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ugh.. i guess you cant please everyone
me and this one girl have been best friends forever.. and she got into a huge fight with my other best friend about 3 months ago.. now i hear shit from the both of them about the other ALL THE TIME and one of them is mad at me because they say that i hang out with the other one too much.. but i dont! i just try to make everyone happy!.. what should i do?
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hopeless
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Wow, you pretty much explained some of the things that are happening to me!
First of all, if you're best friends with both of them, then you should sit down with the both of them and talk to them about it if it's bothering you that much. I know that sounds like the dumbest thing you've ever heard because you know that they'll probably just be catty towards eachother, but it's worth a try.
You'll be the better person by possibly stopping the never-ending fight. Hope this helps!
**Bethany**
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you can't please everyone, but you should try to tell them what kind of position your in, its not easy being the person stuck in the middle of everything!! good luck!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe <3
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Stand up for yourself.
These people have to understand that yes - you do have other friends. and they have to get over themselves.
if you feel comfotible with it, comfront them and tell them to stop getting on your back. You are entitled to hang out with whomever you want.
good luck.
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just tell them how you feel about it. say how you dont like being stuck in the middle of their fighting, and your friends with both of them.. if one of them start talking to you about the other just say im friends with her please dont talk about her to me. they might get a little mad at first.. but they will soon realize they shouldnt be..
hope i helped
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manda
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As you said, you can't please everybody. Nor should you even try.
You need to tell them both...I am friends with both of you. From now on I do not want to talk with either of you about the other. We can talk about anything else, but not my other friend.
If you are asked by both to do something, do something with whoever asked you first. That is fair. If you want to let the other know, just say I can't go __ with you because I was already asked to do __ with other friend. She asked first.
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