I feel like i have the gift of helping people with most problems because i have gone through alot of things in my life. i want to help because i care.
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I know the whole ovulation thing, but is there any other ways to improve your chances of getting pregnant? (link)
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Allowing sperm to enter your body the 1rst and 2nd week after your period. my husband and i have 6 kids, trust me i know..... if this will be your first one, it is harder because of how small the opening to your cervix is before child birth.
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okay so theres this guy that i reallly like and ive liked ever since mid july and i went out with a couple times but now he doesnt like me like that anymore and im pretty sure all he likes me for is becuz ill do stuff with him but neway hes going out with this girl who brags so much its not even funny and as hard as i try to get over this guy hes always on my mind so is there any tips on trying to get over a guy. i mean i do sports and stuff to keep me busy but even at practice im still thinking about him (link)
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even though he moved on, that does not just turn off your feelings for him.. it will take a serious amount of time to move on, but you must not allow him to keep you from getting on with your life. give it time and keep up with the things you like to do, eventually you will look up and there will be a new Mr. Right in his place. and dont do what this other fool of a girl is doing by bragging even if your new man is a whole lot better looking or treats you better. Time is really not giving you a second chance. that moment is never coming back.. so dont keep giving him the time of your thought life that he sooooooooo does not deserve. good luck.
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Hey, Thank you for all the info on 30 minute cardio and stuff. But should I do 30 minutes on the treadmill everyday along with about 100 crunches[5 diff ways] Or should I do an every other day type thing? (link)
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you can do everyday type of cardio, and every other day crunches. you have to do cardio to uncover your beautiful abs whether they are rock hard, six pack, or fat in order to see them. i used to be an aerobics instructor if that helps.
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i'm trying to get as many peoples opinions as possible, so please answer honestly: if you went to a school that is pretty open minded and liberal, etc, (this is a question about two girls, so ignore the homophobic aspects, pretend thats not an issue, what i'm talking about is age) do people think it would be weird for a junior and a freshman to go out? you see it all the time with older guys and younger girls, but would any of you think it was strange if it were two girls? (link)
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i used to date other females when i was 18, and they were all usually younger than me... it should be fine... it doesnt matter what people think..... go for it and good luck. i am married to a man , but i still get a feeling for younger females, i just dont do it anymore. it is all good.....
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i don't know why but i just randomly start crying.
like i get really upset.
i think it could be because i'm reading this book and the dad died, and maybe i don't want to lose my family.
or.. well like im in 8th grade and we go on a trip to d.c. in june.
we need 3 roomates and i have 2 we might have our 4th but its not deff and i dnt wanna get stuck with some weirdo orr.. being away from home, cos like when i went to uconn for 5 days away i got upset and i dont know why.
any ideas on how not to get like upset like things to think of.
i try to think of the guy i like but that only works for a little. (link)
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in the eighth grade, the crying is just your hormones and puberty... it will all end after your body becomes mature... good luck... you are not weird it happens to all pre teens.
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me and my boyfriend have had sex three times and he was my first. the first two times it hurt a lot, which i know its supposed, and the third time it still hurt a little but not as much, but it still didnt feel good at all. i thought after the 2nd or 3rd time its supposed to feel good. whats going on? (link)
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you are not ready to experience that part of life yet. i am so sorry that you did it at all. your virginity is something you can never get back. take it slow... tell him you dont like it and that you wish things could be the way they used to be.. i hope you did not do it because you felt pressured. if he treats you different because you dont like it then you need to get with someone that respects you because you dont like sex right now. just because you have already done it does not mean you cant stop doing it again. be a good girl and respect your body. you should be very careful about who you let inside of your body. make sure that they are worthy. sex is something that unless you are really feeling that person you are not going to like it. it sounds to me like maybe you dont like him that much or that you just dont like sex. you can tell him no!!!!! I really care because i am 30 years old and had sex way too much with guys that dont even deserve to walk around knowing what i feel like inside. think about it. the inside of your body should be saved for the guys you think are worthy enough to know what you feel like inside. If you feel like you made a mistake, it is okay. How would you have known unless you tried it. Dont beat yourself up. just tell him the truth.
