Well im from the UK and i like helping and giving advice to people. Im currently in college and loving EVERY single minute of it, ive met some amazing people there.
If you need any advice i'd love to help.
Member Since: October 21, 2008
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Last Update: October 22, 2008
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and i am 17 and i love him to death but, he gets so mad all the time over little things and i dont know what to do everytime i try and talk to him he gets mad and thinks im trying to start an arguement what do i do? (link)
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set things straight, tell him to listen or your simply going to get fed of him, he needs to listen to you and he would if he loves you, tell him not to get mad all the time.
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okay so im 5'3 108 pounds. i know im not fat!! but like i feel like everytime i eat something, im guna get fat. i eat really healthy though most of the time! maybe once a week i will have some ice cream or eat some fried food but thats it! idk whats wrong withme but whenver i eat i feel like, guilty, and i feel like i need to workout asap! even though im at a healthy weight and my body is pretty fit.. idkkk! i think i have like a phobia of becoming fat!?!?????? advice tips?! (link)
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Well try not to suddenly have the urge of wanting to workout after you eat something, the reason you are probably getting this feeling is because it happened once, and its turned into a habit.
Try your best to not let this urge to exercise overwhelm you or you could start to stop eating.
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17/F
Please Please Please give me some advice! :)
Okay, so theres this guy at my school who's a year older than me. Ive known who he is (as in, his name and what he looked like, but we didnt know each other) since middle school because we use to ride the same bus. Well, now im a junior & hes a senior. We dont really know each other....as in we're not friends and we dont KNOW know each other until last week when i introduced myself.
I told my friend i thought he was hot. She went up to him and told him that "her friend" thought he was hot. and he told her he had a girlfriend.
so....a few days laster (last week) I went and sat by his locker to actually intorduce myself because I cant stop thinking about him and I wanted him to know at least my name.
(heres the embarassing part)
When he came to his locker, he started looking through his backpack for something and I walked up. I looked at him and he kinda didnt notice me but i just stood there for a minute. When he looked up i was like "hi. I think you're gorgeous."
He was like "thank you"
and then i didnt want to walk away so I was like "i think i saw you at walmart buying tooth paste. We buy the same tooth paste. (i was trying to be funny, but it was mostly cuz i was nervous)
he told me he doesnt buy tooth paste at walmart. Then i couldnt think of what to talk about....i asked him what school he went to (WHILE he was at his locker) he just kinda looked up at me and said "where do you think"
Long story short i made an idiot of myself.
The second time i talked to him was two days later. i tried to be cute. I asked him if he remembered my name and he did.
Hes really sweet. and everything....I really wanna get to know him, even if he does have a girlfriend (even though hes always by himself so he might have been lying about that)
But i dont have any classes with him. and the only place i know where to find him is after lunch at his locker. and i know where he parks...but thatd be way creepy to wait by his car. lol.
I know im trying really hard but ive never really went after a guy before and i really want him.
Should I keep trying to talk to him?
What are some ways I could approach him and make myself look a little more.....sane?
lol
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Well make things steady if you really like this guy, ask him if he's okay, ect. Start a basic conversation with him. Also get to know him, you dont know what he is completely like, he might be really different from the guy your falling for.
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i like my friend but he lives a half hour away. My bff had a bf who lived a half hour away and it got really weird and didn't work out at all. so i'm kinda scared but i like this guy and i don't know if he likes me. we don't hang out that much because will live a half hour away. but he came over a couple weeks ago and we played a little video games ate some dinner then we went to the movies togehter then out ot ice cream. i told everyoen it wasn't a date but all my friends are saying it was. i mean, he didn't make any moves and eaitehr did i. I don't know if he likes me but he told me that he had tons of fun and he wants to hang out and go to another movie with me. so next weekend we r planning on going to hte movies again but his time it will be a scary movie..he want to see saw 5 and i do't like scary movies..cause i'm a big scardy cat but i dont nkow what to do. i really like him but i dont' know what to do or if he likes me! i'm kinda confused...so if anyone can hlep me i would appreciate it very much! thx. (link)
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Its not very certain if he like you yet, but for the movies, why dont you tell him you dont want to watch something scary, im sure he'll understand.
