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Question Posted Friday August 19 2005, 8:20 pm

I am thirteen and i don't care for guys that much but i have auburn hair, around five foot though alot of people consider me short, skinny (well thats what everyone says) and play alot of sports. Almost like everyone in my grade has either been asked out or has had a boyfriend/girlfriend. I have never been asked out and i am just wondering if i should be concerned about that. I am not interested in having a boyfriend but i just feel.. left out i guess because almost everyone has been asked out but me.

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Courckypooh answered Saturday August 20 2005, 12:47 pm:
In middle school usually we don't go out on dates.. so if you keep getting asked out and tehre's no more guys left to date, what are you gonna do in high school?
The whole middle school dating thing is big in the 6th grade, and gets less and less important in later middle school grades, and is just regular dating in high school.
You really don't want to waste your time and energy on some loser who you're only gonna date for a week, right?

I don't think there's anything to worry about, but if it's really something that you want to persue, start flirting with some guys, but don't be too obvious. Just enjoy whats left of your boy free life, cuz after that things are gonna get real wierd and complicated.

Good luck!
<3 Kylie

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Razhie answered Saturday August 20 2005, 10:31 am:
Guys aren't completely daft. They can probably pick up on the fact you aren't really interested. You probably make that clear before they even get so far as asking you out and that's just fine. Wait around for a guy you are actually interested in having as a boyfriend.

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Dakmor answered Saturday August 20 2005, 8:33 am:
=( I sympathize for you. You really shouldn't worry. Dates are just a come-and-go thing, and they happen at different times for different people. Don't feel left out! Good luck!

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xoMickey27xo answered Saturday August 20 2005, 7:44 am:
lol, its ok...many boys just want or have a girlfriend to be cool at your age. if you know your pretty, smart,etc. then the boys are blind.

Just give it time.



xoMickey27xo

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Klee0488 answered Friday August 19 2005, 10:34 pm:
You know wat dont worry about it im 17 and i still havent gotten asked out well i have but i never have been in those serious relationships. You 13 still and sum guys arent looking to have a gf that much like they just want a gf cause they think its cool. Dont worry you and me both will have our chance sumtimes. I feel left out to sumtimes but yet just gives me more time to do wat i want when i want and not have to worry about sum1 holding me back from doing it.

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xomegaroni answered Friday August 19 2005, 10:31 pm:
don't worry about it! really. i know alot of people that are really pretty and fun and stuff and haven't been asked out either. guys usually ask the girls that seem really interested in them out, so they don't get rejected. idk how it works exactly since ima girl, but i wouldn't be worried about it. here's a quote- "girls are like the apples on the tree. the ones on the bottom are easy to get so alot of guys go for those so they don't have to work for them. yet the ones on top are alot more difficult to grab and worth much more. those are the ones that wait for their real prince to climb up the tree and get them" haha i thought that was cute =)

-hope that helped!&hearts;

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