Member Since: February 26, 2012
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for someone my age i can definately say i have witnessed a lot of violence in my family. it started when i was 2. i still have flashbacks of how my dad beat my mom. and raped her. they divoreced and of course my mom won the court battle of full custody and i would only get get go with my dad Wednesday and every other weekend. a few years past and my mom got a new husband and they now have two kids (half broher and sister)i love them! then my stepdad got deported back to Mexico. He had no choice. And my mom was left with the kids and I. She struggled but i helped her around the house, clean, take care of the kids while she worked hard paying for our lttle apartment.
But i still had the Wednsday with my dad and every other weekend. So, my dad picked me up from my mom's aprtment and my dad and i left to go to his rented room. Night came and it was about 1:30 and i felt a hand on my vagina, it was my dad's(he was sleeping). . . . . i freakeD out and took his hand out and grabbed my phone and ran to the bathroom. i called my mom crying and she picked me up. and i as around 11-12. She called the cops but my dad HAS SOO MUCH FREAKING LUCK he conviced the police it was one of my hallicinations!or "wetdreams"?! and im like WHAT THE FUCKK?!!! I KNOW WHAT HAPPENED AND I DIDNT LIE The cops didnt beilive me (except for my mom) so CASE DISSMISSED.my momm couldnt take it anymore and she left with my permission back too Mexico. accrodding to law my mom has to leave me with my dad. and grandma. so he left she's now happy and im stuck here with my awesome grandma but with my stupid dad. i love/hate him. :/
and after all that shit^ im now 12-13 i started cutting myself and my guyfriend found out and he's telling me too stop (i cutt myself kinda deep)and he confiscaed all of my sharp objects. it's none of his business and it's not hurting anyone. it relaxes me. and idc what anyone says i'll still do it. i sometimes want to die and just have the world leave me alone. . .i've been acting strange with my dad and he wants me too see a physcoilogist because he thinks im "mentally unstable". . .Am i?? :( (link)
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don't cut yourself. just don't. you're beautiful and wonderful the way you are. your guyfriend is right. don't trust your dad, he seems weird. trust your mom. and don't cut yourself! you're perfec the way yoiu are. don't change! WE BELIEVE IN YOU. :D
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Okay now before my dad dead my hair use to get done ever other weekend because if it was not done when i saw him would fuss at my mom about it. Now that he's dead my hair has gone down hill. for one thing they(my sister and mom) think that 12 in to little to do your owen hair. But my mom does not have the time to do it and now that he's gone she does not have to do it. She ask my sister to do it. That cut's in to my sister time to do her hair. I know my sister feel for me and my hair loss but she want to get it done as fast as she can(so she can do her hair). I ask her over and over to do something with my hair that 1. will not pull to tight(my hair not use to that because my mom never did that)2. that I will be able to go and put some my my hair stuff (so it will not be dry and break off) But my sister does not know how to do much with out pulling tight. And she will do anything to get it over with.So what she does with my hair I can't go back and but oil on it. But what I really need is grase. That what works for me. Oil is just a hold me over for a day or two. And my hair stay's really dry. But I feel like no care's. Mom has time to wast. She talk on the phone for hour's and as she talking she could be doing my hair. I can't take much more of my sister. My hair falling out to fast. What can I do? Help!P.S. I would just let my hair out for a long time and put some stuff on it every day to help to if i had something to say about it. (link)
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Get the attention of your family- this is your hair, and you're so young! Don't lose your hair now! You got years before you're an old granny, don't lose your hair now. Get their attention, and get a conditioner that is healthier- maybe your hair got too used to the treatment every other weekend. It's gotta rest. But get the attention of your family, and get a hydrating conditioner and shampoo. Treate your hair well- don't lose it now.
Sorry about your dad.
