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FLIRTING WHILE MARRIED/DATING WRONG?
TRUE OR FALSE, Flirting while married or dating one person exclusively is normal, healthy, fun, and perfectly fine so long as everyone involved knows it is meaningless?
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I think this depends on the circumstances. If the person who is being flirted with knows that it is innocent flirting and nothing more (like between two friends) then I see nothing wrong with it at all. In fact one of my friends and I are like this all the time and it has never been an issue because we both know it is completely innocent and our partners also knew this.
If you are flirting though and the other person has no idea you are already with someone because they maybe don't know you that well they may then not be very happy with then only later finding out that you are taken. In this situation it just is not worth it as it'll cause more problems than anything else.
I think flirting can be fun and is healthy and agreed that as long as everyone involved, including the partners, know it doesn't mean anything then there's nothing wrong with it. But, only if the partners are okay with it. This is important because if they are not okay with it (perhaps they can be very insecure) it is not worth it at all and I think their feelings should be respected - just because some people think it is okay and innocent not everyone will feel the same way and they do have the right to feel that way about it.
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Flirting isn't worth the risk. There are healthier ways to have fun and build your ego!
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I have two thoughts on this subjects. In general if you are in a relationship with someone you should be faithful to them and not be a flirt. In some situations where you are with good friends it can be okay to flirt as long as everyone is not upset with your flirting knowing it goes no farther.
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I disagree.When a person is in a realationship, one must be faithful and respect the other.
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The answer depends on how much you love your bf/husband or gf/wife and know they have problems with jealousy.
Generally, it is true there is nothing wrong with flirting. However, if you know your partner gets jealous, it's probably best to not do it.
Now I would also like to mention that it depends on what a person does when they get jealous feelings.
To understand what I am about to say, you need first to know that everything gets jealous feelings because jealousy is a fear of losing something...either losing a partner to someone else, or jealous against a co worker who the boss seems to be favoring instead of you for a position-so the possible loss of a job, and the list goes on.
Its most commonly seen though in relationships. Often the problem is that neither partner is good at communicating how much they love you and that no one else can replace you because they don't just love your looks or sex, you are your partners best friend and they are in love with who you are on the inside, Therefore as the outside changes with age, you are still in love with them.
Now that we covered what jealousy is, there are situations were it goes behind a little jealousy that pops up. Men more often are like the following but it can apply to females as well. Your partner acts jealous but not at actual flirting, its their imagined flirting, simply because you or another happened to glance at you in passing, not ogling, just the barely glancing at people as you pass them while walking with your partner. When you are being accused of all sorts of things with someone else, your mate may be a controller. It is a mental disability they really need professional help with. A partner/mate who had low self esteem will want to eliminate any possibility of anyone else getting a change to talk to you because of their misplaced jealousy and this is no longer a matter of them having simple jealousy but wanting to lock you up inside the house and never let you talk to friends on phone, basically isolating you. This is not healthy and these kinds of partners should not even be considered as a choice for a parter.
Hope this answers your question sufficiently
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