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How to eat healthy without cooking


Posted Monday February 3 2020, 12:18 am

Hi I'm a 25/f, and I have a super busy life working and taking care of my one year old. My job is very later back so I'm not as active as I'd like to be, and my diet is extremely bad. I would love to make healthy meals at home, however my living situation makes that extremely difficult. My place doesn't have a kitchen, and the only way to make anything is to buy premade, or microwave it... I feel like surviving off microwave meals would be the death of me. What could I do to make this easier on me?

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Dating dealbreakers and disclosing information


Posted Friday January 31 2020, 1:33 pm

I have a vast history of sexual assault. I am in therapy and attempting to recover but I still struggle with the symptoms of PTSD on a daily basis. I am not necessarily comfortable talking about this part of my life with people and would prefer to not bring it up all together. Men, would you prefer a woman to be open about her past experiences? I don’t want to feel like I’m not being honest in relationships by not telling my partner. On the contrary, I am terrified of being seen as damaged goods and having way too much baggage for anyone to want to be with. Do you view women who are rape victims as too much drama and not worth it? Would it be a deal breaker?

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This girl love/loved me, but I don't know why she's giving me altitude


Posted Friday January 31 2020, 1:09 pm

23 years male from Nigeria..... I met this girl about two months ago in school, you see I just got admission into university and we are both in the same class. When I first met her we clicked we had so much in common we became beasties,she would follow me around school and we call and talk to each other on the phone...she tells me deep personal stuff after herself and her family, she even jokingly said I should ask her out in like 3 months time....everything was going great until we both traveled for Christmas break but still got in touch with each other on the phone... She was even the first person to call and wish me happy new year...although I've not officially asked her out but we were like boyfriend/girlfriend..... on getting to school...

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Mental Health gone down the drain.


Posted Wednesday January 29 2020, 1:43 pm

Hi Everyone,
Its been a while since I posted here. I stopped asking for advice a long time ago because I never felt like talking about how i felt. However, I decided to give it a try and see what answers i get. I have been feeling so terrible and just need someone, anyone to listen to what i have been through the past few months, and past 3 years. It is a little long so please bare with me.

I have known this guy (lets call him M) for 10 years. We became friends when i was 17 and Now i am almost 26. I was head over heels inlove with him for years. I ended my first long term relationship when i was 17 and when i met him, i fell for him a few months afterwards. We share an amazing bond and have great chemistry. We unders...

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Am i doing something wrong?


Posted Monday January 27 2020, 12:50 pm

My best friends(2) and I recently had a fight. We've made up since then but only because I said sorry. They always left me out and never really did anything even after I told them multiple times to help me out. After I while I stopped associating with them. Then I decided to end this friendship cause I have severe depression, and they were once the only things that made me happy and kept me alive, and it hurt to see them as a duo, when we're really a trio. I told one of them, who also had depression, about the fact that I have depression too. When I brought it up,both of them started blaming me for it, and told me I should have come to them. When I said I did, and helped them recount it, they told me that 'I' should have taken it carefully ...

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Burned oil smell


Posted Monday January 27 2020, 5:19 am

I didn't pay attention to the light on my dash which meant my 2012 Chevy sonic needed servicing. Its been there a few months. She started overheating a week ago and it turns out I needed water. No crazy lights went off or anything. Mechanic changed oil and put water in. She runs smooth again & the 'needs servicing' light is out but when I drive I smell a burned idk...oil or burned rubber smell. Like I said before she runs smooth again. Is my car going to blow up? Will a diagnostic test tell me anything?

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dentistry degree: Is it worth the debt?


Posted Saturday January 25 2020, 2:03 pm

I want to be a dentist but i dont know if its worth the debt

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Cheating


Posted Saturday January 25 2020, 1:36 pm

My boyfriend of over a year just informed me that he cheated on me three times about six months ago. And my trust for him is just about gone, but I don’t know if I should go or stay. But he’s said he’s changed since then. I’m just not sure what to do??? - Female, 15.

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Am i a bad person


Posted Thursday January 23 2020, 1:40 pm

I need to know if im a bad person. I was recently broken up with due to something i did months ago. It was wrong and i should have been honest and not waited this long. When i was fresh into my new relationship i had a best friend. we had unfortunately dated thus my boyfriend did not feel i should be communicating with an ex. i dropped him from my life. social media, text, from hanging out. everything. just so my now ex would be OK. I accidentally forgot to delete him off of snapchat and one day he snapped me. i freaked out because i forgot i had not deleted him and i acted shady. i said it was someone else and would not show my now ex boyfriend. i panicked and deleted the app... after a week or two of begging he took me back. we broke up ...

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Does she still have feelings?


Posted Saturday January 18 2020, 9:08 am

Male, 21. PH

My ex and I broke up months ago (last year) and we recently had a closure in our relationship. But I still have feelings for her (she's the one who broke up with me). She made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore, but these past few days she started messaging me again. We talked casually liked before. And again she made it clear that she just want someone to talk to because she doesn't have that someone who'll listen to her and that she doesn't have feelings for me.
What do I do? I'm confused. Does she still have feelings for me and that maybe she's just confused about it?
I still pray for her everyday.

