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my questioned is about sex?
what age did you lose your virginity and how should I be. Don't worry I am not an judge mental person.I am a female and 12 about to be 13 on may 21.
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I have not lost it yet but I want to. And I am only thirteen I am just thinking about finding. Girlfriend and having sex
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Hi, I'm old enough to be your Grandfather so let me offer some advise that parents don't usually offer.
Your just a few months shy of entering your teenage years. A time in your life where you learn how to be an adult and to exist in the adult world. You mature in many ways during this time mostly because of hormones that are now starting to make changes in you and your body.
Among these changes are sexual awareness and sexual urges. During this period most teenagers have a number of relationships with the opposite sex. Rarely do any of them turn into life long relationships.
This is where the problem of sex comes in. For boys sex, love and lust get all mixed up. There sexual needs compels them to confuse lust for love; not all boy but the great majority of them. For girls it is different. A girl needs to feel she is loved if she is to have sex. To have sex to keep a boyfriend is wrong and it is wrong to haves sex to prove your love for someone. One of the oldest living lines a boy will use on on a girl is "IF YOU LOVE ME YOU WILL HAVE SEX WITH ME." If ever a boys says something like this to you run, don't walk as far away from him as fast as you can. He doesn't love you and most of all he doesn't respect you.
While it would be nice if women came to their marriage beds virgins, that ship sailed a long time ago. There are some women that do save their virginity for their husbands and that is their choice. No one thinks any less of them for doing so.
What will get you a reputation you do not want is to have sex at too early an age. Your present age is way to early. Your not mature enough and your body is certainly not ready even if you do look more womanly.
No one can tell you at what age to start having sex. All I can tell you is the longer you wait the better it will be. I would suggest that you at least wait until you are old enough to support a child should you become pregnant, meaning waiting at least until you graduate high school.
Everyday we get any number of letters from girls who think they are pregnant because they may or may not have had intercourse but a boys penis was close to their vagina and the were fooling around. Do you really need that kind of worry. For that is the result of having sex before you are truly old enough to have sex or any real sex play.
It is the girl and her parents that suffer the cost of teen sex. So think about it when a boy starts going to far. Set your limits and stick to them. Boys, the type of boys you want to eventually marry and bring home to dad will respect you for that.
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Hey there.. I was 16 but honestly 13 is way too young. You should wait for the right guy since you both aren't matured enough. And you need to be sure he is just not using you as some sex object. You surely don't want 2 end up being used.. So take your time. Be sure you people are in love and are ready for it.. :)
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I'm 16, still a virgin and happy for it. No need to rush it. You're only 13 or about to be =P Dont let some guy tell you he loves you just for sex. You might think you're ready but you really dont want to risk being with child for 9 month and upseting your family. Wait till you're older...college or maybe last year of highschool...i know if seems like a great fun thing..but i've read it's painful the fun time and everyone regrets it because they didnt really love the guy..they just had sex..not making love...you need to be able to call it making love before you do it...REALLY love the guy and know hes the one! Hope i helped!
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I'm almost 22 and still have not, and am totally fine with that!
Twelve or thirteen is too young, in my opinion.
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I was 17, you should definitely be waiting till you are older.
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I was 17 and glad I waited until that age! 13 is way to young.
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