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Ok so this is for my friend. She is 13 (yes she has her period) So she had sex with her boyfriend (and her bf also went through peburity)and so they didn't use a condom. And he said he did cum.. is there a possibility that she could get pregnant? She is just really worried and wants to know.
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Yes it is definitely possible for her to be pregnant.
The fact that they didn't use a condom makes it ten times worse. If it's been like 72 hours after they had sex, she could get plan b.
Make sure she knows the consequences before she does something like this again.
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Yes its possible.
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Short answer: If all the factors were right, meaning she was ovulating, then the chances of her being pregnant are almost 100%.
A woman or most women ovulate for a period of 3 days some time in the middle(14 days) of their menstrual cycle. So depending where in her cycle she had sex depends on whether or not she could be pregnant. If she thinks she is pregnant she should tell her mother and get a test kit and follow the instructions on the package as to when to test. Unfortunately she is a year to young to buy this on her own.
The grandfather in me says I have to give a short lecture here both for you and here.
At age 13 and even older you are way to young to be having sex. Yes I understand the pressure boys put on you but understand one thing about teenage boys. They do not define love like a teenage girl. They define love and lust as the same.
A teenage boy going through puberty is hard wired to find sex. He needs to release the pent up sexual energy caused by the hormones puberty brings on. Hence the word horny. HE would prefer intercourse to masturbation as it makes him feel like a man if he scores with a girl.
To a teenage boy sex is mostly mechanical and has very little if anything to do with love. They will tell a girl anything she wants to hear to get her to have sex with him. The most famous line in history of men is telling a girl; "If you love me you will have sex with me."
You do not have sex to prove your love for someone. Sex is the result of a long term relationship where love has already been proven between you. Any boy who uses that line on a girl, the girl should tell him to make love to Miss thumb and her four sisters for he is not in love with her. He is just horny.
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Yes,there is a probability, so just run down to a drug store and get a pregnancy test, and even if its a bit awkward she should tell her mom. And just for the record.... i wasnt having sex at 13....
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If she was in her ovulating time frame, YES she can be pregnant. If its still 72 hours since she had sex, her mom could buy her plan b at pharmacy, the morning after pill. If it's been longer...she can purchase a pregnancy test and read the instructions that tell you how long after sex, how many days or weeks before it can pick up a pregnancy or not. there's such a thing as taking the test too early.
Relying on a period coming on time is not a good thing because her stress of wondering is going to have an affect on possibly making her late, just as being sick can make her late.
Any female, even if only age 10, if they are being sexually active, need to go to planned parenthood and get on a contraceptive. they don't turn anyone away because of age and the parents don't have to know.
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