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Okay well my best friend and i have been best friends FOREVERRRR and she just recently got a boyfriend... and i like him. i told her that i liked him.. and shes fine with it. and she knows that i will NEVER do anything to break them up. But i dont know what i do.. do i wait??? should i tell him?? or what.. please HELP! (link)
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here is my advice you can't like your best friends boy friend he is off limits to you, if she's really your best friend then she's like your sister and you should have respect for her and your self. friends are for ever boys and men come a dime a dozen.....
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I'm almost 20 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 months. Everything about our relationship is perfect; we were friends for a year prior to making anything official, so I consider us to be very close. The topic of sex came up recently and I found out he's waiting to "lose" his virginity whenever he decides to. I respect that and think its great to go out with someone who is not anxious to have sex. But the only reason he's waiting is because he's scared to get a girl pregnant. I have told him there are a number of things he can do to prevent that from happening (such as multiple forms of protection at once: birth control pills, condom, and using the pull out method.) But he still isn't comfortable with the idea of having sex. As I've said before, I completely respect his decisions. But I, on the other hand, am ready (and protected) to become sexually active. We have a very sexual relationship, but I get very frustrated knowing I cannot share something like this with him. I certainly would not pressure him into anything because I am not that type of person. And I would never throw away our relationship just because of his choice to wait. (I respect that more than anything.) But does anyone have any input or opinions on my situation? Thank you. (link)
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I agree with young grandma's advice given to you.Well my advise is to have a serious talk with him about how you feel about the situation and about how you feel about him, let him feel secure to know that you understand how he feels, but remember to let him know that he's not alone in this relationship and he's worth waiting for.The best way i think to secure him is to let him know that ya both are going to take the steps together in intimacy... Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!
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I really like my guy best friend. Ever since i told him two days ago, hes been avoiding me. Im not excatly sure what to do now. Should i leave it or talk to him? Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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your not suppposed to let him or her know that you like them more than what the friendship is. Thats the reason why he or she is avoiding you,because the friendship is not what it once was, so leave it be and get your friendship back.
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how do i show my boyfriend that i really care about him, like if we're talking what can i do or say that lets him know that he means alot to me? (link)
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Well first of all if he is talking look into his eyes and stay attentive to what he is saying and he will know that you appreciate his thoughts because your showing your attentiveness.you can also expressed your feelings toward him, verbally or physically by holding him. hope i answered your question good.
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