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Ok so Im 13/f and my first period happened at the end of Septemeber. I waited for the next one with the date on my white board in my room but it never came so i decided maybe it would be late so i marked down the next one after that and nothing came. When i had my period in September, it never turned red, it was like brown (like i pooped my pants). So i decided that maybe the first one wasnt a period and moved on. In December, I got my period again. It sayed the same poop brown colour and never changed to red. After it was over, nothing happened in January or February yet. So my friends say Im lucky that I only get my period every 3 months but Im kinda scared. I told my mom but she didnt say anything. Im definately NOT going to a doctor to get it checked out, that would be awkward. But I have something in my undies (doesnt look like discharge) and its kinda slimy and sticky. (I have had the weird stuff since I was 11). I dont know what to do, any advice? (link)
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def. sounds weird- i know it's weird to go to a doctor about this, but they know better than anyone, and you're not going to be talking to a boy doctor
also, doctors see you naked anyway for yearly checkups, and you're not neighbors with this doctor, so you're never gonna see them again (except when your sick) so just talk and tell them how it feels or what's wrong.
something could be seriously wrong
better safe than sorry
good luck!
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Hello. I need someone to check out my blog please, copy and past this:
kierakov.blogspot.com/
into your thing and comment and like, it'd be a big help! (link)
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I'll check it out, sounds pretty cool.
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Hi. So recently I have started making myself throw up. The first time was this one night when I was really depressed about everything. It felt like I could no longer change anything about my life, so I wanted to change my appearance. At first nothing came out except clear saliva, but slowly my dinner began to make it's way back up. I have made myself throw up three times after this. This began about 2 weeks ago. Does this make me bulimic? (link)
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Stop it! You are a wonderful person and you know it! Don't do this to yourself! Yes you are bulimic! You can do this on your own, since you're so great, but you do need a friend or another adult to talk to. Don't be ashamed, just don't get to the point where it IS a shame. Stop now! Don't hurt yourself- you're a great person, don't ruin it! Everyone supports you, so don't doubt yourself. Your appearance is fine- you're perfect the way you are, so don't change yourself! Don't do this- trust me! :) Everyone supports you! :D
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so i had normal menstrual flow since then. and i have a boyfriend right now,
what he would do,is to finger me, about 2 fingers inside. but we never had sex. we had fun after a week of my period had been over.. he tried to enter his penis into my vagina, just once, we just tried only.
two weeks after that incident, i had my period again. i don't know why that happened, i just thought that it might be because my period just came early.
after 2 weeks again, i bleed. it's just in a minimal amount. i can't even soak a sanitary pad. is that what you call spotting? it only occurs in the morning.
what does that mean? please help me.! i don't want to go to a doctor.. i'm not preagnant, is it? (link)
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I have NO idea, but it doesn't sound like pregnant. If you were pregnant, you wouldn't get your period at all. I'm not exactly sure, but it might be that thing inside you that breaks when you have sex the first time. Do a little research. Find out if what you and your boyfriend did was ACTUALLY sex.
Either way, you SHOULD go to your doctor- unless you find out what it is.
Doesn't sound very normal, but don't worry. I'm not sure what 'spotting' is- but
I don't know. If it seems serious, contact your doctor- you never know what might be a sign of cancer! (don't get worried, I'm 13, I barely know what I'm talking about- but you are NOT PREGNANT)
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Well there is this really cute guy and i think he likes me but im not sure. How do i "Bring a Him out of his shell" AND how to know if he likes me (link)
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DO NOT (i repeat DO NOT) begin the relationship online
Do you like him?
You might like him just cause you think he likes you- make sure first that you like him anyway.
If you like him anyway, let him overhear you talking to your friends about a guy that you like (do not specifiy who). Next time, let him overhear in a loud whisper to your friend that IT'S HIM THAT YOU LIKE
He will start to like you (either because you like him, or because he is beginning to realize how awesome you are), and might hint it back somehow.
If you DO NOT like him, but just want to know if he likes you or not, ask one of his friends that you might know. Or maybe start a rumor that he likes you, and if he DEEPLY denies it or laughs it off, you will be able to tell from his behavior.
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how do u say good bye to the guy who likes u
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oooh toughie.
