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I'm honest, so if you can't handle the truth, don't ask.
"some say that
time changes everything
best friends can
become strangers
but i don't want that
no, not for you
if you just stay with me,
we can make it through
so here we are again
the same old argument
and now i'm wondering
if things'll ever change
all the things we talk about
you know they stay on my mind
don't say a word
i know you feel the same
just give me a sign
say anything"
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Hi, I just got on AIM, and one of my friends that things have been real rocky with lately sent an offline IM that said just this:
******: [Offline IM sent 2d and 20h ago] http://www.elyrics.net/read/b/blue-october-lyrics/hate-me-lyrics.html
He's a guy, I'm a girl. Could anyone tell me possibly what he's trying to say to me by making me read those lyrics? Or what the point of sending those to me are? Thank you.
a little more info, we used to be best friends, but he changed a lot, and now we're always fighting, and barely friends.
what does it mean when you guys on here in your profiles say "i don't sugarcoat answers" ?
Just means they'll be very blunt/honest with you, even if it's rude/mean. They're not going to lie to you to spare your feelings basically.
okay so theres this guy..
and we used to be so close.
like hes in my group of friends
but now.. he just randomly gets mad
at me.. wont talk to me and stuff
he wont even tell me or anyone else why
hes done this to other girls too
so everyone thinks he wants attention
and its so annoying because everytime we try to make plans as a group its impossible because he doesnt want to go anywhere that i am
also: the day i got back together with my boyfriend (who he hates) was the day he got mad
so what should i do?
Hey, well if you still want to try and be friends with him, try talking to him about it. If he doesn't want to talk to you, or gets mad yet again, he's not really worth your time. Just don't worry about him, and stick to your other friends. It does sound to me like he might like you, even if the littlest percent possible, since he got mad the day you got back together with your boyfriend. Or maybe he just gets jealous veyr easily. Either way, he shouldn't be mean to you.
cute bikinis?
links please
kthanks xo
Heeeey girl, Target seriously has the cutest and cheapest swimsuits ever. You can look for yourself, they have tons
http://www.target.com/gp/browse.html/ref=sc_fe_l_0_13796461_28/602-7486671-9375842?ie=UTF8&node=13629631
k so ive never had a boyfriend.
but if i were to get one, and he were to come over my house..
what would we do?
like, wouldnt it be a little awkward?
like he would walk in and you guys sit down on the couch...hahah i have no idea.
so yeah what would you do?
Haha, yeah, sit on the couch, or your room, or wherever you guys are allowed to go. Just talk, play boardgames, play other games hah, cook stuff, go swimming. It wouldn't be that awkward unless you guys don't know eachother very wel, but if you do, it should be alright. Also, try not to let your dad be around him too much because guys have this weird fear of fathers. Hah. :)
Okay, so last weekend i fooled around with my boyfriend..but i didnt have sex (that probly has nothing to do with it but just in case)
I was supposed to get my period this sunday but it came on monday, which usually never happens.
The weird thing is it wasnt as heavy as it usually is and it usually only lasts for 5 days or less, but its still going just only a tiny bit..why is it doing this?
Well, if you've only had your period for a couple years, then it's still allowed to be spontaneous. Your period won't always start when it's supposed to, and sometimes it will last longer, or even shorter than it's supposed to. It's normal, unless you've had you're period for awhile, and you're no longer a teenager, then go to your doctor. If you're still a teen, preferrably 16 or under, you're fine.
when you pop a pimple, is the pimple the white stuff that comes out?
Well, the pimple's the whole thing. The white stuff that comes out is pus.
There is a song on Laguna Beach, second season, second disc i think, the episode's called boyfriend's are like purses, and the song they play right AFTER the intro i can't find out what it is. I think the lyrics say:
they'll tell my story; i'll tell them about you; i'll tell the rest? you stood by me
my sister said she thinks it might be coheed and cambria but i cannot find the song and i've searched for a real long time. please help! thank you!
