I was at a party for a sports team, the guys are all quite close since they're away from home and spend countless hours together. I am interested in one of the guys on the team but I don't know him very well. In one class at (high) school, I sit near the guy I am interested in, but his teammate sits between us.
At the party things got a little crazy and the guy I am interested in wasn't paying a whole lot of attention to me. His friend, however, was constantly with me and we ended up making out until I realized what was happening and pushed him away.
Now the whole team is talking about the kiss. The team is away for two weeks, so luckily I don't have to sit beside those guys for a bit. According to some guys on the team, the one I kissed is interested in me (not surprising) but I do not feel the same about him.
How do I pursue the guy I like? His friend is very close with him so that makes things complicated, not to mention he sits between us during our only class together. How do I avoid further complications? I do not want to hurt either of these guys or ruin their friendship.
chocolatelover answered Tuesday October 21 2008, 12:39 pm: Maybe you should get to know the one you kissed, he might be a good guy. But if you think nothing will change, tell him you are simply not intrested.
The guy you are intrested does'nt seem that he shows much intrest in you, but i can't judge as i dont know him, maybe you should leave it with both the guys? as people say there's plenty more fish in the sea. [ chocolatelover's advice column | Ask chocolatelover A Question ]
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