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He thinks im mental.
17/F
Please Please Please give me some advice! :)
Okay, so theres this guy at my school who's a year older than me. Ive known who he is (as in, his name and what he looked like, but we didnt know each other) since middle school because we use to ride the same bus. Well, now im a junior & hes a senior. We dont really know each other....as in we're not friends and we dont KNOW know each other until last week when i introduced myself.
I told my friend i thought he was hot. She went up to him and told him that "her friend" thought he was hot. and he told her he had a girlfriend.
so....a few days laster (last week) I went and sat by his locker to actually intorduce myself because I cant stop thinking about him and I wanted him to know at least my name.
(heres the embarassing part)
When he came to his locker, he started looking through his backpack for something and I walked up. I looked at him and he kinda didnt notice me but i just stood there for a minute. When he looked up i was like "hi. I think you're gorgeous."
He was like "thank you"
and then i didnt want to walk away so I was like "i think i saw you at walmart buying tooth paste. We buy the same tooth paste. (i was trying to be funny, but it was mostly cuz i was nervous)
he told me he doesnt buy tooth paste at walmart. Then i couldnt think of what to talk about....i asked him what school he went to (WHILE he was at his locker) he just kinda looked up at me and said "where do you think"
Long story short i made an idiot of myself.
The second time i talked to him was two days later. i tried to be cute. I asked him if he remembered my name and he did.
Hes really sweet. and everything....I really wanna get to know him, even if he does have a girlfriend (even though hes always by himself so he might have been lying about that)
But i dont have any classes with him. and the only place i know where to find him is after lunch at his locker. and i know where he parks...but thatd be way creepy to wait by his car. lol.
I know im trying really hard but ive never really went after a guy before and i really want him.
Should I keep trying to talk to him?
What are some ways I could approach him and make myself look a little more.....sane?
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That is funny. ^_^
Not bad funny. I did similar in high school, so no worries, you're not alone.
I really think you used the wrong approach for this though. First of all, hit your friend in the back of the head, because all that did was assure him that any contact with you will be flirting. When she gets up, hit her again. ^_^
Now, you've made yourself out to be a psycho. Happens. It can be fixed. You just have to be crafty about it, and I'm the queen of crafty. You need to find out a little more about him, like the girlfriend thing. It's possible that she goes to another school or something sly like that, but you need to find out for sure. You need to know some of his interests and what he does on the weekends. Unfortunately, if reassuring yourself you're not creepy was your goal, I can't do that, because you need to find this out, and there's really only one way to do that. Stalk him.
It sounds bad, I know, but once you find out these things, then it's easier to break the ice. You know his interests and you can start a casual conversation about it. You know whether he actually has a girlfriend, you can figure out just how crafty you need to be to snag him.
Find out what classes he's good in. If you have a similar class (English is always good) then you can bring up how "bad" you're doing and wish that someone could tutor you a little. He's bound to offer. They always do.
If you find ANY of this helpful and you need further crafty advice, how to stalk people, whatever, message me. I do this a lot. I'm good at it. Lol.
If you didn't, sorry. ^_^
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Well make things steady if you really like this guy, ask him if he's okay, ect. Start a basic conversation with him. Also get to know him, you dont know what he is completely like, he might be really different from the guy your falling for.
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