Here, this website has the complete listing of songs in THAT episode -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laguna_Beach_soundtrack#Episode_213:_Boys_Are_Like_Purses
I've searched a few, and they didn't have the lyrics you said. I couln't find any lyrics for "Hello California", so maybe you can. But yeah, I guess just look up the lyrics to those songs under that episode, and hopefully one will be the one you're looking for. I would search all of them, but my computer keeps freezing & it's pissing me off.
okay so i like this boy named jason. ive liked him FOREVER. i saw him before, like 7th/8th grade and i had the hugest crush on him. last year, 8th grade, one of my friends liked him ALOT and she knew him personally. this year, i went to hs and he goes there. i started talking to him, but on friendster, and i look better in my pictures then in real life, and i think thats why he started talking to me. anyways. we met up at school and stuff and we started talking more. then we just talked on n off and did stuff a couple of times. when were together he acts kinda like he likes me, but i dont think he does. hes SUPER cute. theres no girl thats seen him and said he isnt cute, unless theyre like lezbo or something, and im not that attractive. he tells me im cute sometimes and calls me cutie, but i think hes just trying to be nice. anyways. usually, before we hang out, which is like once every two months or so, well talk a lot, but after we hang out, we kinda stop talking. this time, we talked for a week before we hung out and after we hung out we talked a bit for like two days. after that i kinda just realized i need to stop letting myself like him again, cuz we went pretty far, and i was thinking he was just using me to do stuff. the other day, i was kinda in a bad mood, like i was kinda sad, and he said hi and left, but at night, on he imed me asking what was wrong. iono if that means he really cares or he just felt like asking or what. iono what to do or what to think. i guess i dont know what kinda advice i want. i talked to some people about the situation, well, about the past stuff, not really the recent stuff and they said hes probably using me and hes bad news, but the stuff thats happened lately makes me second guess it. i talked to my brother about it, and he told me to tell jason i like him, but im pretty sure he knows. i just kinda want your views on the situation. uhh. boys are SO confusing.
Hey girl, it sounds to me like he likes you. Who knows, he could have been using you earlier on, but people can change. If he did use you, try and forgive him. I say give him a second chance, it sounds now like he's truly starting to care about you. Maybe he wants things to go further, and you stopping them because of a mistake he made could be bad. (Because you like him too) Just give him a second chance, and try to hang out MORE often, so he can get to know you even more. Just have lots and lotttttts of fun when you hang out, and make sure he is too, and I guarantee he'll talk to you afterwards.
I'm really bored and I'm sitting at home with NOTHING TO DO! ive gone to every website i know and i'm still bored. all of my friends are busy and my parents will not take me anywhere so i'm suck at home bored. what websites are fun? and what can i do around the house thats entertaining?
onemorelevel.com
ive been friends with this girl since 1st grade, on and off (little elementry school fites seperated us`during elem. school) and 5th grade everyone hated her, even my new best friend hated her too, and i almost went against her but didnt. Ive stuck by her side for the longest time, but then 6th grade came and she became freinds with everyone, and she hung out with everyone else more and more, and me less and less.
I felt betrayed, like 'what am i not good enough'. we still hung out but not alot. Then 7th grade came, and we were in differant clusters (other schools mite use teams, groups,...) and she made friends with so many differant types of people, most hated eachother. from the preppiest happiest girls, to the bitchiest wanna bees, to the 'punks' of 7th grade. and so she hung out with me even more less than last year.
We went on a summer vaca together and i thought things would be differant, or well thats what she said.
