needing to beg them for it.
My advice is as I have said. If your only interest in this girl is for sex; then find another girlfriend.
p.s. You are no longer a minor and sexual harassment is a real crime for which you can go to jail if she were to file a police complaint. So stop pushing to have sex with her and stay out of jail.
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You shouldn't.
You should listen to what she says and respect her position on the subject.
If it's important to you to have a relationship that includes premarital sex, then is not the right partner for you.
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You don't.
If she doesn't want to have sex until she is married, you respect that because she is your girlfriend. If you try to convince her to do otherwise, you're not respecting her wishes and her boundaries and it would make you a bad boyfriend.
If you care about this girl at all, you'll drop trying to have sex with her and let her come to you. If she changes her mind, she will let you know but you need to be patient and not try to pressure her or convince her to have sex with you when she's not ready.
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I'm sorry but you can't "convince" your girlfriend to have sex with you if she isn't ready. When she is ready she will consent. Don't push her, that will make her less willing to do so before marriage. You'll have to be patient.
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