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why does it still hurt
me and my boyfriend have had sex three times and he was my first. the first two times it hurt a lot, which i know its supposed, and the third time it still hurt a little but not as much, but it still didnt feel good at all. i thought after the 2nd or 3rd time its supposed to feel good. whats going on?
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you are not ready to experience that part of life yet. i am so sorry that you did it at all. your virginity is something you can never get back. take it slow... tell him you dont like it and that you wish things could be the way they used to be.. i hope you did not do it because you felt pressured. if he treats you different because you dont like it then you need to get with someone that respects you because you dont like sex right now. just because you have already done it does not mean you cant stop doing it again. be a good girl and respect your body. you should be very careful about who you let inside of your body. make sure that they are worthy. sex is something that unless you are really feeling that person you are not going to like it. it sounds to me like maybe you dont like him that much or that you just dont like sex. you can tell him no!!!!! I really care because i am 30 years old and had sex way too much with guys that dont even deserve to walk around knowing what i feel like inside. think about it. the inside of your body should be saved for the guys you think are worthy enough to know what you feel like inside. If you feel like you made a mistake, it is okay. How would you have known unless you tried it. Dont beat yourself up. just tell him the truth.
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its perfectly normal to acually hurt untill the 4 or 5th time but all that it means is that your more sencitive in that area then others and just give it time and you will start to enjoy it
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