Then 8th grade came and she narrowed down her friends, and i was 'one of them' but i didnt really consider myself it. We attempted to become best freinds again like 7 times, I would send her random long notes throughout the year saying, things have gone bad again, we'd hang out, then i wouldnt speak to her for like 3-5 weeks...then id send a new note.
now 9th grade has come,in the begin, of the year, we didnt talk much but she would atleast say Hi. and talk to me alittle. then she asked me if i wanted to come over and we went through our busy sceduales (she always says shes busy) and i stayed after school with her, and she hung out with like other people and basically ignored her, then at her house we watched some boring movie, and i fell asleep. then i havent talked to her for like.....4 months. then i found out 3 weeks ago that she is always high and smokes pot, and that she isnt usually really busy, but is hanging out with potheads. geting high.
i dont know what i should. she hasnt been a good frend since elementry school, but when i needed her desperatly, she was usually there....idk.
its long but you can just skim it if you want.
Okay girl, well it sounds like you've always been a true friend and she hasn't been. Not spending as much time with you because she has 'new friends' isn't acceptable. She has to realize that if you guys are going to stay friends, she'll have to change her ways. You obviously value the friendship, because you've been trying for years to get it back to how it used to be. I say, ditch her for awhile. Hang out with other friends, keep yourself occupied. I promise you won't think about her as much, AND you'll have new friends who you can talk to when you need them. Yeah, maybe she's been there when you needed her MOST, but think of all the times she hasn't. She ditched you for other people, and now she's smoking? Wtf. I'd really say just all out quit trying to be friends with her, and find some new, better ones, that will respect you. If you keep wanting to try to be her friend, then just wait it out. Hopefully she'll come to her senses.
okay, so there's this guy that i like, and i think he likes me..but i don't act like i like him. and today...we were playing pickleball, and my partner chose the court, and it was the court that my crush and his partner was. my crush was on the same side as me....
k, well, anyways...i talked to his partner, cuz she's my friend...and..well..i kept on saying like agh...and clenched my knuckles because he[my crush] kept on hitting the balls that came his way to my partner...and because sometimes the balls went past, and yeah. but the main reason i said agh and clenched my knuckles is because i kept missing the balls because he was there. and also i dont know if he came to the same court because he likes me, or because he always went to that court...well, since my partner chose the court, and he went to the same court because he always goes to that court...do you think he thinks i like him? because i looked at him from time to time, and always said agh and clenched my fists...and i think he thought that i knew where he was gonna go for a court, but i didnt know...my partner chose...so, do you think he thinks i like him? he was sorta rflirting with mee =]]]
p.s sorry its soo long
Hey, it's possible he could think that you like him. He also could not, and just think you're being funny/friendly or something. Try to spend more time with him & friends and see how he acts around you. If you're out in a group with him, see if he pays more attention to you than anyone else. That's a sure fire sign that he likes you.
What does exactly"attached" to a friend mean?
It basically means being dependent on someone, always wanting to see them/talk to them, clingy, etc. It could also mean you're just good friends with someone, like that saying, "attached at the hip", could just mean you're best friends.
how do you know if your friend is attached to you? and do you think being attached with your friend is bad or good and why?
Hey, it's basically when they call all the time, want to hang out all the time, get jealous/mad if you spend time with any of your other friends. It's someone really clingy. It can be bad, for example, if someone was really clingy towards you and you DIDN'T like it, it could get annoying real fast. You'd end up not wanting to see them at all, and they'd probably end up being more clingy. (Wondering why you don't want to talk to them and see them, etc.) I guess it can be a good thing as well, like 2 best friends. If you both are really clingy towards eachother, I guess you're both fine with it. But usually after people spend too much time together, they eventually get annoyed and want their space.
13/f -ok. i like this boy.i mean i REALLY like him. well school just let out=,( and i wanted to add him on myspace. but would it be too awkward to add him if hes the only guy with only 6 other girls? i really want to add him, but i dunno what to do. please help.
Nah, there's nothing awkward about it. Just add him!
I am getting my cartilage pierced this monday & i need some tips
-does it hurt?
- should i ice it on the way there?
- any stories or things i should know?
thanks, im very nervous and i hate needles lol
Haha aw, you don't need to ice it on the way there. It really doesn't hurt, it's quick & pretty painless. It feels like someone's pinching your skin slightly. It will hurt a little bit for a few days after, but it's nothing much. Good luck!