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me or her?? or am i her?
-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)
ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx
P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again
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Im gonna assume your name is marissa... anyway it sounds like he is flirting with you, he likes you but he wants to make sure you like him b4 he says anything and makes himself seem like a fool...
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Hey hun...yeah its a little confusing! But a way I believe the girl could be you and then again it couldn't...your right though we do have it harder b/c we do have to turn down guys we don't like and all they have to do it ask (then have the fear of being rejected)! It's sorta hard to tell but I personally think that he likes you..because he wouldn't have said "you do" when you said I like you! If he didn't care then he would be like oh ok that's cool! He might be afraid to ask you out because you did say you rejected 5 guys before. But what you really have to do is talk to him and tell him how much you really like him! Even though you may not feel right doing it..its better to take your chances than not and wonderful for the rest of your life what it could have been like if you just took the chance..if the worst comes of it you guys could always remain friends! don't let this ruin your friendship by any means at all!! Let me know how it goes..sorry if I didn't help....I hope I did! -Kristen
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I really don't know what to tell ya about if it's you he's liking or another girl. Why not come right out and ask him? Maybe he's hinting around for you to ask him out so he doesn't get turned down. So, my suggestions would be, if you like him ask him out, if you don't like him that way just give him the best advice you possibly can, which sounds like you are doing that already.
Good Luck.
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its a big possibility that it could be you who he wants to ask out. thats probably why he keeps asking you questions about not getting turned down. but if he really does like this girl marissa and he wont take your advice by saying just be yourself, then tell him that you wont help him out anymore if hes going to be stubborn.
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ok next time he asks you how to ask a girl out just tell him to say this: "hey i was wondering if you wanna go to a movie with me on saturday night or something, no pressure or anything!" and tell him 2 say it really nicely and stuff, and be relaxed! or if hes scared about being rejected, suggest asking her to group events first, and then start going out solo! that should work! do you like this boy?? haha i deff. think its harder being a girl, i mean yea we get hurt sometimes, but alot of the time we do the hurting! if you need anything else just ask! x0x0x0x!!!
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well do you like him? if you do go for it don't be afraid1 it sounds to me that he's kinda interested in the 2 of u having a relationship but is just scared to tell you how he is feeling! he probably wants to ask you out but he is probably again to afraid of rejection!!
*BeSs*
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From the sounds of it. It sounds like her has feelings for you, yet at the same time he might for this other chick. I would just ask him straight up what he thinks. Ask him if he likes this other chick or you. Thats what I would do. Beating around the bush and trying to find clever ways of finding out can be confusing and often times lead to problems. You only live once, so why live with regrets. Just ask straight up.
I hope I helped you.
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I was kind of confused while reading this but then I thought about it and realized what you were asking. Your friend is really confusing with his words and actions but it might be that you are the one he likes. Has he talked about what this girl looks like or acts like or anything else about her besides her name?
It does sound alot like you are the one he likes you, and I think it's a possiblity. Why don't you just ask him to stop being so confusing and just tell you if he really does like you or not.
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