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my friend cheating?
my friend and i were at a party. she has a boyfriend of over a year now, but she seems to flirt with every guy she sees. there was this one guy at the party who has liked her for awhile so people kind of made them hug. nothing wrong with hugging. but then she started to act differently around him and to me, everything she did is almost like cheating on her boyfriend. later on, her cousin invited her and i to sleepover at his house with his friends (my mom said no, so her mom didnt let her either). the thing is, she REALLY wanted to sleepover. i think she wanted to be with that guy all night. so, do you think i should just ignore it and let her do what she wants, or should i tell her boyfriend?
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ok well shes NOT cheating. but its not right what shes doing either. talk to HER not her boyfriend. just tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants him or her boyfriend because she has to choose. just explain to her that what shes doing is wrong. but I wouldnt tell her boyfriend yet. if she cheats then tell him.
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Well technically, she's not actually cheating. But, if what she's doing really makes you feel that you need to tell her boyfriend about it, then do. But, first I would talk to her about it. Be like, " why wouldn't you tell anyone at the party you have a boyfriend, I understand that you want to have your fun, but you have been going out with this boy for over a year, and do you honestly want to treat him like this. Are you just doing this for attention? What's the deal? "
Either she likes this other boy, or she just wants the attention. So do what you'd like to do. Hope I helped, and good luck!
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tell him, and talk to her about it. that's horrible of her!
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Have you talked to her about how you feel? It will just make her really angry if you go off telling her boyfriend how you feel without telling her. If she doesn't respond and gives a lame answers like no I don't like him and that's it then go ahead and help them. The poor guy doesn't need that. All your doing is informing someone about what's going on. They have to make the decision of whether to break up or not! =) Hope I helped.
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i think you should tell her boyfriend what you think but you shouldnt provoke him to break up with her.
hope i helped :]
Jess
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