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What should I do with my stubborn gf?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2019, 3:30 am
I'm male, 23, going 24 soon, I'm in the military. I met my gf online and we've been dating online for a year. I'm finally separating from the military and my gf and I want to get together and start a life together. We are both inexperienced as members of society, that's why we planned to move in with a friend and his wife who are more than willing to share a place with us. But my gf is so stubborn. She keeps changing her mind and going back on our agreements, now she wants to stay where she is. We could get a place there but it would be inconvenient for our friends who will have to pack up and move across the country. What should I do?
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Do I really like her?
Posted Sunday January 27 2019, 6:07 pm
I'm a freshman in high school, a girl. I've been friends with this girl for a little under a year now, and we're good buds. We've hung outside of school a couple of times, it's always been fun. Recently, I've been feeling very fond of her, and want to be around her more often for some reason. I've never had a bf/gf before, let alone a big crush. Do I like her romantically or do I just want to be closer friends with her?? I have no idea. Any advice from your experience?
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Not sure what's going on
Posted Wednesday January 23 2019, 1:22 am
I am interested in a guy however I am not too sure about it. We are in the dance community together and over the years I have caught him looking at me lot and still do onto this day. We do not know each other very well but have talked a little ever since I have signed up for his classes. I think we might be around the same age. In the past, I have overheard him say how attractive I am and he thought I was stuck up. With this being said, I immediately cringed when I overheard him say this then realized maybe he wants me to talk to him. At dances he purposely dances by me. In class once I had a little conversation with him and quickly realized he didn't reciprocate. I was immediately turned off then told him I might have to leave early....
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Help me ASAP!
Posted Friday January 18 2019, 11:04 pm
Hi! (:
I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. A. Couple months ago I cheated on him because I felt that he wasnt what was best for me and i wanted to try something new. Subconsciously i know i should've broken up with him first but I didnt. When i told him i said he DIDNT have to stay with me if he didnt want to. We both agreed to work things out and now hes started HEAVLY drinking and is verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive. A couple times hes threatened to hit me. I am very scared and honestly exhausted from everything he has put me through not just since me cheating but even before then. He manipulates me into staying with him! I NEED HELP!!
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Parents not understanding my happiness - Forcing me to give up my love
Posted Monday January 14 2019, 6:25 pm
Since February last year, I was engaged to a man I got to know through my parents and some mutual friends of them. And my parents were initially happy about this proposal (The proposal came in November 2017). However, after getting to know the guy and his family, and the differences between us, my parents became a bit hostile and negative towards him and his family but they did not do so very openly. It was more behind their back, telling me all the bad things, but they treated them very well on the front and have always given the boy and his family much more than they have given us. However, it all started to harmonize at a point even though there were tons of communication issues especially with setting the wedding date (Me and the boy wa...
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helpppppp
Posted Wednesday January 9 2019, 6:21 pm
okay so I like this dude named lucifer. We dont have any classes together or anything and when we text i always hit him up and today was like the first time we talked in person I just walked up to him and was like what class do u have next and he said computers why and i said oh i was just wondering. And im stuck should i stop hitting him up and wait for him to hit me up? should i just forget him and move on? i just really need help.
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I feel stuck with my S.O, am I being selfish?
Posted Friday January 4 2019, 1:40 pm
I feel like I'm trapped with my S.O. because he makes really good money and has what's considered a top notch career. My whole family would probably judge me if I ever left him and so would my friends.
I'm not exactly unhappy, but he's also not who I want to spend the rest of my life with. I cook and clean for him while I work and go to school. He's selfish and pushes me really hard to unreasonable expectations. Even though he makes really good money he still makes me pay half of rent and our other expenses, which I don't think is fair because he makes more than I probably ever will. I think he's kind of boring and he doesn't satisfy me in bed. He thinks extremely highly of himself and looks at everybody else as peons. Some...
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When should we begin to sleep together
Posted Wednesday January 2 2019, 1:09 pm
when should my girlfriend & I start sleeping together?
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Questioning my sexuality
Posted Monday December 31 2018, 3:33 pm
I have a strong feeling that I’m gay, but I also like guys...I like all genders, but i know I’m asexual. I want to come out to my parents, but they say they would accept me. The thing is I know they won’t...especially my mom. I know I should keep it in until I find the one while disregarding the gender...i just wonder what I actually am.
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How to move forward with fiance?
Posted Saturday December 29 2018, 11:43 pm
My fiance (27m) and I (24f) have lived together roughly 4 months and been engaged for about two. Once in the past (before we were engaged) I caught him texting his ex and almost broke up with him, but he promised me he would never do it again and begged me to give him another shot. I did because he never cheated and the messages weren't very flirty and never amounted to anything. We've been together 7 months.
Then last night I went through the history on his phone and found out that just in the last week he was looking at photos of his ex on facebook and Instagram. I also found messages to a girl he kissed once a few years ago (who he went to school with). The conversation wasn't flirty and she was just asking him profession...
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age difference and language barrier
Posted Friday December 28 2018, 3:14 pm
hi... thank you for reading this.
