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Boyfriend communication
Posted Sunday May 27 2018, 8:26 am
Okay so my question starts with two nights ago when my boyfriend did not have service and he went to some waterfall place with his friends did not tell me. Then he went to one of my childhood friends house who was having a small party and didn’t invite me or tell me. I was in the wrong also because I was helping my good friend dan to set a picnic for his friend Ryan and Ryan’s gf and didn’t tell him. My bf thinks I was sneaking around. So therefore we both suck at communication and to him it’s not fair and I suxk more. Even though last night he was at a friends house with this girl that I do not like and she put my bf all over her story and yeah I was upset. So my question is how do I approach the situation do I get mad at him for b...
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What do you think this phone message meant?
Posted Saturday May 26 2018, 11:17 pm
On Friday, the dude I'm dating called me on my landline at a time when he knew I wouldn't be home. He left this message: "Just calling to say hi. Hope you're doing something fun this weekend."
I thought it was rude, like he was saying, "I'm calling you when I know you're not home to tell you: Don't think you're going to get to spend time with me this weekend, because I won't be available."
I think he should have just not called at all.
What's your opinion?
Thanks!
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A Love That Don't Want To Be Loved
Posted Saturday May 26 2018, 3:33 am
I am in love with someone who I know loves me but has too much pride to admit it. What and how long should I wait?
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FLIRTING WHILE MARRIED/DATING WRONG?
Posted Friday May 25 2018, 10:42 am
TRUE OR FALSE, Flirting while married or dating one person exclusively is normal, healthy, fun, and perfectly fine so long as everyone involved knows it is meaningless?
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What’s he saying?
Posted Monday May 21 2018, 11:57 am
what does it mean when an ex boyfriend says, “we can go and join them as a couple?” We are still friends and in a good term. We see each other 3 times a week. I’m 30 and he’s 32. He’s got a kid with his ex wife and got a kid with current girlfriend but him and I still are in contact and message each other and we still chat up. I just feel like he still loves me and maybe wants to get back together one day otherwise why would he say we can join them as a couple..? Is he saying something because as a couple mean we’re still in a relationship, isn’t it? What does exactly mean we can go as a couple? Please do explain!
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Could It Be?
Posted Monday May 14 2018, 11:44 am
I’ve liked this guy for a while now, but he moved away quite a few months ago. We’ve been maintaining contact through text but I wonder if he sees me as a friend... or something else. It’s difficult because there’s no face-to-face time. But recently I was telling him about how I feel I’m weird and he said he didn’t think I was weird, more that I was a sweetheart and the loveliest person he’s met. He tends to be very nice to those he likes (I mean friends and whatnot, its his way of acting) so I don’t know if that means something more, especially since he didn’t call me a friend. I’m very bad at this and that’s why I want to know for sure, I love the friendship I have with him and wouldn’t want to jeopardize that.
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Boyfriend drinking
Posted Friday May 11 2018, 1:28 am
Hi everyone, so my boyfriend and I are coming up on being together for a year. He is 27 and I am 22. He really drinks a lot, frequently. He also has a motorcycle which he does ride drunk which is an issue I have been addressing him on. If we’re not together at night, a lot of the time he goes out, either by himself or with some friends. It’s beyong frustrating to me. How do I encourage different behavior? He says he gets a low and than he makes poor decisions and he doesn’t like that he does it, he just can’t help it. What can I do? This really puts a wedge in our relationship, because I always feel like he chooses alcohol over spending time with me. I want to help him, and I don’t know how. I tell him over and over he has a drink...
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Long Distance Situation
Posted Thursday May 10 2018, 8:55 pm
Hey I am a 19 year old female. I have this situation at the moment with this guy who is 27 ( which for me personally has never had an effect on any of this situation just thought I would mention it) . I was visiting home from university during the holidays a couple months back and I met this guy we kind of hit it off. He got my number and we texted, the next night I met up with him and we had sex. ( probably worth mentioning I lost my virginity that night) The next day I went back to university which is 4 hours away from him.
