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Hey yall, this is Lindsey. I am here to give you advice. I love music, making it, listening to it, singing it, dancing to it, about anyhting you can think of!!! I also love monkeies and ladybugs, volleyball, basketball,and softball, CHAD MICHAEL MURRAY, and about ANYTHING PINK!!!!! So you have questions and i have advice!
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what should i do when everyone in my family dosent like me for who i am and what i do. i mean i try so hard to be like my sister but i just cant what should i do? (link)
i would just try to be myself and see if anything different happend


hey. i have this friend. and see, she can lie a lot sometimes. so now i have trouble telling whether she is lying or telling the truth! how can i tell or atleast get her to stop lying? (link)
i had this problem with one of my friends once and what i did was taht i talked to her about it and about it to her other friends to see if she was talking about it at all. so what ever the problem is that she is lying about try talking to her about it and if it is about a certain person talk to that person too.


i have a naturally quiet voice, especially when singing, any advice on how to sing louder? i have to sing in fron of judges ina couple weeks and thats one thing i would like to work on (link)
i had this same problem until my voice teacher told me to just open my mouth!!! so i tried it and now i sing my owns songs and i made my own cd but no one knows about it except my neighbor so now everyone does!


well ive been going out with this guy tha i love and ever since ive been going out with him my best friend has been gettin all pissed at me and trying to break us upp....and now im not friends with her anymore cuz of this...and she said she wont be mad at me if i just break up wit my boyfriend but i love him and im not going to do that....i think maby she is kinda jallous that i have a bf n she dosent...but than again i dont know....help!!!
~*! *~panda~*-!*~ (link)
is that steph, anyways i think taht you should just talk to her and him and think about what one you care about more?? if that doesnt work call me and i will talk to you (if that is steph) if not her talk to them


hey i was woundring if theyre is anythingi can do to stop popping my knuckles , its just a habbit , i dont it all the time , and what dose it to to your hands? (link)
i have the same problem, what i do everytime that i crack my knuckles i put a dollar in my moms purse and then at the end of then month she counts them and the number of dollars that there is like if there was 5 dollars i would do 5 minutes of cleaning and then that made me not want to crack them anymore cause i HATE cleaning!!!! well hoped taht helped ya!

o yeah and it will give you athritus or how ever you spell it!


ok .. sorry if this is confusing but i am lydia(14 yrs. old) and my sister(15 yrs. old) is brittany. there is this guy name jason(13 yrs. old). Well last summer i was goin out with josh(14 yrs. old) (jasons friend) and jason liked my sister. When me and josh broke up, jason started liking me. Jason has liked me for like 4 months. But then a couple of weeks ago, he started liking my sister again. I think i like him and last night i asked him if he liked my sister and he said yea. Then later on last night, i was like "jason, i like you." then said i was just kiddin. About 10 minutes later, he asked me was i serious about liking him and i said "why, do you want me to like you or something?" and he tped "no comment". I didnt know what he meant. Should i take that as a yes he wants me to like him, or a no? whenever i say no comment i mean yes. So i dont know what to think. someone please help me!!! ohh yea, and last night jason asked me if i still liked josh and i said yes so i think he got a little mad.

i rate high!!! (link)
that sort of happend to me but it wasnt my sis it was my friend, so anyways i would just keep asking him and see what he says and if he says no comment again say is that a yes?? then be like well i like you and josh and see what he says, sorry if that wasnt any help



okay im 14/f.

i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.

the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.

the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.

when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?
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this same thing happend to me not too long ago what i did i just said everytime that they asked me i said that i really dont feel like dealing with the dog anymore so everytime i went to babysit i asked them to put the dog away, and to help with the quitting buisness just try putting the dog away and see if that helps at all. if not just say to your parents taht you dont want to babysit them anymore and talk to their mom and tell her too


My friends have been ditching me lately for these guys they have met. I did like one of these guys and he liked me but it just didnt work out. And i really dont want to see him again..but my friends do..because he has a friends that my friends like. They have been hanging out with these guys during the week when my friends have softball games and on the weekends. I feel left out...what should i do? (link)
what i would do is probably just go to have a good time with your friends and dont worry about what the guys think and try not to even pay attention to the guys. but if your friends still ditch you, try to become friends with somemore girls or guys and see if that helps with anything


my boyfriend and me have been going out for a lil over a month and i still dont feel anything for him, hes totally obssesed with me and i dunno what to say to him without hurting him because hes a really good friend of mine! I feel like im just stuck in a bad relationship. Some people keep saying stuff like i cheat on him all the time which i dont, im just a natural flirt and i cant help it!..id really just rather be single for awhile because spring breaks coming up and i dont wanna have to be tied down! Does anybody know what i could say to him that wouldnt hurt his feelings? :( (link)
this is sort of what happend to me and what i said is that "we could still be good friends it is just that we arent really right for each other, sorry" and if that doesnt work just try to talk to him about it and see what he thinks


Okay, so I played the lead character opposite a guy friend of mine in our school's spring play. The only problem was, we were good friends before, but we had to actually kiss onstage, no stage kissing, no angling it - it was real.
The first time he kissed me, it was during an excercise we were doing for our drama teacher to "develop our characters' relationship," and we both got really into it.
The day after that, he wouldn't look at me, and ever since then our friendship has been...awkward? I mean like, we used to talk about everything, now every conversation we have seems to be awkward and forced, almost as if we're afraid to talk.
The play's over now, and our friendship is sort of going back to normal, but there's still a little...awkwardness to it. I never got a crush on him, but my character definitely liked his character, and his definitely liked mine. But we never liked each other as who we really are...if that makes any sense...Why do you think all the awkwardness happened? I'm just curious to see what you all think. (link)
I think that you just need to talk to him about it and if that doent help try to talk to his friends to talk to him about it. that happend to me once but it wasnt in a play but i had an awakardness in my friendship with a guy then i just had the guts to ask him out if you feel that way you can do the same.




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