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Ok my period is totally messed up at the moment and i have no idea why. Its late now by 7-10 days. So obviously i didn't get it. Its been missing one here and there for a while now, ive had my period for years now and there has never been a problem, it was always regular and on time give or take a few days.

Lately, ive been getting a lot of really heavy, clear, watery discharge. A lot more discharge than i normally get.


Heres roughly what my periods been like.. ill write down a few months so that you get a rough idea of the pattern lately

START - FINISH
Oct - 25th - 2nd (nov)
Nov - NOTHING after the 2 days from oct..
Dec - 8th - 14th
Jan - 11th - 16th
Feb - 15th - 21st
Mar - 21st - 27th
Apr - NOTHING
May - 10th - 16th
Jun - 13th - 20th
Jul - NOTHING

i know its probably nothing to worry about, and is probably just one of those normal things but its starting to get on my nerves now, expecially after it was so regular b2fore, i havent changed anything like my diet.. im not stressing as far as i know and have not been sexually active since almost a year ago.

Any ideas what it could be?? ANY ideas would help, even worse case senarios

Don't be nervous. It takes years (usually around your 20s) until periods actually come every 28 days. Last year there was a point where I missed 2 months worth of periods.

And even after your periods start coming regularly, other factors can affect it too, like weight loss, weight gain, stress, change in diet..so many possible things.

So no biggie. Really.

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oka well i been having my periods late than i usaully start, like usaully i start them like at the end of the month like on the 25th cuz usaully my periods last for only 5 days.well like in june it started a little later like on the 28th of june and end like in july 3th.So now i was suspose to been have it but i didnt and im guessing maybe i will start in august since i already had start in july.BUt what does this mean i never skip a period and this never had happen unless maybe im starting like in the 1st of the month than the last. please help me!
(this all stated in june).

Don't be nervous. It takes years (usually around your 20s) until periods actually come every 28 days. Last year there was a point where I missed 2 months worth of periods.

And even after your periods start coming regularly, other factors can affect it too, like weight loss, weight gain, stress, diet..so many possible things.

So no biggie. Really.

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ok so im 14 and im in complete love with my boyfriend and i know u here that all of the time but we hang out everyday and when im not with him its the worste feeling in the world and we've been together 5 months and we've been inseperable ever since so we were down in my basement the one day and me and him r kind of kinky haha and we like to fool around but we've never had sex and we arent going to b/c wer'e too young and there is too many risks so anyway, i went to put on a skirt [so he didnt have to pull my pants down b/c my mom was upstairs] and then i told my mom i was going to "model" the skirt for him so i wnet downstairs and out it on then he was laying on the floor and i went to step over him so he could look up my skirt and as soon as i did that my mom came down and saw that! i told her i tripped and she came down at the worste time ever it was soo bad and now she thinks im like a whore or something and i told her im not but im not going to tell her that ive done everything but sex esp. if she thinks ill ive done was make out yanno? and now my bf thinks my mom hates him but she doesnt so i dont know what to do! please help me! what do i do? :/

I think you should talk to your your mom at a good time when she's relaxed and off-guard. Calmly (and ~CALMLY~ is the key word, hun) explain how her thinking of you like a whore hurts your feelings and makes you feel bad.

Don't let your mom interuppt you and just stick it to her straight. AND..you don't have to go into detail about other stuff you've done with your BF :]..if she inquires, though, then here's another key word for you: bullshit.

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Ok I'm 16 and a female. It's summer and all i can do is think about this one boy. Does anybody know what i could do? I really like him and im not really sure if he likes me back. He's usually at my bus stop and lives on the street right behind me! Please Help!!! Thank You All!!!

omg the answer is OBVIOUS! pay him a visit! say you were walking/biking/etc and you want him to join you, just for a start. hopefully he will find that he likes you a lot and you guys could meet together more often and maybe form a relationship =] just dont come on too strong at first.

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