You say good bye
You say I love you (if this is the case DO NOT SAY GOOD BYE HOLD ON TO HIM)
To the guy who likes you, say it was fun, but I need to go, I just need to, I hope you'll understand
To the guy who loves you, say I know you'll miss me, but I need to go, I hope you'll understand, and you'll know that I'm not going this to be mean to you, I need to do this for me right now.
If he's a crybaby he'll cry
If he's a man he'll understand
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i want to be good at sexting!give me hints! (link)
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describe everything you would do if the person were actually there and you two were actually doing it.
(you don't actually have to be 'slipping off your red lace underwear' just type it and think of dirty things)
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I'm so bored today advice? (link)
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OH MY GOSH SAME
so thats why im answering this question
do
literally
ANYTHING
if you're that bored, you might actually clean your house- i was that bored once- pathetic, i know
prank call someone
make a new type of sandwich
make a video of you doing something stupid
go on the internet and look up celebrities
stalk somebody
get a new job
get a pet
see how many words you can type of a calculator
meet somebody new by calling a number that is SIMILAR to one of your friend's numbers, but change a few digits
write a book
go to a restaraunt by yourself :(
call up your boyfriend/girlfriend
email your parents
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HOW can i get on facebook during school? (link)
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my laptops blocked and ive heard of people who unnblock
bye bye laptop for those people
if its blocked, dont go on it
but a way you can and not get in trouble is if you have facebook notifications sent to your gmail email and then you can open up facebook inside of gmail (i think)
also, ive heard maybe in the URL instead of http://www.facebook.com
try https://www.facebook.com (put an 's' after the http)
i don't know- but if you think you're gonna get caught, chances are, you will get caught
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So here's the deal, I started going out with my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years my freshman year of college, before I had really experienced much of the classic college life. I care about my girlfriend and I want her to be happy but she pretty much dominates my entire social life. Pretty much whenever I'm not in class or studying I'm with her. We get into really stressful fights fairly frequently and sometimes I feel like I may die at the early age of 45 because of this stress. Another thing is that I had a lot of plans for myself post-college. Like, I was going to go teach English abroad in Japan for a year or two before I settled down to getting a real job. It looks like I wont be able to do any of that stuff because I've got my girlfriend holding me back.
Basically what I'm asking here is, would I be wrong for breaking up with her, even though I know it will completely devastate her? I'm only 19 and she already is expecting me to commit to her for life. Am I an asshole for wanting to move on? (link)
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Yeah dude, get out of there! She sounds like an okay person, but you're only 19- you got your whole life ahead of you! I'm guessing this is, what, your 6th serious girlfriend (sorry if I'm wrong)? You got a lot ahead of you- sure she may hate you, but if she's taking up your time, she being selfish already. Your time is precious, don't waste it with someone who is tying you down.
P.S. If you break up with her, don't use any clichés. She will punch you.
P.P.S. You're not an asshole, just make sure you don't see anything serious with her before you break up with her. Maybe you two are in love and you don't realize it. Maybe if you look beyond your dreams of teaching English in Japan, you may see that you love her SO much. Maybe she's going through a phase and will get nicer, and might even want to go to Japan with you! I don't know. Do what's best for you. You're the one that you're going to be living with for the rest of your life, and you know you best.
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is it weird that i have masturbated? i havent started my period at all yet and i was wondering if it had anything to do with masturbating!??!?!??! HELP PLZZZ!!!!!! Can masturbation keep you from starting? ASAP help!!
13 3/4/f (link)
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I'm 13 years old and I've masturbated countless times. Countless. I haven't started my period yet either :( although I shouldn't be sad because everyone at my school complains about it. I was googling online to see if masturbating prevents you getting your period- most things said no. So I'm guessing no. It's not weird that you've masturbated, and you can know for sure that at least one other girl in the world (me) masturbates as well. I always feel guilty, but then I don't. I'm just preparing myself for when I WILL have sex, and bring another person into the world.
This may sound weird, but it's the only way to reassure myself that masturbating is not a disgusting thing. I'm not 100% sure if masturbating affects your period, but I'm pretty sure it doesn't, but I'm just writing here to reasuure you that you're not alone.
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