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One of my BFF's Ok i have so many friends, but one of the mjus wont like leave me alone! She wants to were her hair like me and wants to dress the same but i cant deal with this until senior year!and im only goin ot hte 7th grade!! I am starting to get real tired of this and i dont kno how to tell her with out hurting her feelings or anything. PLEASE help me
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Headache&Miserable
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You should talk to her. I meant, tell her that you're not her twins and you don't want her to dress like you and anything,politely. Also tell her that, it doesn't mean that you don't like what she's doing, just tell her it's kinda annoying. She will understand if she's your truly friend. Hope I helped!
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i think you should sit doen and have a serious talk with your friend. show her different ways she can wear her hair instead of always doin it like yours. pick out some cute outfits for her to wear. tell her you dont want to look like everyone else and that you want to look like your own person. =) ]
just talk to her... tell her you need some space- do it nicley - you dont wanna loose her- or play matchmaker and get her a boyfriend! ]
Dear, Headache&Miserable
Well I think I know how to put up with your problems. Well one day maybe you should well wear something she wouldnt like maybe go shopping with her and see the things she doesnt like maybe if you wear that for a day she will maybe get out of you hair.
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try explaining to her that instead of copying you she should try finding her own styles like try taking her shopping and see what she likes that you might not wear or something like that
good luck!!*
-kARa
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Hi. Well a simple suggestion would be to encourage her own uniqueness and her differences. For instance, if you like to wear your hair up and she stars doing it you can say "you should do your hair in a pony tail again. It really looks much nicer and it's so you." If you guys are really close maybe you should have some space from each other. If she's always following you around try introducing her to some friends so she won't smuther you so much. Also ask her about her own opinion before telling her yours. Well good luck with!! ]
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