I'm 19 years old and well a year ago i met this guy we have been en talking for some months for many hours, he would teach me his native language but since i couldnt utter a word in that language i would usually respond in spanish (the language we both learnt ) communication was difficult since he spoke better and i still struggled( he doesnt know English) then i start a sort of relationship with this guy and well he started dating this girl so we talk less then he stopped talking to me.after a month or so i message his girlfriend and she said that they broke up and he changed his number and she gave me the new number... (skipping ahead) after this three of talked then his ex insulted him in a group...
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I'm helping him cheat, but I don't want it to stop
Posted Friday December 28 2018, 2:10 pm
I met this boy in my history class. The teacher made us sit together for a project, and we hit it off almost immediately. I started having romantic feelings for him, but I later learned he has a girlfriend. Despite him being in a relationship, we have sexted each other on multiple ocassions, and even had sex. I've tried talking to him about multiple times, but every time we agree to back off, we both go back to this. I know the right thing to do would be to back off and keep it that way, but I love this attention I'm getting from him. No other boy has treated me like this before, amd I don't want it to stop. I know it's selfish, but I'm still struggling over what to do. Hia girlfriend doesn't know about me as far as I can tell. We're both i...
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im single
Posted Sunday December 23 2018, 7:59 pm
why don't I have a boyfriend?
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Posted Friday December 21 2018, 9:25 am
When I asked my new boyfriend how much he missed me he replied from the earth to the moon so what does that mean by saying “from the earth to the moon?”
Thanks all
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Flirting advice
Posted Saturday December 15 2018, 6:31 pm
So there is this girl I like but she is a junior and I am a sophomore and I really want to walk up and talk to her but she always walking with people or sometimes tbh I’m just nervous. Plus I have overbite and my teeth are kinda crooked and I have been rejected before because of this reason. She talks to a lot of guys and I don’t know if I can stand out, I’m not shy in fact I’m like the polar opposite. I don’t even have a phone so I wouldn’t be able to text her outside of school. Any advice?
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I have a fear that I won’t find someone?
Posted Tuesday December 11 2018, 7:04 pm
So I’ll be 20 years old in 3 weeks and still to this day I’ve never been in a relationship, or had a first kiss, or been on dates or as my generation calls it “the talking stage” where you’re just getting to know the guy. In high school I was always the outcast. I was always called ugly by different popular guys in front of me or RIGHT behind my back. I even had a friend that would tell me that I’d be 10x prettier with makeup and longer hair. That kind of stuff has affected me till this day. my self-esteem is so low that i don’t even try. When a guy does approach me (which rarely happens) I get instantly scared, awkward and nervous. Literally my fight or flight starts kicking in when a guy tries to approach me. I’ve tried on...
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Should i move on or.....
Posted Monday December 10 2018, 1:06 pm
hello, So i'm 25 F. I was in a relationship for about 5 years. A very happy one until it got a little toxic by the end. I started dating someone new. For about 5 months and we ended things on good terms. It was a mutual breakup. My ex of 5 years wanted to meet up and talk once I was single and the convo started off really bad but by the end of the night we were laughing grabbed dinner and coffee and sat in the car talking for hours which is exactly what we used to do when we were dating. Recently we were hanging out and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. Now this became a routine. thing once or twice a week, he calls me all the time to see how my day is going, we grab dinner... Although he keeps saying we are friends with ...
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Do I break up our family or keep trying?
Posted Saturday December 8 2018, 6:05 am
Hi I'm a 22 year old female. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months now, we just had our first baby too. She's 5 months so we moved very fast as you can tell. Faster than I expected (or wanted) and we live together as well. I don't know if it was the pressure/stress from having a baby or from getting into a very committed relationship but I just don't feel the same anymore.
When we initially started talking, I hadn't dated anyone in years. I wanted to put myself out there again and ended up meeting him. It was fun and I was enjoying the relationship but obviously things became very serious once I got pregnant. It became a little stressful, and then moving in with him was a big adjustment too. It's all been a bit overwhe...
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I'm in love with one of my best friends and I don't know what to do
Posted Monday December 3 2018, 5:30 pm
I have a LOT of history with this boy. We went to nursery together and then the last few years of primary school together (kind of friends) and then we went to the same rowing club.
At this time I massively fancied him and made it really clear, we went on a date but nothing really came from it. Then about 6 months later he decided he really liked me and asked me to hang out at least 5 times but I'd lost feelings so declined each offer.
Now we're in the final years of high school together and we are really close friends and I like him soo much but he just got out of a pretty bad (but brief - 2 months-ish) relationship.
He told our mutual friend that he is attracted to me (since breakup) WHAT DO I DO? I don't w...
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My twin brother and I are having a physical relationship
Posted Friday November 30 2018, 11:15 am
My brother and I are both juniors in high school, but have yet to go out on a single date. One weekend night we were home alone, watching a movie, and complaining about our situation to each other. I confessed that I've never even kissed a guy before. After I said that, we turned to each other, exchanged a look, and started kissing. Now (whenever our parents are out, obviously) we cuddle up next to each other on the sofa while watching TV and kiss and grope each other. We have not had sex because we're not sure we want to cross that line. Plus, I'm afraid of getting pregnant and having to explain to mom and dad who the father is. We both know intellectually how wrong this is, but we don't feel the wrongness of it. It feels good to finally h...
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