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Am I crazy and have I lost it ? I feel there is something wrong:(


Posted Monday January 14 2019, 12:45 am

I’ve been through so much in my life... growing up with alcoholic parents and alcoholic friends as an only child. Pretty much gotten 2 DUIs... and gotten in trouble for shop lifting I have to pay this class and money. I’m going to be 25. My parents are 64! My parents relationship ship has always been pretty bad fighting a lot my mom is a big time alcoholic. With still going through this court stuff without having a license and not being able to drive.. my mom fell back on her head had to get stitches, my dad is on disability with his knee, they have to get a loan on the house, I have deal with a bf that is an alcoholic we were off and on. I’ve lost his trust but he’s done crazy shit though as well from alcohol but yet I stay with h...

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What should I wear ?


Posted Sunday January 13 2019, 5:51 pm

I am a 29 year old female and I got a new job . I Start working at the Library tomorrow morning. I am nervous and excited. I waa just wondering what should I wear on my first day. They told me to dress like I was going to church on a Wednesday night . I went and bought some jeans with rhinestones on the back of them and a black sweatshirt with a bible verse on the front . Is this appropriate?

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Does how my mother treating me count as verbal abuse?


Posted Sunday January 13 2019, 5:23 pm

My mother gets angry very easily, and yells and screams at me and my younger brother almost every day, although it is more often at me. I did do something wrong, but it is often very trivial (or at least I think so), like me leaving my sweater on the floor and forgetting to pick it up. She often says derogatory things to me, things like, "You don't deserve this", or "When you grow up, you'll become a stupid, useless, lazy person." She gets in my face a lot, but it has never escalated to anything physical. However, there are times when she is kind, and although she never apologizes for screaming at me, it's not like I have a bad life. My family is well-off, and I'm grateful for that so I feel a little guilty writing this....

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What should I do?


Posted Saturday January 12 2019, 10:52 pm

So, I applied for this hard core fancy school I guess and I really just joined to make my mom proud and i felt obligated in a way. In my heart, I do not think I am eligible for the school’s system and will not pass the test they require. On the same day of the test, I have a volleyball tournament and I missed on the week before and feel I will lose playtime or even my position. It may sound self fish or that I put sports over education but I am just very confused. I don’t know what I should do and could really used advice.

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Boyfriend mother


Posted Friday January 11 2019, 6:58 pm

My boyfriend wants me to introduce myself to his mother while his in Dubai. I have no idea what and how. Advice please.

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life after rehab


Posted Friday January 11 2019, 2:32 pm

When I finally get to the point that I feel like I am ready to socialize with people who may or may not be sober, I face this question, “Do I want to go to happy hour?” Anticipating the changes I will face after leaving recovery rehabs.

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helpppppp


Posted Wednesday January 9 2019, 6:21 pm

okay so I like this dude named lucifer. We dont have any classes together or anything and when we text i always hit him up and today was like the first time we talked in person I just walked up to him and was like what class do u have next and he said computers why and i said oh i was just wondering. And im stuck should i stop hitting him up and wait for him to hit me up? should i just forget him and move on? i just really need help.

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Birthday Trouble


Posted Tuesday January 8 2019, 5:57 am

I am going to be turning twenty-six on March 16. For my birthday, I have an entire weekend of activities planned for my birthday. Anyway, I used my Christmas money to buy tickets for Justin Timberlake’s Man of the Woods Concert at Oracle Arena in Oakland on Friday, March 15 at 7:30 PM. However, m parents do not want me to attend the concert because my birthday is the next day and I am going to be meeting up with some friends of mine in Monterey and San Jose the next day. Despite this, I would still like to attend the concert. I gave eye xtra tickets to a couple friends of mine so we can all go to the concert together, but now I may have to sell my ticket to my friend’s parents. Another reason why my parents do not want me to attend the ...

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backup android contacts


Posted Tuesday January 8 2019, 5:38 am

How to backup my android contacts to computer?

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How to handle this kind of feeling?