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I've asked this before but let me clarify before getting more answers that won't help me that much. There's this girl, let's call her Jenny. Jenny and I were okay friends in 6th and 7th grade. At the end of 7th grade we were really good friends. But over the summer she did things that was hypocritical and such that got us to drift apart and we had a horrible history in 8th grade. Well there's this girl, let's call her Kelly. Kelly and I were good friends in 6th grade and half way through 7th grade, we were best friends. Well, me being stupid, I let Jenny get the better part of me which resulted me in breaking the friendship with Kelly. Jenny kept on saying how annoying and weird Kelly was. Now I wanted to be Jenny's friend although she had said pretty rude stuff about Kelly. (This is in the beginning of 7th grade) Jenny kept on ignoring Kelly and me whenever we were sitting together at lunch. She said that she didn't like her at all and made all theses faces when she came around, etc. Yes, the immature stupid stuff. So finally I just told Kelly that we couldn't be friends and that made KElly really sad and after a week I started to regret it everyday...and I still somehwat do. We're all in 9th grade now and Kelly and I are friends again...not good friends but just friends. Well, Kelly is using Jenny at lunch and basically at school whenever she didn't have anyone to hang out with...like she did in 6th grade with me. Kelly really thinks that Jenny is her friend but I never told her that Jenny criticized her, talked behind her back, and urged me to stop haning out with her. Kelly still doesn't know but I know that Kelly will either go through what I did with Jenny at the end or will just be used over and over again. I really want to tell Kelly the whole truth about everything but I don't want to come of sounding as if I was jealous or was just saying that to get back at Jenny for last year. I'm not into the direct confrontation thing. I am horrible at talking when it comes to matters like this. I don't know what to do and now I'm just questioning myself whether I'm really doing this just to get back at Jenny..what should I do? (link)
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the messenger alwaays gets slapped in the face. if you want to tell kelly then be prepared to not have her feel the same about you anymore. she will regret you not telling her at first. and for some reason when we tell people things like this they are innocent in the whole thing and they begin to resent you for ruining what they thought they had with the other friend. i say you just leave it alone. maybe Jenny has changed. maybe she really knows that kelly will make a good friend. remember that is the real reason she broke your friendship in the first place. she knew kelly made a better friend than she would have made you. i think you should not hurt kelly , what she don't know cant hurt her. you should pull jenny aside and tell her that you hope she means well for kelly and that kelly does not deserve to be mistreated and that you regret the time that went past without kelly as a friend because of allowing jenny to brainwash you. as far as kelly is concerned she will be hurt if you confront her with the news, so maybe if you confront jenny jenny will stop using her and then kelly will be free from the snake, unless jenny has changed and then she really will be a good friend to kelly after she knows how you feel. maybe all of you can get close again together and respect each other for differences and likenesses. good luck. remember friends can argue. tell jenny like it is and then say hi to her the next time you see her. never talk about people behind there backs. if it is something you dont like tell them not someone else. pass this on to jenny.and tell kelly i said hi!!!!!!!!
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ok there are all kinds of good diets and stuff but..the problem is that alot of the foods that they include are things i dont like!!
like salads when i have a salad it ends up being a soup because of ranch (im not a big fan of salads) && i dont like a lot of vegez!! does any one know i good diet that doesnt include a lot of saladz and a bunch of vegies??
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you should never skip breakfast because it helps burn fat naturally. and then every 3 or 4 hours you can eat pretty much what ever you want, just dont over eat. eat small portions and never get too full. dont eat any sweets unless it is a reward for the end of the week or something small like mini sized peppermint patties.dont count calories, it never works out you only feel starved and wind up overeating and gaining too much weight back. just think about it. i am sure one of your friends eats all the time and never gains weight. If you think about it they are probably eating and not finishing the whole plate and eating frequently, which aides in naturally metabolizing your fat storages in your body,,, try it and be patient because losing weight slowly, means keeping it away and staying slim for life. Try not to eat after 8 pm so that you wont store fat while you are sleep. and really, drink 6 to 10 glasses of water a day. Sodas are very fattening. limit sodas to diet only or none at all. good luck and stay away from junk food.only use them for rewards every other weekend or something like that.your veggies can just be a side dish of baked beans or green beans or just slices of tomatoes and lettuce added to your sandwich or diced onions and peppers added to an omlet. be creative.I am pulling for you!!!!!!!!!!
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okay so i have a problem.. i'm not a big phone talker, so when my boyfriend calls me i never seem to have anything to say.. he says it's a big problem that whenever we get on the phone i don't really talk. the thing is, i 've never been big on talking on the phone. and now my boyfriend is upset because he doesn't think i like to talk to him.. that's not the case at all! and i'm really upset about this so my question is.. does anyone have anything or any tips when talking on the phonee i could reallyy use ANYYY help!! thanks (link)
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first of all he should be okay with anything you dislike because you are being honest with him. that is really a plus because you could have told him good ridins because he liked to talk too much on the phone. realizing that you actually are very honest should have him smiling and not complaining. also how dare he.....doesnt he realize that it is just as much a problem for you that he talks on the phone too long as it is for him that you don't talk long enough? don't you think he is a bit biased,or one sided. he should not be upset, this is something you are not used to doing. try chatting online with him sometimes instead. it is much more fun and it is easier to be like," well love ya ,ttyl "it will make you all closer. it worked for me to build a relationship before. as far as while you are on the phone. when it gets quiet, he doesn't have anything to say either. try saying something on the lines of "well, honey, I really am ready to get off the phone now.... or.... i love you talk to ya tomorrow, kisses .... or.... no, you hang up first, no you hang up first....giggles..."it worked for me!!
hope i helped.
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i want to get abs by this summer. i'm a girl, and i'm 15. is it ok to do about 5 different ab excersises mon-friday about 20 of each..equaling about 100 abw/o's a day? my friend thats a guy says that i should do it every other day to let my muslces rest and stuff...
i need advice
i want a flat stomach by this summer
because i have like a small like..you know
im not fat AT ALL
i just have a little meat from the holidays
i want it flat
help! what to do?! (link)
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make sure that you walk about 30 minutes a day to burn the fat that is on your ab area, so that you will be able to see the six pack underneath the extra fat from the holidays.just mske sure you do some type of heart pumping exercise for at least 30 minutes a day along with the ab training. along with eating 4 to 6 small meals a day to keep your metabolism up for burning fat, too.i used to be an aerobics instructor. it does you no good to over do it on the ab training if you dont get your heart rate up at least 30 mins a day to burn the fat lying on top of your abs hiding all the hard work youve done to your ads in the first place. it works!!!!!
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what can i do about my pores?
their big and ugly and i hate them but their only big on one spot on my face and thats usually the spot i break out. any suggestions? (link)
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i have big pores on the upper part of both cheeks. it helps when i wash my face with warm water and rinse with cold water. i put my moisturizer on while my face is still wet. i have noticed a big change in the appearance of my pores. now they are only big if i gain weight or oversleep. hope this helps.
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