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my friend and i recently became closer friends. and he told me that he used to burn himself and cut himself and that he attempted to commit suicide three times. he told me that things were better now, but im still worried. he hasnt burned himself in six months. and i told him i'd always be here to listen. if he confides in me that he is suicidal in the future, should i tell someone. he told me no one can know, but i'm scared for him. i know he's fine now, but what about if he gets depressed in the future? what should i do? please help me. (link)
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well dont tell anyone unless you feel you definetly definetly need to, or you'll lose his trust completely, try talking to him about it, if he feels suicidal tell him to talk to you, and tell him not to worry, because he'll really apprecitate that your trying to help.
abbie x
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16/f
i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 2 months and i really love him. he's the best. but see, there's this guy in my gym class and he always flirts with me during class. after gym he sometimes even comes to my locker and walks me to my next period class. but here's the thing, i always meet up with my boyfriend in between classes and whenever the guy is at my locker, i have to take a detour so i dont see my boyfriend otherwise my boyfriend will think i'm cheating on him with this other kid. and then i have to lie and say that my gym class got let out late and thats why i didn't meet him.
you're probably thinking that i should just straight up tell this guy that i have a boyfriend. but i HATE making people feel bad. ABSOLUTELY HATE IT!! i actually kind of like this guy... but i know that i would be much much MUCH better off with my current boyfriend and i should stick with him. i'm not the type of girl who changes boyfriends every now and then... and i really DO NOT want to be those kinds of girls.
so what i think i'm saying is... i want to keep my current boyfriend, but i also like it when this other guy flirts with me, but i would not want him as my boyfriend.
WHAT SHOULD I DO??? help i'm so lost. (link)
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I know you said that you don't want to tell him you have a boyfriend, because your afraid you'll hurt him, but in a way you'll have to hurt him to get him to stop flirting with you or waiting for you, or your just going to hurt your boyfriend.
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if you go tanning will your freckles get darker? because i have freckles on my face and arms but im SO pale and NEED a tan. so will they get darker? or just blend with my skin tone? (link)
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why dont you use fake tan? it wont cover up your freckles but if you use a tanning bed it will make them more noticible.
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hiiiiii :)
i'll give anyone who answers a 5, because this is long! thanks!
18/f. i have a best friend who is turning 17 in about 3 months and his girlfriend is already 17. im in college (freshman) but i commute, so i still live at home and he is a junior in high school. i know some of you may think, wow age difference? guys dont mature as fast as girls? yes. but my best friend is totally different. he gets me. we've been friends for about three and a half years now. he's been going out with his girlfriend for about two and a half. before he was going out with his girlfriend we use to hang out pretty much everyday. we both kind of liked each other but neither of us told one another. lets just say we were physicallly attracted to each other but we were also very comfortable with each other. we've never kissed or done anything physical. anyways when he started going out with his girlfriend, i was jealous i'll admit it and i STILL AM. she is known to be the "hottest" girl in school and she is an athletic girl and is good at what she does. she plays fastpitch tennis and hockey for school, and well he is the starting quarterback for his school, he is pretty much the star athlete for all the sports he plays at school (hockey baseball and football) i guess all the colleges are looking to recruit him and well all the girls think he is hot too. they go to the same school. well after about a year of them going out or even a couple months, things between us were different. i don't get to see him anymore, maybe once in about two or three months, he doesn't text me anymore and i feel like we're not even "best friends" anymore because he is ALWAYS with his girlfriend, any chance he gets. sometimes i'll have an excuse to text him like last weekend i met one of his friends at a party, and i was like i met your friend jake tonight! and he was like jake who? and i was like..i forget his last name but he use to play football with you and then he never said anything back. im really sick of texting him first and always getting disappointed because i feel like he doesnt even want to talk to me. him and his girlfriend are first loves, they even lost their virginity to each other and after being together for two and a half years and they rarely