Posted Saturday January 5 2019, 1:05 pm

Maam/Sir:

I feel so down today. I want to open up this to my friends but I was so shy to ask for an advice. I''ve been a guitarist in our church for about 1yr now and still I feel like, I''m not improving. I have also my churchmate, a guitarist, and I felt envy sometimes because, she was better than me. Everybody notices her. I''m so proud of her and smiled at her but deep inside, it hurts me. And I also felt like my mentor like to teacher her more than me because I am slow. Any advices? or Encouragements? Thank you. ❤️

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What happens when a college class gets cancelled because of low enrollment?


Posted Saturday January 5 2019, 12:15 pm

I have to take this class but there's only 3 students enrolled so far. It has been postponed but this class is a requirement for me to take. What if they never get more students enrolled?

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self confidence for university


Posted Saturday January 5 2019, 4:11 am

I will be going to university in one year and i am a bit worried due to having no self-esteem and self confidence. I am a very anti social and introvert person. What should i do because i have no idea how will i deal with it. Also that "Fake it, till you make it. be brave no one can tell" thing doesn't work, i have tried it.

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Universities In Lahore


Posted Saturday January 5 2019, 4:03 am

I am looking for a prestigious university in Lahore for Bsc (hons) physics and i am not sure where to go and my marks of matriculation don't meet per requirement. What should i do to get my self in a good place?

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My boyfriend’s family does not want him to date me because I am not Muslim


Posted Saturday January 5 2019, 12:54 am

We are in our 20s and don’t know what to do. The only option given to me is for me to convert to being muslim. It sucks because he does not want to let down his parents and wants his parents to accept me. If they find out he is still speaking to me, they would arrange a marriage for him and force him to marry whomever they choose. They even told him if I decide to convert my whole family basically would have to do the same or do whatever is “halal” like his family. Which I think is nonsense cause my family would never do such a thing. I really feel like his parents just don’t want him with me...There has to be another way to get through this. Yes, conversion is a big step to take in my life but I really do love him and can picture a...

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Should I still apply?


Posted Friday January 4 2019, 5:36 pm

So there’s this job that would be perfect for me, that requires two qualifications,I’m not qualified for it yet but by the time the job starts (May) I would be qualified for it because it’s something I’m going to learn at school so if you were in my shoes would you still apply or just find a another job?

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I feel stuck with my S.O, am I being selfish?


Posted Friday January 4 2019, 1:40 pm

I feel like I'm trapped with my S.O. because he makes really good money and has what's considered a top notch career. My whole family would probably judge me if I ever left him and so would my friends.

I'm not exactly unhappy, but he's also not who I want to spend the rest of my life with. I cook and clean for him while I work and go to school. He's selfish and pushes me really hard to unreasonable expectations. Even though he makes really good money he still makes me pay half of rent and our other expenses, which I don't think is fair because he makes more than I probably ever will. I think he's kind of boring and he doesn't satisfy me in bed. He thinks extremely highly of himself and looks at everybody else as peons. Some...

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When should we begin to sleep together


Posted Wednesday January 2 2019, 1:09 pm

when should my girlfriend & I start sleeping together?

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How to get my dad to stop treating us like little kids?


Posted Wednesday January 2 2019, 7:43 am

I’m 20 years old my siblings are 18 and 15, my dad keeps treating us like little kids. For example he will talk to us in third person he’ll literally say “your dad isn’t feeling well today” as if we don’t know who he is. I’ve told him multiple times to stop talking in third person but he doesn’t listen. Whenever we want to go out or do something he’ll say “I’ve seen more days than you guys you’ve never been exposed to what the world really is” however how are we supposed to know if we can’t go out?. He’s not strict but there’s days where all of a sudden his strict parenting style comes out where he’ll force us to do chores and if we don’t listen he acts like a dictator. (2 years ago he actually slapped me...

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why are 90s music bands not as old as 60s music bands ?


Posted Tuesday January 1 2019, 10:18 am

recently i started liking some music from the 90s to the present day and musicains and bands from the 60s and 70s seem to have aged and ones the 90s and 2000s are still going strong and not real old curious to know why bands from the 90s to now are not as old as the ones from the 60s to the 80s ?

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Questioning my sexuality


Posted Monday December 31 2018, 3:33 pm

I have a strong feeling that I’m gay, but I also like guys...I like all genders, but i know I’m asexual. I want to come out to my parents, but they say they would accept me. The thing is I know they won’t...especially my mom. I know I should keep it in until I find the one while disregarding the gender...i just wonder what I actually am.

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