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Okay, so I put bleach at the tips of my hair only for about 6 minutes thou after I heard it can make all your hair fall out ! I need to hear experienced peoples opinions ? Can any help me? Do you think my hair will be okay ? Help!!!!! Please????? (link)
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I went to cosmetology school. Even if you used the strongest bleach out there, 6 minutes wouldn't be enough to make it fall out.
What's more, if you only put it on the tips, it couldn't possibly fall out at all. Only the parts you put it on would be affected - and it's more likely that they would just be very damaged, not actually fall off.
But if it was only for a few minutes - you're fine. You can leave it on a lot longer than that, actually - it just all depends.
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I have been dating this guy for a while now.we are in a long distance relationship. Last night after I spoke to him,he said "be mine,always be mine".
What does that mean?I kinda got confused! If we are dating,am I not already his? (link)
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He's just trying to be romantic and hoping that your relationship doesn't end for any reason.
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Hi... im 14 and i've had sex many times with my boyfriend of 4 years.. he wants to have a baby with me in a few weeks ... we''ve used condoms and he makes me feel amazing but i want to know if i say yes, will giving birth hurt? and havinng a growing human inside me for 9months hurt?? (link)
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I understand how you both feel, but now is absolutely not the right time to have a baby for so, so many reasons.
- Giving birth very young isn't healthy. It increases risk of injury or death to the mother.
- You wouldn't have money to raise the child. It's not even legal to work when you're 14 and I sincerely doubt your parents would want to support it. To be honest, they'd probably lock you in your basement for a decade if they knew you were asking this! Even for a totally normal pregnancy with no health problems, the hospital bills for giving birth alone would be, I'd say, $12,000 at least. Not to mention the cost of pre-natal exams, which are vital to the health of you and the baby, and not to mention the healthcare of the child for the rest of its life! Medical costs aside, go to a grocery store and look at the cost of diapers. It's more than you think, and I guarantee you would need more than you think. I've heard mothers state they spend $100 on diapers EACH MONTH.
- You would likely have to drop out of school, or be held back a grade, at the very least.
- YES, giving birth will hurt. It's commonly accepted as the single most painful thing a human can experience! The only competitor I have heard of is passing a kidney stone - but that is a brief experience, whereas giving birth goes on for HOURS, or even DAYS. The uterine contractions feel like terrible period cramps but many times worse, not to mention that is very common for a woman's vagina to actually rip during childbirth, to the point of needing stitches. Stitches. On your vagina. In fact, it's not uncommon for a doctor to simply cut a slit in the vaginal opening before it has a chance to tear, because that's easier to stitch.
- And yes, being pregnant will probably not be easy, either. Morning sickness is common, and contrary to its name, it doesn't happen only in the morning. Bad back pain is common. Ligament pain is common. Heartburn is common. Insomnia is common. Plus, a lot of women experience cramps throughout various stages of pregnancy!
This isn't to say that having a baby isn't worth the trouble. It is. But there's no reason to do all of that right now! You're only 14 - some women haven't even gotten their period at 14! Most women are fertile until they're about 40-45. You literally have decades ahead of you to have a baby and I guarantee that if you wait, you'll end up in a better situation to raise a child. If you chose to have a baby now, it would make your life very, very difficult. It would be much better to wait.
Inbox me if you want more info - I can find you things about hospital costs, etc.
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I've been dating a guy for 3 years and I recently lost about 20 pounds. I am still in the normal weight range for my height and I feel overall healthier and happier and I have more energy and I wouldn't take it back for anything. However my boyfriend feels that I am too thin and has been "crushing" on this other girl that apparently looks like me but is a little heavier. He's trying to get me to gain weight but I really don't want to but I don't want to lose him. He's talking to this girl that he says is "harmless" but he's into her and it bothers me. What should I do? We're also 23 if that makes a difference.. (link)
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It's your body and you get to decide what it looks like. Your boyfriend is perfectly allowed to have preferences, but he has to respect your decisions, and it is completely unacceptable for him to be buddying up to another woman he admits he's attracted to.
It almost sounds like he is using the weight issue as an excuse for a wandering eye.
It isn't worth it to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't accept you as you are.
