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Did I do something wrong?
Saturday I was out at the mall with my friend. We go out together almost every night, but we never really have set plans...just hang out and find random things to do. While we were shopping, my cousin called to ask if I could babysit. I told him I would call him back and I told my friend. She told me to do whatever I wanted and I asked several times if she would rather me hang out with her. She said it was fine and I apologized because I felt like I was ditching her. She still told me it was fine. Well she hasn't talked to me since. I've left messages on her computer and her phone and still nothing and I dont' know what else to do! Did I do something wrong that I am not seeing? And should I just give her time to come around?
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Dude.. you didn't do anything wRong at all!! I hope to DeaR God youR fRiend would undeRstand the situation, but peRhaps she doesn't. If she IS mad about this, I would just give heR sometime. She'll come aRound eventually. They ALWAYS come cRawling back!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!!
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no u did nothing wrong... shes oviously attached to u and got mad becuz she wasnt ur center of attention at the moment... shell get over it... shes not a good friend if she ignores u becuz u babysat ur cousin's kid.. so screw her u could do better than that
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no sweety you didn't do anything wrong at all! first of all if your cousin was asking you to babysit then hay there's some money you can make right there! *if you get paid for it* plus if you guys didn't really have any set plans or anything, it's not like she could be looking forward to something you 2 were going to be doing later that evening. plus you kept asking her if she minded and she told you "no". if she really did mind then she should have told you. so that's HER fault for not telling you the truth. next time you leave a message on her computer or her phone be like, thanks for calling me back and answering my messages i've been leaving you on the computer! it shows how much you really wanna hang out with me! and if she doesnt call you back or responde to your messages after that, then don't even try nemore. let her come to you. and remember, YOU did NOTHING wrong!
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Hey! Listen 1st of all there is something wrong with her, Bcuz you asked her several timez and she said its fine..but when you do it she got mad! That isnt a real friend then.Thats a Liar! In away it is lying bcuz she said it was alright..then all of the sudden its not alright. I dont think that you should wait for her. You need to go to her, and say you know what..Look I asked you if I can babysit and you said yea..Then when I do it you dont talk to me. Thats messed up..Whats ur problem? Thass how you needa do it. Talk to her and comfront her:D
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yes u did do something wrong because she said NO its okay cause she didn't want to be mean and the point of her say it's fine was to kinda tell u yes it's a big deal dont go and i think she thought u weren't gonna go but U DID!but really give her some time she will certainly come around.good luck peace and hope yall talk soon...:)
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I've had people do things like that to before, and I'm sorry to have to say, you've done all that you could to try and get her to come around. The same thing happened to me and I did the same thing things you did, and I know you feel like it's all your fault, but it isn't. There's other people out there, It took me awhile to learn that. Even if you have to be your only friend for awhile. Trust me, I've been through all the girl drama, she's just trying to give you the cold shoulder. You've done all you can do. Hope I could help =)
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you were helpping a family memeber she should understand that, if u guys hang out every night she shouldnt have a problem with not hangging out with you for one night. i would just wait until she comes around. u didnt do nething wrong... its all her girl
Nicole
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Seems like your friend didnt really want you to go i think it just hurts her ffelings that you left her,but im sure if shes a true friend she'll get over it..hoped i hlepd rate me plz
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I don't think you did anything wrong.'N you basically answered your question."should I just give her time to come around?" Yeah, that sounds like a good idea.She might have said that it was fine 'n all, but maybe to herself..it wasn't fine.Just keep trying to get in touch with her, 'n give her some time.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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