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Question Posted Saturday January 1 2005, 10:32 pm

Ok I have a question?? I was at this party... and this guy was there and he waited until I was all messed up. I fell asleep and he woke me up and all the sudden I feel an arm goin around me! He wouldn't stop touching me when I told him to. I tried to move but he wouldn't let me! I told my friend and stuff and then I talked to his girlfriend about it and she doesn't believe me!! And then a couple days later I found out he was labeled as a sex offender before!! I wouldn't let anyone call the police cuz I didn't want to get involved in that! Now,to tell you he was 20 and I am 15 and the sick part is he was like my brother, he was a family friend and was always there for me. Tell me how come I miss him and still cry about what happened. Will someone please tell me what to do and I rate high! THANKS

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xoih3artyouxo answered Saturday January 8 2005, 12:00 pm:
you need to call the police and get the person arested for what he did. the cops will do something about it. talk to your parents about this!
xOx morgan

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eternity answered Sunday January 2 2005, 12:17 pm:
I think you should just beat the crap out of that blowhead. Yeah, the police won't do anything. So just hire a hitman to shoot him with a tranquilizer and hire a gay guy to screw him up the butt. OR, you could just gang rape him with all of your awesome friends like I do to all my enemies! ~Jordan Wang~

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Sparky answered Sunday January 2 2005, 3:38 am:
You need to sit down with your parents and tell them what happen and then you should go to the police about it. Even though you may not want to get involved in the whole police thing but he has done this before and it is very likly that he will do it again and next time it could be someone close to you and i know you wouldn't want that to happen. When it comes to sexual crimes it is hard for the victum to come foward for diffrent reasons but it is best if they do so that way they can hopefully hold that person responsible and make that person pay for their crime plus it will protect others from a repeat of what happen to them. Also the police will be able to help you with counsling if you would like. In all its your choice but the right one would be to say something to people that can help.

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jamziix16 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:53 pm:
i know you don't want to call the cops, but i'm sure it's for the best. or you could tell your parents. that's something you really need to take seriously. it is a big deal. this guy can get into serious trouble. i think you really should call the cops. good luck and i hope everything works out!

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hyperNerd05 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:43 pm:
well i know you dont wanna get in to this whole thing about telling the cops but in the end i think it would be best and i think the reason that your crying over what happend and that you miss him is because he was so close with your family and a you and that he was always there for you,you would never think that he would do somthing like this to you. for his girlfriend not believing you i think you should talk to her agen and show her the information that you found that he was a sex offender or just chech him if you have 3way on your phone then call her up and then call him up and get him to admitt to what he has done believe me it works all the time
-*Tori

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eyeloveyou603 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:32 pm:
I think what you need to do is tell someone! anyone!! not aomeone on this chat but someone face to face. a counselor or a parent. this guy could make other people feel the exact same way that he made you feel just because you didn't tell anyone what he did to you. not only is this wrong because you told him not to do it.. but he is 20!! he is grown man.. if you don't tell someone about this now he could seriously hurt someone. including you. in the end. it is up to you what you will do with the situation. but i say that you need to tell someone.

♥ Katie

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SammieLovesMatt00 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:31 pm:
call the cops.. yeah hes a friend but if he almost raped you.. then save otehr girls from him.. call the cops!

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truadvice answered Saturday January 1 2005, 11:00 pm:
you trusted him and you were close thats why you miss him . if he's a sex offender though you really do need to call the police because lets say he goes to a party with 13 or 14 year olds ... imagine how they will feel or if he's alone with a really little child who has no idea whats happening to them . you could probably stop what he's doing and then no one else will have to cry like you . if you really dont want to got to the police then i suggest you tell his parents even though he's 20 ... they may persuade him to get help or meds to stop him from doing these things .

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Bballbabe35 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 10:49 pm:
Well if he didn't respect your answer of "NO" the he doesn't respect you.. Im sorry but I would want nothing to do with him any more.. if his girlfriend didnt believe u who cares she prolly believes you just doesn't want that to be the truth so she denys it.. if you are worried about him DOING OTHER STUFF I would seek some help like a school counselor your parents or just a friend to talk to. if you dont want the police to get involved then just threaten him and tell him if he does it again you will call the police.. sorry hun write me if u need too -Kaydee

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xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx answered Saturday January 1 2005, 10:37 pm:
It sounds like you have feelings for him but he does have a girlfriend and girls can get bitchy so try to move on and find another guy by your age who will touch you like hold your hand and hold you and make you feel good about yourself..good luck hun..hope everything works out
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

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NEVERLETG00 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 10:35 pm:
tell your mom about it, and def call the police thats not good for the guy to do that, and hes over 18 and you can get him in alot of trouble for doing that, and i think you should, no matter what anyone should not take advantage of you. thats not right, tell someone about it and call the cops or something because thats illegal. x0 Renee HAPPY NEW YEAR

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sweetjewel answered Saturday January 1 2005, 10:35 pm:
that is like sexual harassment.... you need to tell your parents or the police, he could go to jail for that

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