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well i had these two friends and they are trying to make me and my really good friend to fight. what should I do? (link)
grow up


My question is, why does it seem like an overwhelming amount of the advisors on this web site are teenage girls? I'm serious about this. Is it because they have more time on their hands, have a stronger feeling of needing to give advice, need more advice.etc.etc? What do you think the reason is? (link)
i have noticed that too, is there a si for just adults as with life comes experice, does a 13 year old have this ?


i have a friend that ive been friends with about 4 years and we did everything together. well, i moved about 6 months ago and ever since, we havent really talked...mostly because of me. it just hurt too much to call her knowing i cant see her or anything. i know that sounds crazy but i realize it was wrong now. anyways, she found a new best friend that i dont even know that lives in the same exact apartment complex i USED to live in. my friend is so different now and shes changed SOO much ...she says that since i lost contact with her, she had no choice but to change and meet other people. but, im so depressed about this. can someone please give me advice on what to do? im just so upset. thanks (link)
I am not too sure how old you are , however I am 23 years old and have only a few close friends now, when I was younger I had so many but soon learn it's only the true friends that will stick around in years to come. With life being the way it is things change and people change , it is only with this change who you really see who the good and true friends are, from your friends actions only you can see.


I have found myself snapping at people calling them complete morons and other such insults. I do it when I am frustrated or even slightly annoyed. I have no patience for anyone it seems. Later on I regret saying such things. I've said these things to friends and family, and even my boyfriend ,whom I adore. But when the moment hits me it seems I can't prevent the waspish comments from bursting out. How do I explain to these people why I say such things? I've hurt their feeling and it really upsets me. I don't mean to be mean. It seems i just can't help it.

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i dont think you have told us everything here......there must be something deep down bothering you or on your mund, until you know what that is these outbursts will continue. you have to find and confront your fears!!


How can it be that you can have casual sex? I am a virgin and some of my friends have had sex. Those who have also have casual sex. I just don't understand how you can have sex without having a comitment. Doesn't it still end up being a comitment because someone will want a relationship. It's natural for humans to want to have a relationship. So why is it that people can have casual sex with different people without a more serious relationship?? (link)
people come in all shakes of life and nomatter what we do in life we have to do what is right for YOU! my mistake has always been thiking about what others want.
so with that some may sleep around and be happy others wont it's just about you hun!




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