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I have three tastes, the third one developed it self when i was at the age of 15, now am 26.
I feel nothing on the third as if it's not part of my body..
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Do you mean testes? As in testicles?
I've not heard of this before, but I would definitely suggest going to a doctor. If I had to guess I would say you might have a tumor - likely benign if you've had it for 11 years with no ill effects - but it should still be examined.
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Why is it that my boyfriend is not surcumsized and we have sex my vigina leaks after words?
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Hey there,
if you are having sex unprotected, his ejaculate will be inside you regardless of whether he is circumcised or not. Your vagina is a finite space and the vast majority of the ejaculate has nowhere to go - as such, it leaks back out, especially when you stand up afterwards. Please note that this does not mean you can't get pregnant - individual sperm cells could still be deep inside of you.
If you are using a condom, the leaking may also be your own leftover lubrication. When a woman is sexually aroused, the vagina produces a slick substance to make sex easier.
If it bothers you, try using the bathroom right after you have sex. The force of urination tends to encourage leftover ejaculate out as well. You can also wear a pantyliner.
Hope this helps.
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my bf touched me down till my hair.. he didnt even touch my clit.. i gave him a handjob and he ejaculated but i also didnt touch my vagina.. my period date is 26.. its 5th today! and my periods are 9 days late.. it had been 10 days late before also.. and ive been having my 7 periods every month.. im just scared cause its been 9 days and still havent got my periods.. am i pregnant? or is it normal.. im not stressed at all. (link)
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It sounds like no sperm entered you, in which case it is completely impossible for you to be pregnant. Lots of things can affect your period like stress or dietary changes. I've been extremely late, extremely early, or even skipped a period entirely for no reason I could figure out, but I was never pregnant! Don't worry about it.
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I am in grade 8 and I am a chubby female.Do high school guys in grades 8-10 still look at me with interest of getting to know me or dating me? (link)
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Some of them will, some of them won't. It's impossible to make a blanket generalization of such a large group of people!
I would guess, however, that it might be a little rougher at this age than it will be later in life. Boys at that age are often still very immature, and we all live in a very fatphobic world that brainwashes people into looking down on larger people, especially women and girls. It takes time to grow out of that - and unfortunately, some people never do.
Does that mean no boys will like you? Absolutely not! Most likely, some will. It may be no problem at all. There's no way of knowing until it happens.
What I want you to remember, regardless, is this:
1: Boys (or anyone else) who judge you or treat you poorly for your appearance are not people you need in your life. You deserve better.
2: Your body isn't the problem. Prejudice is.
3: You are still very very young and you don't need to worry about it if boys aren't interested in you. There are so many other great things in life to pursue while you wait to find someone special. Even if boys don't like you now, doesn't mean they won't when you're 16, 18, 22, etc!
Be yourself and don't worry about the opinions of others. You are beautiful!
Good luck and God bless xo
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Honey, if you have to try hard to get a boy to like you, he isn't the boy for you! If a boy falls for you when you are trying hard to act a certain way, he doesn't really like "you," because you aren't being you at all. The relationship starts out on a lie.
Believe me, I know how it feels. I've chased after tons of guys and tried and tried to get their attention and affection. What I learned is that if you have to try, you should probably just forget about it. There are plenty of guys out there who will like you for exactly who you are - and being around them won't feel like hard work.
If you get nervous around a boy you like, just try to treat them like you'd treat a friend of yours. That way you'll be confident, friendly, and interested in his life - 3 things that EVERYONE likes.
Good luck xo
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can a get pregnant wen u nut in her ass (link)
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Strictly speaking, no. The anus does not connect to any reproductive organs.
However, do exercise caution - given that the anus is near the vagina, it would be possible if any ejaculate got on the outside area and perhaps came into contact with the vagina.
Granted, that would be a very long shot. It is very unlikely - but theoretically possible.
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hi sir/mam,
This is siva from india ,age:22.i have a doubt regarding masturbation, i masturbate daily more than twice is that make any problem in me, like STD or any hormone problem . i am trying to stop it but unable to do it.. how to stop it, and tel me is that make any problem in me after marriage.? is it give a gene problem to my child ? please help me out.. (link)
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Hi Siva,
I have never heard of any bad health effect from masturbation. In fact, I have only heard of suffering problems from NOT masturbating!
