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Q: what are some really hard-core rap/hip-hop songs? Lots of cursing is fine. I just need a short list of some unknown but really catchy rap songs. Thanks
there is this rap group called the pack
they are pretty hardcore
this one song called dum ditty dum dum is so pimp!
i love it i can't think of anymore

Q: what do people write in other people yearbooks? esp to people they dont know? just sign name?
well if i you don't know the person just sign your name and write hey have a good summer or something like that if you like the person just write your number if yoy want to get to know them more

Q: what is the name of the song when will smith starts to walk ?


http://youtube.com/watch?v=n8LfRq61dE4


(the song that plays)
part people- by nell feat fergie

Q: lost best friendships

thnx in advance
best friends- by amy whinehouse
i cant thhink of anymore hope i helped!

Q: how would you "pleasure yourself" with a pillow?

i know some girls finger themselves... but is there any way to "pleasure yourself" without doing that
well it definetley takes longer
doing it yourself is easier
girls hump their pillows and there is like friction it feels ok but not as "satisfying"

Q: im happy i guess with my body in general but i hate my stomach fat, its gross. i have a big belly and love handles, and thats what makes my body gross. im so determined to get rid of them. i've been doing situps, backwards sit ups (to loose the love handles) but i dont seem to be getting flatter, my fat is just getting harder (muslce i guess?) but it still looks like fat, not like a 4-pack muscles, i want 4 pack ab muscles instead of just a big blob of fatty muscle, does anyone know what im doing wrong?


oh and i dont really wanna loose weight i mean 10 pounds would be good but i dont think im that fat, just my stomach. thankss.
doing situps and ab workouts is not going to make the fat go away so what hat means is that you have to do cardio like running or swimming and such. cardio is the best

Q: hey,
im 15 years old, about 5'5 and weigh about 165lbs.
Ive always had a large frame, and i know I am built bigger and I always will be. But I do want to lose weight. So far Ive lost about 5lbs. in 3 weeks with weight watchers, and I want to lose 20lbs. I would really like to weigh 150lbs. by the end of July. I exercise everyday for at least an hour, I guess my problem is that I like to eat. But ive dieted before, and I know what to eat and such, it's just that it's hard being a teenage when I can't like eat anything! But I'm on a summer swim team so I will be swimming like 3-4 days a week and doing abdominal exercises and I have friends in my neighborhood to ride bikes and jog with. But any suggestions? There are times when I want to quit because I'm not making any progress..and i think about food wayyy to much, which is suprising because I'm really active and invloved with school and 4-H and alot of other things. And if you have any advice for like cravings or like any food advice of dieting please help! I really want to meet this goal so badly! thank-you!
well it really doesn't matter what you eat but how much you eat so just watch your servings. your exercise routine sounds really great also don't be afraid to indulge a littel. good lick and have fun!

Q: Help! I'm redoing my room this summer and I have nooo idea what colors I want it to be. Whenever I think of a good color scheme, I change my mind.

I'm 16, female.. I want my room to have a happy, but yet calm and relaxing feeling. I love bright/light colors. I hate dark colors.

Please give me some suggestions, thanks! :)
ok if you want a calm feeling green is the best color and happy is usally represented by yellow. also energy feeling is usually magenta. well those colros usually represent a feeling so hope that helps if youre going for a theme those usually work

Q: hey sorry i know this is a really wierd question and all but i have to know....
whats a blow job, hand job, and giving head??
well a blow job is when you suck a guys dick which is the same as giving head..and a hand job is when you touch and rub and feel up the male's junk if you know what i mean... well i hope i helped i'm just being really blunt.. ok do you understand?

Q: I'd like to know some like popular old bands and songs of like the time the beatles were popular. In the years of 1960's and songs your grandparents would have listened to when they were young.

Thanks.
some good bands are:
-the beatles
-janis joplin
-the doors
-the monkeys
- jimi hendrix
-the supremes
- the four tops
-the temptations
-aretha franklin
- the beach boys
- mamas and papas
-simon and garfunkel
-ray charles
-stevie wonder
-james brown
-three dog night
-santana
-rolling stones
-the who
-the clash
well there are more so if you want a linger list just contact me!

Q: is there a website for guys or emo people to just talk about things about life and relatations thanks xp
the website vampire freaks is made for just what you are looking for :]

Q: who are some techno-beat singers?



especially good for fashion shows.
cascada
dota
newton
just in general rave songs

Q: When writing a song, do you think of the words first or the tune first? And I mean, how do you make the tune. I dont even know how to start without copying someone else.
well it alldepends on what you have in mid already if you think of words first then the tune will naturally flow and if you think of tune fisrt the words will flow. songwriting should be easy if it comes from the heart

Q: Has anyone been in an interracial relationship? Did you encounter any heat from your friends or family? Did you live in an area where there was a majority of one race?

Thanks
i was in a interracial relationship with a gu last year he was super white and i am mexican... so no one really cared because when you are around peopl of so many races these days[especially where i live] not many people care
plus if you like som one you shouldn't give a daamn

Q: How do you know if someone is emotionally manipulative of you?
usually when someone manipulates you it's when she undermines you and makes you feel bad if you don't do something also the manipualtor who is snobish and challenges you to be better then in the nd she just rubs it in your face still. or the one who will ask you to let her copy her homework and she'll say something like:"if you don't let me copy i'll fail the class..."

Q: how do you get it?
how do you know if you have it (all signs)?
how do you get rid of it without doing to the doctor if you can?
wellit's when your vag is really dirty and it itches alot and its really uncomfortable the best thing to do is take a shower evryday and keep clean just wash it

Q: kay so whats a mototrboat?

not like a boat with a motor

but i think its like a sex position or techinique

but i heard it over the weekend and..

i want to know what it is

help mee out?
please.
a motorboat is like when a guy puts his face between a girls boobs or butt and makes like a bllllrrllrlrl noise it's kinda gross strippers do it while giving lapdances

Q: 13/f

what can i read for the summer thats somewhere from 200-500 pages long? i need some good quality interesting books that ill like
the best is to go for contempory literature like the books:
lord of the flies
catcher in the rye
king dork
and more
also the clique books are really dramtic so i guess thata's good if you want more books just ask me!

Q: when people say that something is "overated" what do they mean by that???
overrated means something that is given too much hype and when you actaully do it or witness it it's not actuallly not worth or the talk and hype

Q: I knew my hair was dry but apparently it's bad to what my hairdresser said.I don't use heat or products on my hair and I leave conditioner on for about 20 mins.. but I suppose the damage is due to past dyeings. Any shampoos or treatments I should check out? Any amazing results? I've tried a lot but no change.
i've heard that the brand mane & tail works wonders on dry hair!
also dandruff shampoo works well and it makes your scalp healthier even if you don't have dandruff
also put an egg iwth you shampoo too i know it sounds gross but it makes it less dry

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