Is it so wrong that I like wearing boys underwear?
Question Posted Saturday July 27 2019, 9:17 pm
Awhile back, I bought a package of white boys briefs on a whim. I dunno, I guess I was just curious to see how wearing them would feel. I found them to be really comfortable. I actually prefer them to panties and now they are all I want to wear.
My parents don't approve. They keep asking if I'm struggling with my sexuality or something. Grrr....it's ridiculous how uptight they're being over this. I mean, it's just underwear for Pete's sake!
I also bought them with my own money. I started working at my first ever job shortly after I turned sixteen four months ago. I bought the first package of briefs while out splurging after getting my first paycheck. They've always said I'm allowed to spend my own money however I like, so it feels kinda hypocritical for them to be acting this way.
What do you think? Is a girl wearing boys underwear really that big of a deal?
123pinkgurl answered Tuesday July 30 2019, 5:54 pm: No its not a big deal. I also like mens underwear better than panties because of comfort and I am a female and not gay. I wear them for health reasons though. I don't think it's a big deal at all. [ 123pinkgurl's advice column | Ask 123pinkgurl A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Sunday July 28 2019, 6:30 pm: No, its not a big deal. Although I have not heard of a female admitting to prefering males underwear, only of males liking females underwear because of the texture, the silky feeling against the skin.
If you were my daughter and wearing briefs, I would naturally ask about your gender id or sexual orientation, in my case, not to condemn it but to let you know it is okay to admit it. This would be the behavior of a Transgender person, but not on just one thing, you'd have been attracted to boys toys and clothing from preschool age already and insist that you are a boy regardless of what your body shows. If this is the only thing you are drawn to, for comfort reasons, then you are not transgender. I will mention that there are boy cut cotton panties for females, so if you haven't tried them yet, theres always that to check out.
Your parents may not have studied enough of this kind of thing, meaning LGBTQ stuff to really know that they have nothing to worry about. So if it gets to be too big a deal for them, just save and show them my answer. Of course, thats just my opinion in an answer. They can always go listen to TED talks on transgender or look for you tube videos, or other info on the web if they don't want to just believe me. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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