If you feel that you are needing to do it too much and it's getting in the way of your life, it is theoretically possible that you may have a hormonal imbalance causing you to be aroused too often - but it is unlikely. If it concerns you, you should speak to a doctor, but you are not at risk for STDs. The only health concerns with masturbation concern cleanliness, especially when it comes to inserting things into the body. (wash your hands and anything else you may use)
This will have no effect on any children you bear and should not have any effect on your marriage - although you will likely find you are less inclined to masturbate as much when you have a sexual partner.
Relax - your health is not in danger and everything you are experiencing is most likely totally normal.
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please when does a woman normally get pregnant. (is it after menstruation or before menstruation) (link)
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To answer this question, let me break down the menstrual cycle real quick -
On average, a woman's menstrual cycle is 28 days. The first day of the perod is referred to as the 1st day. Ovulation occurs, on average, on the 14th day, exactly in the middle between two periods.
Ovulation is the process of an ovary releasing an egg to be fertilized by a sperm. The egg only lives for about 24 hours. However, sperm can live inside a woman's body for 3-5 days, and it is very difficult to pinpoint exactly when ovulation occurs. For this reason, a woman is most fertile for several days before and a day or two after the predicted ovulation.
So, it's not really "before" or "after" - it's in between.
However, every woman operates on a different schedule, it is very hard to know exactly when ovulation happens, and crazy things happen - so it is best to always use protection if you wish to avoid pregnancy, no matter what time of the month it is!
There are various free apps you can use on your phone that will give you estimations of your ovulation and predict your next period - search for My Cycles or Period Tracker. You can also go to mymonthlycycles.com.
Hope this helps xo
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Ok so just today my mom yelled that because I argue with my sister her and dad fight and because of me someone might have to leave and it might be her because she can't deal with it and today my dad pulled my sister's hair and it's my fault because I aggravated him. And when my suicidal thoughts reached them my dad told me I'm gonna have to stop or him and mom are getting a divorce. Wtf? And I'm not going to a fucking psychologist I refuse. I haven't attempted suicide and my mom made me promise not to but sometimes it seems like the only way out! And my dad seems to think I'm some unpaid baby sitter because once when I was at a bbq I said I wasn't gonna watch them all night like I always do and both my parents threw fits! Help? (link)
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Wow, I am so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I'm not really sure to say other than that your feelings are completely valid and your parents' behavior is abusive. Blaming someone else for an irrational outburst (pulling hair, etc) is a classic abuser behavior.
Please just hold on, I promise you there is a way out of this other than suicide. You won't have to live with them forever, after all. You can get through this - even if it is not always pleasant, there are better things waiting for you if you pull through.
Is there someone you can go to with all of this? An aunt, uncle, teacher, guidance counselor? It doesn't sound like you are in a very safe environment and they may be able to help you.
Stay safe and God bless xo
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1. how many days does menstruation last and ovulation.
2. do one stand any chance of getting pregnant when one have sex during menstruation. (link)
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1: Menstruation can last for approximately 3-7 days and will usually vary in severity. (For example, you may spot for one day, bleed heavily for one day, and bleed progressively less and less until it's over)
If I recall correctly, an egg only lives for about a day after being released by the ovary. However, sperm can live inside the vagina for 3-5 days, which means that you can become pregnant even if you have sex well before ovulation.
2: The risk is significantly less than if it was during or near ovulation, however, it is far from guaranteed to be safe.
The first day a period is referred to as "Cycle day 1"; on average, most women ovulate on cycle day 14. However, this varies from woman to woman and it is possible to ovulate much earlier in the cycle. For example, you could have a 7 day period and have sex on cycle day 7; since sperm can live inside a woman's body for 3-5 days, pregnancy could still occur on cycle day 10-12, which isn't much earlier than the average.
Unless you know for certain when you ovulate (very few women do; it is a complicated business of taking OTC tests, charting body temperature, etc.), it is not advisable at all to have sex unprotected. Even if you do, it would be best to use protection to be safe.
Hope this helps - stay safe and God bless xo
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