We talk everyday but its very on and off as in the conversations just start and stop randomly. On top of normal conversation things we have been sexting a bit so there is no denying attraction. Sometime...
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Should I stay?
Posted Thursday May 10 2018, 2:15 am
I'm a 34 year old woman who's kinda seeing a guy.. He refers to me as his special friend... By the way he's 53 years old... We met about six weeks ago at a grocery store, He called me the same day we met and we pretty much hit it off from there... We talked on the phone for hours we shared a strong connection... He made me happy, after nine years of being single, And just seriously thinking of getting back into the dating world, I thought I hit the jackpot...
Ok so, the first thing he did was lie to me... He initially told me he was 50 years old, and later he told me that he was actually 53 and he didn't want to tell me at first because he thought it would scare me away, I was a little annoyed because I never dated anyone t...
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Posted Sunday May 6 2018, 7:54 pm
Is it entirely wrong if my ex boyfriend comes back to me? He has got two small boys but he was having problem with his girlfriend the mother of his kids before like for example, not communicating and not sharing much. We dated for few months and he split up with me saying I’d have my family but I think I can see he indeed misses and loves me still? We’re both on our 30’s. PS: I hope you guys don’t judge as Julia Rogers at. So my question is he takingnice mig of tea. I r
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Thinking of writing him a love letter.
Posted Friday May 4 2018, 6:37 pm
There's this boy in one of my classes that I sorta fancy. We talk occasionally. We aren't that close, but we aren't just aquatinces either. I've had a crush on him for the past year, and now I'm thinking about confessing. I have social anxiety, and I'm scared I'll panic if I tell him in person, so I thought about writing him a letter. I have so many questions about this, like, should I make it sappy to show him how I feel, or should I keep it at a minimum so I don't make him feel guilty if he doesn't like me back? Should I do it on regular lined paper and just fold it in half, or should I make it a bit more pretty by using stationary? Should I put my name, or the the "Secret Admirer" route? I know I have a lot of questions, but I ...
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I accidentally slept with a guy one of my close friends was/is dating?
Posted Tuesday May 1 2018, 2:34 pm
I'm not sure how to handle the situation. A guy was apparently talking to both of us at the same time (we're in the same social circles) and neither of us ever told the other one because it all happened over the course of two weeks. All I knew was she was seeing somebody briefly and that they had supposedly stopped talking.
Well I guess he had stopped talking to her because he was talking to me and we wound up sleeping together. Then literally the very next night my friend and I were talking and she told me she still had feelings for the guy she was talking to before and told me how they had a lot of chemistry in bed and it sounded like she was going to try and start talking to him again so as a friend I wanted to know who i...
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do scorpio men stay in touch after breaking up with the girl?
Posted Sunday April 22 2018, 2:56 pm
Hi ya,
please do not judge me or anything and if you don't believe in a horoscope no need to answer. we're mates before we dated for a few months and we're both in our 30's but he broke up with me but insists we will always be friends and we still chat in and message. as for a scorpio guy i heard that they don't like staying in touch with the exes. but he's october scorpio and i myself a november scorpio lass. i still feel he cares and we still say, 'i love you' when he pops in to see me but because he was stressed as he thought and said i was too clingy plus he did say just go with the flow but i never listened to him. he's a single father so guys what would you say? he has a 2 year old son with his ex but i still feel like one day ...
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Is this a coincidence or not?
Posted Friday April 13 2018, 11:54 am
I recently found out that the friends of the guy I have a crush on are actually trying to set me up with and we're trying to the night we all went as a group but he was being shy I guess I was too. Now they are trying to set up another outing to bring us together. Does this means he likes me or just a coincidence? I mean they wouldn't go through this trouble if he didn't like me? Does it give me a better chance if his friends like me and want us to date?
