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Is it odd that I don't do these things? A load of my friends find it odd.


Posted Thursday August 13 2020, 12:11 am

I'm an 18 year old girl from the UK- but I don't wear makeup or anything, I don't drink, I rarely ever wear dresses, and I don't do anything to my eyebrows either- so I kind of feel left out when conversations about makeup, fashion or partying comes up.

My friends find it really strange- they're like 'how can you be confident enough not to wear makeup?'- but it's nothing to do with confidence why I don't wear it, it's just something that's never appealed to me. I'm not a very confident person full stop, I'm very shy- so it annoys me when people confuse the two.

And they've also all, since becoming 18, transformed into massive extroverts who drink regularly- whilst they were previously very introverted like myse...

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If I pick off a raised freckle, will it come back?


Posted Wednesday August 12 2020, 3:23 pm

I used to have this raised freckle in the middle of my stomach. I picked it off all the way but now there is a big round scab instead. Once the scab goes away will there be regular skin or will the freckle come back?

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Gatecrasher


Posted Thursday July 9 2020, 5:47 pm

I am a 17 male. Every year my close friend from Switzerland comes to India and everyone (his friends) goes to his house to meet him. But there's a couple of people including a girl. They do not seem to enjoy my company. And unfortunately they have a quite high social standing. I mean the girl has a lot of contacts. Besides when we meet she has a huge say in whatever we do. So I cannot lock horns with her. Basically she's a mean girl. She basically ruled the high school I used to go to. I used to be a good friend of her but God knows what happened. I used to get invited when he came back the first time. The second time I wasn't called and they made a text group without me. She thinks taunting and teasing me is her inherent right. In other wo...

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How do I deal with bullying?


Posted Wednesday May 27 2020, 12:58 pm

I am a 17 year old boy from India. In my school I had a classmate whom I didn't get along so well. Even today after two years of graduating out of school, he still continues to persist me at reunions. The thing is he still bullies me because I don't have the confidence to go up and talk to girls. I mean he has better social life than me. I am trying to overcome that anxiety though. With that point he continuously roasts me in front of everyone. But if I give back or retaliate all he says is this- 'No one is talking to you'. This makes me even more pissed. And plus I can't find any weak spot of his to roast him back. I am fed up. I literally see his face and I am so disgusted. And plus nobody will be ready to support me. How do I deal with him alone? I need your advice.

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BlackCatCard


Posted Wednesday April 22 2020, 9:23 am

Hey guys! Do you know anything about BlackCatCard? Does anybody use it as a crypto wallet or just as a bank card? What are the pros and cons? Whatever you know. Thx

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Travel / Summer Seasonal Jobs?


Posted Tuesday December 10 2019, 6:20 pm

Hello,
I was wondering if anyone knew how to network with seasonal summer jobs? I am googling things non-stop and have used sites like coolworks.com but am trying to find other useful sites to apply for seasonal positions for the summer. Do any of you network for seasonal jobs or know where to network for traveling? Are there conferences I could go to? What can I do to network for traveling? What sources do you use? Any networking advice would be great.

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stalker help


Posted Friday December 6 2019, 2:52 pm

40/m, USA. There's this old white guy that always stares at me (I'm not white) when I get anywhere within eyeshot of his house. If I do happen to walk by his house, he just stands there and stares at me the whole time. When he sees me and I'm not on his block, he will follow me in his car real slowly. Then drive fast, after going past me, then he'll wait at the end of the street and not proceed unless I change course. Then come right back. I also think he took a shirt of mine that was in my car once when I was parked in his favorite parking spot. I'm guessing he's gonna try to frame me with it, that I broke into his house or something and my shirt is proof or any hair that might be in the shirt, as proof that I was in there. I walk a lot, a...

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Texted drug dealer


Posted Thursday October 31 2019, 6:55 pm


Hey, I’m sort of friends with a drug dealer. They sell through social media like Snapchat and stuff, and I trust them enough so I followed their selling account and asked if I could get. But they were SUPER surprised I asked because I’d never ever done before and didn’t text me back after a while. Can I get in trouble if anyone sees that I sent him a chat asking? It’s not like I actually bought anything- but I was stupid enough to use my real name’s account and not have a scheduled delete of the chat. Or is this not a big “deal”?

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What about my gender?


Posted Thursday October 31 2019, 2:40 pm

Thank you for reading my question.

I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….

I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.

For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.

Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I w...

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I cant decide what career path to take


Posted Monday October 21 2019, 12:58 pm

I am from south africa and I have been going over this for quite some time, and it has not gotten me anywhere. I have always liked a good mystery and a puzzle so I thought why not become a cop. Then there's this side to me that likes medicine, like since I was little, so I decided OK why not a nurse, because a doctor has to cut people open and I would not be able to do that. Then I always wanted to help people so I thought about becoming a social worker. I am really stuck as to deciding what to do.