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No job security. Need life advice


Posted Thursday January 16 2020, 7:51 pm

I need advice. Im a recently divorced mom. And i make 46000 a year with no college degree
I work retail as a store manager and there is just no job security anymore. I have had to get a second job just to be able to afford rent and bills. I want to go to school. I need to think of my future. And i need to know are their options out there for me to be able to make enough money and be able to go to school full time? My current job there is no way that i can work around a full time schedule. I have three kids and im almost 40 so moving back in with my parenta is not an option. Nor is finding a cheaper place to live.


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How to convince my mom to let me visit my boyfriend in his home country?


Posted Tuesday January 14 2020, 10:36 pm

Sorry for the big wall of text. However, I think all of the context is needed for proper advice to be given.

So funny enough, my boyfriend and I met on reddit some months ago, and so far things have been going great. I'm 17 and he's 18. The reason we started talking was that we were both kinda lonely and in search of someone to be close to, however not necessarily in a romantic way. The reason we decided to keep talking was because he informed me that he and his family had plans to visit not only my country, but coincidentally my CITY with his parents over the holidays. Obviously we couldn't let an opportunity like that go to waste, and we kept talking, letting the chemistry build up. Long story short, we ended up meeting whi...

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one new car or two older cars


Posted Tuesday January 14 2020, 1:54 pm

I have $27K to spend on purchasing a car(s). I can purchase one new. Or purchase two older cars. I am need help deciding between spending $27k for a new Honda Accord. Or spend the $27k purchasing two cars. ($14K) used 2007 Honda and ($13k) used 2000 Corvette.

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Makeup Newbie


Posted Friday January 10 2020, 10:38 pm

Hi. Im 22y/o and is rlly new to makeup, but I rlly want to do so. I just dnt know where to start and what products to use. Any advice?

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Wife's past is ruining our sex life.


Posted Friday January 10 2020, 3:53 am

Good day all,

I'm asking this question because I have nowhere else to go.

So here follows the situation:
The day I asked my wife out, she confessed that she had been in a sexual relationship with her previous boyfriend. Although I had been saving sex for the woman I would marry, I assured her that I understood her situation and accepted her past. I was, however, fairly foolish, and never asked to what extent she had this relationship and wrongfully, by judging what person she was, assumed that it was a case that certain things happened that she was not proud of, but all within relative bounds.

About two years after we had been married, and our sex life was taking strain, I finally put one...

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My family wants to meet him


Posted Wednesday January 8 2020, 10:15 pm

Ok so I am 30 years old and I have been talking to this 41 year old guy that I met on plenty of fish. We have only been talking a little over 2 months . He has already met my mom and stepdad . He is a really good guy. The problem is my mom told my aunt and cousin about him and now they are saying they want to meet him already. I think 2 months is a little to soon for him to meet my whole family. U want to take things slow and not rush into anything. Is 2 months to soon for him to meet them . How will I know when the time is right ? Thank you.

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Heterosexual viewing gay porn


Posted Monday January 6 2020, 11:12 am

in a heterosexual relationship. Just discovered my husband of 30 years is viewing gay porn for hours every morning on his laptop. Should I be worried? Should I confront him about this?

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My response to your advice on ‘Guilty Crush’


Posted Thursday January 2 2020, 3:47 pm

Back in August, I wrote an advice post saying that I had a crush on my second cousin (my mother’s Cousin)- and I felt really guilty about it- that crush is still there and I still feel guilty about it.

Firstly, I didn’t make my age clear on that post- I’m 16- so you were absolutely correct, Dragonflymagic, to base your advice on what you’d tell a high school student.

Most of what I said in that post still stands- I’m still a little bit put off by the age gap (despite the fact that I’m not planning to act on these feelings and also despite the fact that I don’t know the exact age difference)- I still think she’s really nice, pretty and her accent is still really nice to listen to.

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I was in a car accident and I still get headaches, what to do?


Posted Tuesday December 31 2019, 1:35 am


I went to the emergency room after the accident and they did a cat scan and said everything was ok. I got prescribed some muscle relaxer and ibuprofen. I take it but my head still hurts. I also can't miss too many days from my job

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Posted Saturday December 28 2019, 3:35 am

My wife was a whore when I married her. The way she let me know was by reading her diary and of stories of going out with one to four guys at a time. In the diary she told about being fingered on the school bus on the way home from school and that every boy on the bus took turns fingering her. She also said in the diary that she would go out with her girlfriend and her boy friend and they would go parking and they would fuck and she would get so honey from listing to them. She said that one night they were all out together and that her girlfriend passed out from having sex and her boyfriend put his hand on her knee and she didn't stop him, he ran his hand up her skirt and stated finger her, then he crawled over the back seat and took her pa...

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