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my sisters boyfriend is cheap
ok when i go out to eat with my sister and her boyfriend he boyfriend always makes my sis pay shouldnt he pay now my sis has like no money so what should she do or i do?
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Well it depends if your sis asks him to got to eat or her boyfriend does. if they both ask they should at least both pay and split the bill or one gives the tip and the other person pays the bill.
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i think that she should tell her boyfriend that she cant keep paying for food shez gunna go broke n that he should pay every once in a while or they should should jus get seperate bills n each apy their own bill. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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Just tell her to speak up and mention she doesnt got much money-trix
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she should ask if he can pay next time unless hes poor then you guys shouldnt go out to eat n e more. wat a cheapo thats weird. well hope things work out and hope you dont end up poor lol.
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he makes her pay for all of you? damn that sucks. every date i've ever been on with my boyfriend, he wont LET me pay for anything. i think when your sister is put in that situation, she should offer to pay for half or something like that. or you could say "man you are so not a gentleman.. if you were, you'd pay for your date, cheap-o" and see what he says.
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TO: my sisters boyfriend is cheap
well ya cant reallie do anything since hes not YOUR boyfrend buh mehbe you should talk to your sis about it and tell her to talk to him saying stuff like "how bout you pay every now and then coz im runnin outta money payin fer you all the time and stuff" er sumthin like thah...i mean she cant pay ALL the time...ya noe?
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I definitly can see your concern for your sister! There's like an unwritten law that states if your boyfriend takes you out to dinner, he pays. With my boyfriend and I, he always pays but once in a while I'll ask him on a date and pay. If this is happening on every date, maybe your sis should say goodbye but if its just every once in a while maybe they should split the bill or he can pay for himself. One night when you are out eating, when her boyfriend asks for her to pay the bill, have your sister say I left my purse at home and see if he even brought money. If he doesnt start paying up, just eat at home. Good luck with your sisters CHEAP boyfriend!! =)
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It's a good thing you are concerned for her! You could talk to her about this if you wanted to. But I think what she should do is talk to her boyfriend. It would be good to say to him how she doesn't have a lot of money, and maybe when they go out to eat they can take turns or if he could help her out a little bit just until she gets some more money. He wouldn't know how she feels about paying unless she speaks up. So if you are going to tell her about this, tell her to speak up and let him know she can't pay right now. And if you notice she seems afraid of her boyfriend there is a problem. If her boyfriend is a nice guy he would probably understand this and give in a little more. Or they could stop going out to eat for awhile. You can tell your sister's boyfriend about this too. That's only if you wanted to, sometimes it would feel uncomfortable if you didn't know him well. Just by telling him how much you notice your sister is paying for everything should get the message across. But one of you needs to speak up. If she has already told him about this tell her try it again and if he still doesn't do anything about it maybe it's time for a new boyfriend. If she spends the rest of her life like this paying for everything, where will she end up? Hopefully things will turn out okay! Good luck to both of you! Love you! -Mandee
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have your sis talk to her b/f .. maybe they can split the bill half and half or the sis can say she forgot her wallet or she's broke.
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grl u need to have yr sis get a reallitie check on her boi `because if my boi did not pay for me once n a while we would b gone over wit it u should have ur sis go out to eat with u and ur sis and her boi and say u dont have no money than he will have to pay for u guys get a big meal i did that with mu boi because ii had toi pay for every meal and he got alot of food
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well all i got to say, he is cheap...tell him to pay cause, say she left her purse at home & she broke anyway...
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talkt o your sis and see wut she thinks of it
and then u could talk to her boyfriend about it
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