ever fight, of course they have good memories. i want him to be happy, but right now IM NOT HAPPY. i dont want to sound selfish but i'll always like him more than a friend but i realize we can never be more. im a jealous person, and of course im always jealous of his girlfriend. i've tried talking to him about it, and even one night about a month ago we were together with some friends and he started talking to me and was like, "what happened to us, why aren't we close anymore?" and i was just like well, alot happened i guess. and he was like you know you can tell me anything, we're best friends and i was like we WERE best friends... and he was like what do you mean! and i was just like i dont know..things between us will never be the same. and i think he felt bad and he says things will change, but it never does. i dont want him out of my life but im so miserable right now, have been for two and a half years without him. him and his girlfriend dont hang out with anyone but each other. he even said they want to go to the same college, but he can pretty much go to any college he wants to play hockey, and i think she might get a scholarship to play too. what if they do end up going to the same college? it just hurts knowing that his heart belongs to someone else, and how we're not close anymore and i dont think ever will be. it seems like he will only ask to hang out with me when his girlfriend has to do something or is out of town, which to me doesnt sound fair but of course i'll hangout with him any chance i get, because i really do miss him. my family is in love with him. he is talkitive to them well he is a very outgoing guy, and is so nice. i stay busy but i always think about what he is doing, every time i get a text i hope it's him (but it never is) i dont want to move on from him, i dont want him out of my life. i want my best friend back...
i dont know what to do! (link)
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Jelousy is a bad thing but not anyone can help being jelous of someone.
Well it seems your bestfriend is happy, maybe you should give him and his girlfriend a chance, i know this might sound harsh but you should try going about your other friends, you said he had no time for you.
You dont have to get him completely out of your life.
You can always talk to him, one time when his girlfriend is tied up with something be confident and talk to him about your friendship.
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so i went to a small private school for most of my life where everybody knew everybody. when i was in 8th grade, this new guy started going there. he was a junior, and i had the biggest crush on him. he didnt have a clue of my existance haha, and i didnt really know him, i just admired from afar and thought he was really fine! and he raced motocross which is a major turn on for me. after 8th grade i transfered out of that school, he graduated the next year, yada yada. now im 18 & a senior, and i just realized that he's on my friends list (!) hes like 21, and i wanna start talking to him, send him a msg or something. but i have no idea what to say!? i dont just wanna be like hey whats up or hey im so & so. something that'll catch his interest and make him wanna reply back =], but not like hey! guess what i used to think you were so hot! and him be like uhh whos this freak? haha any ideas? (link)
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Well if you really want to talk or make him intrested, you could message him once askin if he's okay, whats he been up to ect, then he'll most probably reply, and then you can keep messaging.
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17/f
I was at a party for a sports team, the guys are all quite close since they're away from home and spend countless hours together. I am interested in one of the guys on the team but I don't know him very well. In one class at (high) school, I sit near the guy I am interested in, but his teammate sits between us.
At the party things got a little crazy and the guy I am interested in wasn't paying a whole lot of attention to me. His friend, however, was constantly with me and we ended up making out until I realized what was happening and pushed him away.
Now the whole team is talking about the kiss. The team is away for two weeks, so luckily I don't have to sit beside those guys for a bit. According to some guys on the team, the one I kissed is interested in me (not surprising) but I do not feel the same about him.
How do I pursue the guy I like? His friend is very close with him so that makes things complicated, not to mention he sits between us during our only class together. How do I avoid further complications? I do not want to hurt either of these guys or ruin their friendship. (link)
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Maybe you should get to know the one you kissed, he might be a good guy. But if you think nothing will change, tell him you are simply not intrested.
The guy you are intrested does'nt seem that he shows much intrest in you, but i can't judge as i dont know him, maybe you should leave it with both the guys? as people say there's plenty more fish in the sea.
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