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Anger and Sadness at Home


Posted Sunday October 6 2019, 7:08 pm

Hey, so, I've been kinda sad when I'm home a lot recently. I cry, get angry and impatient with my parents easily, and getting through school work got harder, all for no apparent reason. What's even stranger is that when I'm at school, it's so much fun and I feel so happy. I joke around with my friends and teachers and do typical things mischievous teenagers do with their best friends. I don't know what to do at home. I feel so miserable and I always lose track of time. Anyone know what's going on and how I can fix it?

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Is it safe to go on a plane over 100 times a year?


Posted Monday September 2 2019, 12:51 pm

I’m planning on buying a house in America when I have enough money, however I still want to live in my UK home as well.

Is it logistically possible and safe for me to spend half the week in the UK, and half the week in the US?

That’s around 104 flights a year, so it will be very expensive, but I’d love to do it!

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Struggling to find Housing


Posted Thursday August 29 2019, 10:37 pm

I am struggling to find housing for myself and my roommate. We have been staying in a hotel for nearly two months now and it’s draining our financials. We have enough money to put down a decent security deposit unless we continue staying in this hotel. We need to find a place to live as soon as possible. Emergency status even. We all have good jobs and work ourselves exhausted. Does anyone know any way to find a place to live urgently?

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This is so embarrassing to admit...


Posted Monday August 19 2019, 1:33 pm

I'm 14. I was released from juvie a few months back. While I was in there, one of the older guys forced me to have sex with him. I don't know if I can tell anyone. It's so fucking embarrassing to admit that someone made me his bitch. I'm also scared that no one will believe me or if they do that they'll say that's what happens when you go to jail. So now I don't know what to fucking do.

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Is it so wrong that I like wearing boys underwear?


Posted Saturday July 27 2019, 9:17 pm

Awhile back, I bought a package of white boys briefs on a whim. I dunno, I guess I was just curious to see how wearing them would feel. I found them to be really comfortable. I actually prefer them to panties and now they are all I want to wear.

My parents don't approve. They keep asking if I'm struggling with my sexuality or something. Grrr....it's ridiculous how uptight they're being over this. I mean, it's just underwear for Pete's sake!

I also bought them with my own money. I started working at my first ever job shortly after I turned sixteen four months ago. I bought the first package of briefs while out splurging after getting my first paycheck. They've always said I'm allowed to spend my own money howeve...

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What about my gender?


Posted Friday June 28 2019, 12:19 pm

Thank you for reading my question.

I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….

I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.

For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.

Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I w...

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I have been studying abroad and I need advice!


Posted Wednesday June 19 2019, 3:45 am

Hello! thanks for reading this! For the past 4 months I have been studying abroad. I originally live in the U.S. and came to South Korea to get away from many things that were hurting me mentally and spiritually. Before coming to Korea, I was very familiar with the culture because I am deeply interested in settling in Korea to form a family and spend the rest of my days. As my time in Korea is coming to an end, I have been thinking of when I should come back. However, there is a problem. Although I do live in the U.S., I am not a U.S. citizen yet. I am a college undergrad, I only have a year left to graduate. I wanted to come to Korea to do my Masters degree, but my parents keep telling that instead of coming after graduating, I should wait...

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Murder in book-help


Posted Monday June 17 2019, 7:52 pm

Before I say anything, I'd like to make it clear I'm a writer. I'm writing a book. I do not, nor have I ever, planned on murdering anybody.

But basically, it's a paranormal/psych horror about a girl who was bullied and outcasted, who is then accidentally murdered by popular classmates who took a joke too far, and the murdered girl's ghost taking individualized revenge on the kids responsible, while they all deal with whether to tell or not.

A big part of the story centers around the fact there was absolutely no justice delivered, and so the murder has to be framed in a way that it could be passed as a suicide/a death having nothing to do with other people, so that there's no investigation. The kids responsible ...

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Feel Like I Don't Matter


Posted Sunday May 5 2019, 7:24 am

I don't really know where to start, so I'll just jump in. I really, really, REALLY hate myself sometimes. I'm a 31 year old college drop out, I have a dead end job that my mom got for me after I'd gone unemployed for a while, I've never had the balls to go after my dreams because I'm afraid I'll just screw them up like I screw everything else up, I can't emphasize enough how I screw pretty much EVERYTHING up, I have no useful talents, and I feel like an absolute nothing. I wonder sometimes why I was born in the first place.

I think what feels the worst is feeling extremely unloved, unwanted, and unimportant and having no one to talk to about it. I have a terrible relationship with my father, and I'm afraid I'm about to have o...

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Bank claims money owed, unable to provide details of debt


Posted Monday April 29 2019, 11:05 am

Last week, I attempted to open a business checking account with a local bank. I was informed that another bank had in some fashion frozen my ability to do so over a claimed debt of ~$200 USD. While I had once (over 10 years ago) had an account with this other bank, and never closed it, I have not used it in over 10 years. I never once received any communication from this bank that there was a problem. I contacted this bank & was told that the debt was in their computer, but they didn't have any information on the debt, only that their computer says it exists. IF I owe this money, fine, but without any information or proof of the legitimacy of the debt, I have a problem with it. If it's legitimate, it seems they should be able to provi...

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