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hi, i used to have a friend named hayley. well she invited me over one day to come swim at her house. well i told her i didnt want to because i had to go to a party later...and so after that day, i havent talked to her in like 3 months. She said she never wants to talk to me ever again and that we were never friends to begin with..i miss her so much..our friendship, to me, was special and it hurts so much when i know its gone
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well no affence but you shouldnt of told her you didnt want to! you shoulda told her you had other plans no that you didnt want to. if i were her i wouldnt talk to you either
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Well the problem was what you did by saying a little thing like "I don't want to go". That really hurts, it probably made her feel like dirt. So my suggestion would be, just talk to her and explain to her that you didn't mean to hurt her feelings and it was kind of a missunderstanding. Tell her what you told us - you miss your friendship, and you miss hanging out together. Maybe then the friendship will be back on track. Good luck =)
♥ Rachel
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Wow thats like mean though. First of all I think you should try and talk to her about it. And explain why you couldnt go swimming. Because it's stupid to not talk to you for 3 months because of that. You had a reason why you couldnt go. Try and talk to her about it. hope I helped <3
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Sometimes just change itself hurts. It may not be about her specifically. Just realizing a piece of your life is gone is saddening sometimes. It's just the way humans work. She doesn't sound good for you, and as sad as it is that she's gone, you'll have more happy memories to come if you focus on caring friends. Your not alone in the world, alot of people drift from eachother. Hopefully you can just shrug it off, and not give her the time of day because she's downright rude!
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um..i thought you do the answers
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