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Hiding having a bf from my parents
Posted Wednesday April 11 2018, 9:53 pm
So I just got out of a relationship about a week ago because he had to move away. The whole 5 months I was with him I had to hide it all from my parents because they think I'm too young to handle a relationship. I said I was going out with my best friend when really I was going on dates with him. I hate hiding guy problems from my parents I feel like I'm growing apart from them and that I can't to them, How do I tell them about my problems when I could get in trouble or have my phone confiscated? I am a 13 y/o female and I just want to be closer with my parents and not have to lie but still feel like I have some sort of independence/ freedom.
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Ex boyfriend wants to stay friends!
Posted Monday April 9 2018, 1:33 pm
Hi, we dated for 5 months but known each other for 1 and a half year. Good friends before we dated but he broke up with me saying too stressed with all the things been going on. NOW, when he broke up I asked him so we’re finishing everything then, he replied, no, we’ll stay friends. We’re still in touch. He visits me in my house every once a week but not like before everyday but yes he visits me. When he leaves he says bye, love you and kiss on the lips. We still message how’re you and how’s the day been going, not much though but hi and hello. So, my question is we broke up but why does he still wants to stay friends??? He’s a good boy. We’re both in our early 30’s. Mind you, he’s not a player but a single father.
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Trying to help a friend
Posted Friday April 6 2018, 12:51 am
I have this friend and he used to like me, but as soon as he met my friend he immediately moved on. I told him I was not interested, but I was annoyed and upset with how fast he moved on. That told me he wasn't very interested in me in the first place and it made me feel like he was desperate. Now, I am not interested in my friend in a romantic matter but he got over me pretty quickly. Now, he met my friend I want to say a couple of years ago. Ever since then, he will not stop talking about her. And so I encourage him to talk to her and to hang out with her. The problem is, she is not very responsive and I told him, she is VERY busy. I told him she enjoys his company and has fun with him. He talks about her NON-STOP. He tries messaging her...
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Confused and looking for closure; break up
Posted Thursday April 5 2018, 8:48 am
So my ex(M23) and I (F22) will have been broken up a month on Saturday. We were together almost eight months when he broke up with me because he's "not ready for a relationship".
For me the break up came completely out of the blue, granted he'd been acting odd and distant for a couple of weeks but he'd also been dealing with a lot of stress between work (got turned down for the job he wanted), university (failed his module and has to resit), and his car (rear ended a brand new Audi 3k worth of damage). So with recent events in mind I assumed he was just stressed; was smoking more often than I've ever known him to (didn't smoke at all November/December and had quit, January/February it was like dating an industrial ...
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How to get my mind off of wanting a relationship?
Posted Tuesday March 27 2018, 5:31 pm
Wanting a boyfriend has been occupying my mind all the time and it’s getting annoying now. Ever since I was 15 I’ve always wanted a boyfriend but I never got one only because I was too awkward and shy but the thought of having one didn’t occupy my mind almost every second of the day as it is now. It’s all I can think about, obviously I know I’m lonely and I don’t really have much friends in the first place but as I get older (I’m 19 now) I just want to be in a relationship not just to be in one but to have that campanionship, someone who’s there for you but more than in a friend way but in a romantic way too. I guess if I can’t fight the thoughts I might have to deal with it sooner or later and find a boyfriend but like I ...
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Crush acting strange
Posted Wednesday March 21 2018, 12:25 pm
I'm 14, my crush is 15. So I've known this girl about a year, and she's smiled and stared at me in the hallways before we ever formally met. We met at a party, where she already knew my name. Even while I was talking to other people, she was staring at me with her head in her hand. So that night we did dance together and I wrapped my arm around her, which caused her to go "oh" and burst into giggles. I thought that meant I was making her feel uncomfortable so I removed my hand but she then gave me a dissapointed look.
I know from people closer to her she's apparently very socially awkward. I've caught her staring a bunch after that, and once in the hallway I asked her how she was doing and she stuttered for a bit be...
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