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Just out of curiosity, what are some hints that guys may give if they like you? And what are some really subtle ones? I'm always oblivious to these things and was just wondering. Especiallly to see if any of them apply to the guy I like. Thanks!

They'll talk to you alot and try to get around you as much as they can, they'll flirt with you & pick on you, and make comments to stuff you say. They also smile at you too. For example, I have a guy friend who likes to flirt with me all the time, and he also picks on me sometimes but ends up saying "I'm just playing with you." And if he sees me sitting by myself he'll come over and sit and talk with me, and when he passes me in the hall he smiles or winks, haha. But yeah, those are mostly the signs. Good luck with the guy you like! =)

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Ok the other day (I forgot how we came up on the subject)my friend and I were talking about how much we weighed. I told her first, but I am pretty skinny. Well, she told me she only weighed 2 more pounds than me (92). I think she is lying, however (maybe she feels embarassed?), because she wears a size five in jeans (I wear a 0). Can she really only weigh 2 more pounds than me, and yet still wear jeans way bigger than me? b/c me and this girl are REALLY good friends & i she NEVER lies to me (and i would hate for her to start!!) Thanks I will rate 5's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't think she is lying, your friend just might have bigger hips than you or something. Two of my friends wear the same size jeans as I do and I'm smaller than both of them & I weigh less than them. So it's possible to be two pounds heavier with a bigger jean size.

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What are some good prepaid cell phone deals? thanks!

You might not want to go with Virgin Mobile. I've had a Virgin Mobile prepaid plan twice and both times I could NEVER get a signal, even in the city, and when someone called I could hardly hear them. Tracfone is really good, and Alltel, Verizon Wireless, and T-Mobile also have prepaid plans but I'm not sure how good they are.

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now that it is 2005 it got me thinking...i am 14 years old and 2005 means that i get to do alot of new things!! like..i get my braces on in a few months...not that exciting..but anywho..i also turn 15 which means that i am going to try and get a job at sonic and i also get to go to high school in augest as a freshman and i also get to get my driving permit!!! all of this is kinda over whelming...can anyone tell me what it is like to begin to drive or what it is like to be a freshman??? because i'm scared because these are all MAJOR parts of my life happening all at once!

Driving is a little scary at first. Make sure you know which pedal is brake and gas! haha. When I first drove I didn't know anything, I was only 14 and they stuck me in a car with my mom's friend's son and I drove into my yard & almost hit my mom's truck. So be careful! ;o] & being a freshman was all right. You'll get picked on & all for being "new" to the school but hopefully nothing bad should happen. Have fun driving & becoming a freshman! =)

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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???

I think you should wait, but it's your choice. If you aren't sure you should wait until you're really sure you want to. I know you'll probably hear this alot on here but you're kinda young. So if you two do end up having sex make sure you use protection because you don't want to have a baby at a young age.

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Ok i slept with make-up on..stupid i know..and now my eyes are sore..how long will it take for the soreness to go away?

It should go away within a few hours or so.

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i was borne in wilmar,minnesota and i live in california and like i was wondering if anyone new of a sight that gave you your birth records

*needed baby records*

do you mean like a birth certificate? I don't think there's a site for that. your parents should have a copy of your birth certificate. I had to have mine for school and my mom couldn't find it, so she went to the health department, where they should make you a copy of it for you, but you have to pay for it. although I'm not really sure how you could get one since you were born in minnesota and live in california now. like everyone else said, try going to the hospital where you were born.

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