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Summer Blues
Okay my name is barb(ara)and im despratley in need of help.Last night i kried myself 2 sleep.I ussaly sleep at 11:00.its been one week now im sleepin at 1 a.m.Im soo mad like my mom and dad work even through summer and my dad works on saturdays and sundays soo like im always bymeslef stuck in my house doin nothing but x-box,tv,and computer.And my grandma is very cuatious bcuase she used 2 live in a huge city the 3rd biggest.So she wont even let me in our frontyard.I kno she kares but 2 much!I kant even watch bug juice becuase i hate seeing people hav fun while im not.And my friend kalled from summer camp n shes tottaly having fun i jus hung up on her!Please HELP BEFORE I BECOME TOTTALY SUMMERLESS AND I KRY 2 DEATH!
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um, you need to have a deep relationship with god. .age doesnt matter. I got baptized as a jehovahs wittness at 9. it gets really bad, and i kno it, but if you fing=d god, then he will make it all right. When the bible says that god is our savior, its right. and what problem could your mom have with coming to have an appreciation of god? if u need more help, email me at alissag42EXCITE.COM. im always here to help, but god is too!
Xoxo Alissa-marie
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Find a hobby. Do you like to draw? Or would you like to play a musical instrument? How about going to a summer camp where you will be supervised by adults (so grandma won't worry)? Are there any youth groups you can join? Maybe you can join a choir if you like to sing. The answer is to be active. Don't just sit around and watch TV or play video games. Get out and meet others, join groups, attend classes, and seize the opportunity to be active and involved! In my opinion, you'll find happiness that way.
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Barb,
Since you've talked to your mom & grandma and they didn't understand what you're feeling, I have one suggestion. Try praying. Jesus wants to hear all about your hurt and He wants to dry thoses tears. He loves you very much and He will never leave you alone. He can also change your mom's heart and dad's heart and show them you are more important than their work. Trust Him, Barbara, Jesus wants to be your best friend. Be sure to write me and tell me all about what Jesus did. 'k?
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Well when your parents get home ask them if you can spend the night at your friends house or go over some time. So your summer isnt as boring now that you have friends to hang out with. Or have friends goto your house. But next sumemr maybe you should sign up for camp or something to. Make plaisn ahead of time. Hope iv helped a little dont be afraid to write back.
Signed
Short N Punky
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I think that you should talk to your parents about your grandma and tell them you wanan get out more and do things more..I know its not really serious crying alot but its not good it has taken me to sucide a couple of times and thats not good so talk to them is what I think.
Hope I helped.
-Haleigh (ask me nething u want)
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i think you should talk to your parents about your grandma. everyone needs fresh air and exercise...its healthy...maybe you could have your friends who are in town come over and you can have sleepovers and stuff. im sure if there are more people then maybe your grandma will let you hang out outside more.
hope this helps!
-Sarah-
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oK, i DoNt ThInK ThAt YoU should run away from home, because your parents might think ur a psycho and let u out even LESS! but, u should talk to them and ur grandma and try to convince them to let u out...tell ur grandma to go with you when u go somewhere(it might be a drag, but its better than being indoors ur whole summer) if all else fails, find something to do inside like search for the meaning of life(you might find out!)and maybe even reinvent urself!
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You need to find time to talk to your parents about having a chat with your grandma about letting you out. let your grandma know you are trustworthy, and yuo are going to be okay. Let them know you are miserable and that you've been crying, and you need to get out the house and have fun on your summer vacation because it is not fair that you are stuck in the house all day. If you don't get out soon you're going to fall into a block of depression, so go talk to them and make your point clear, don't give up untl some type of comprimise is made. Good Luck! :)
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run away
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