okay so i like this boy named jason. ive liked him FOREVER. i saw him before, like 7th/8th grade and i had the hugest crush on him. last year, 8th grade, one of my friends liked him ALOT and she knew him personally. this year, i went to hs and he goes there. i started talking to him, but on friendster, and i look better in my pictures then in real life, and i think thats why he started talking to me. anyways. we met up at school and stuff and we started talking more. then we just talked on n off and did stuff a couple of times. when were together he acts kinda like he likes me, but i dont think he does. hes SUPER cute. theres no girl thats seen him and said he isnt cute, unless theyre like lezbo or something, and im not that attractive. he tells me im cute sometimes and calls me cutie, but i think hes just trying to be nice. anyways. usually, before we hang out, which is like once every two months or so, well talk a lot, but after we hang out, we kinda stop talking. this time, we talked for a week before we hung out and after we hung out we talked a bit for like two days. after that i kinda just realized i need to stop letting myself like him again, cuz we went pretty far, and i was thinking he was just using me to do stuff. the other day, i was kinda in a bad mood, like i was kinda sad, and he said hi and left, but at night, on he imed me asking what was wrong. iono if that means he really cares or he just felt like asking or what. iono what to do or what to think. i guess i dont know what kinda advice i want. i talked to some people about the situation, well, about the past stuff, not really the recent stuff and they said hes probably using me and hes bad news, but the stuff thats happened lately makes me second guess it. i talked to my brother about it, and he told me to tell jason i like him, but im pretty sure he knows. i just kinda want your views on the situation. uhh. boys are SO confusing.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shlumps answered Sunday May 27 2007, 12:01 pm: Hey girl, it sounds to me like he likes you. Who knows, he could have been using you earlier on, but people can change. If he did use you, try and forgive him. I say give him a second chance, it sounds now like he's truly starting to care about you. Maybe he wants things to go further, and you stopping them because of a mistake he made could be bad. (Because you like him too) Just give him a second chance, and try to hang out MORE often, so he can get to know you even more. Just have lots and lotttttts of fun when you hang out, and make sure he is too, and I guarantee he'll talk to you afterwards. [ shlumps's advice column | Ask shlumps A Question ]
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