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I'm a 14 year old guy and I have started to masturbate a lot,it can be up to 4 times a day it feels so good I get horny there's nothing wrong with masturbating that much? (link)
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Nope its perfectly normal
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I'm 13 female and horny a lot! But when I masturbate I still am horny what should I do!? And I want sex should I find a guy to have sex with me? (link)
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Having sex once isnt going to just magically take your horniess away. Just wait, dont just go give up your virginity even if you feel like you need to. Just carry on with your masturbating and find different ways to do it
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I was watching YouTube on safari and it was in incognito mode, which I thought doesn't show any of my history but I watched a video on YouTube (sorry if this is too much information but it was something called a jerk off challenge, and when I went back to normal mode to look at my.history,the video was there) . Which is weird since I wasn't signed in on incognito mode unless I accidentally pressed on the video in the normal mode, but my YouTube account uses my moms email address and is also logged in on her phone, i have now cleared the video from my history in regular mode but not private mode, but I'm not sure if it would clear in private mode since I'm not signed in on it, but I'm not sure if my mom would be able to see that i had watched it either by looking through the history, or getting an email. Can anyone who is familiar with the video YouTube settings tell me if my mom can see it?and if she can how can I explain it. I'm a 14 year old boy, but I really want to know how to get out of this. (link)
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If its cleared from your history she wont see it. If you need to make sure go on her phone say yours is drad and you need to do something go onto hers and clear the history there as well.
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It might seem shallow of me to ask strangers for advice on this, but I want to make something special for my mom this year, and I'm having trouble thinking of anything. I'm only 14, so I can't really buy anything without her knowing. Can anyone suggest some unique craft ideas? Some things my mom likes are turtles, cats, warm/fuzzy things, candy, snow and winter-related things, and cinnamon rolls (I could maybe do some baking?) If you're a mom, what would you want to get from your daughter for christmas? Any suggestions are appreciated, thanks! (link)
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1)You could make a gift with a few different things : cinnamon rolls, fuzzy socks ( maybe with cat related things on it), her favourite candies, a cat coffee mug ( you can make your own with sharpies).
2)You could also make a candy flower jar.
3)Bake cinnamon rolls and a card ( simple is great too)
4) a big mason jar or a cookie jar filled with her favourite candy, lotions, nail polish
5) open when cards
6) fuzzy socks/slippers filled with candy, a nail polish, a eos/lipgloss
7)diy peperment bath salts
8) spa day in a jar/basket - candle, lotions, bathsalts ( diy), epsom salts ( diy), fuzzy socks, nail polish, nail file, a book of "spa vouchers" which you would do for her ( massage)
9) artwork ( ideas from pinterest)
10) and then if youre still stuck search " mom christmas gift" on pinterest i always use pinterest
Goodluck let me know what you do
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I live in NJ and I am under age of 18 and I had sex would I Be aloud to get a pregncey test? (link)
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Where i am from, i can get pregnancy tests at any age. You just go to a pharmacy or something and you buy them there. You dont need your parents consent
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Hey I'm 14 years old female. And I go to middle school. So I've always been very shy and it's very hard for me to warm up to people. I go to a different school as my best friend and my other friends(it took a while to find the right people), so ever since year 7 I've been pretty lost. This year in year 8 I have a close group of friends, and some others, they've been very nice and stuff, but they've made other friends as well and it seems like they get close so easily, like they're all nice to me in school and hangout and stuff but seldom ask me to hang out out side of school. I have friends, but it seems like our friendships just stay there and we don't seem to get any closer. I don't know if it's my fault or maybe it's just life. Advice is appreciated thank you (link)
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Hey sweets so i know exactly how you feel. Im 16 and my best friends arent in my school and my schools tiny so i dont have much of a choice -in my friendship group they are all best friends and im just kind of there.
Its not your fault. Some people just take more time than others to open up and thats sometimes a good thung because you cant trust anyone, especially in high school and you'll learn that as you get older as well. You could always try talk to others i know its difficult but what you could do is find someone who is a tiny bit shyer than you - i always find it easier for me to talk then because im kind of the more confident one and i find it easier to talk because im not intemidated. Or someone who is easy to talk to and outgoing -then you will be able to talk easily with them. Also the best way to make new and good friends is to make friends through hobbies. For example i started dancing recently and i have bevome so close with the girls at my dance studio. Yoh just need to get into a hobbie or go to someone uou know has the same interests as you ( or even if you dont know, you can always find someone) and talk about those things, the more you talk the easier it becomes for you to talk about other things. I know its hard being shy but you must try get over your fears and worries and put yourself out there.
Goodluck.
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Is it socially acceptable? What do you think? (link)
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No because its only two years difference. I was 13 and dated a 16 year old. It seems like a big difference but when 17 year old is 20, the other is 22. Its really not that big of a deal and its not creepy. Only thing is somtimes the maturity level is different, especially if the guy is younger. The 19 year old shouldn't pressure 17 year old to do anything they dont want to do. Times have changed and relationships have changed. It is socially acceptable and i dont see anything wrong with it at all. Goodluck.
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im girl 17,i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him..two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels ,during school,i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him,he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him.then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church ,and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and then i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online.now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i told him i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more ,now i ignore him bc i dont know how to act to him..he sent me friend request on fb but i didnt accept it yet..he was good friend to me before i told him about my feelings..please help me should i be his friend again or not? if yes what should i tell him,why i suddenly accepted his friend request on fb,and also today is his birthday, should i wish him happy birthday even i removed him from my friends??..thanks for help :) (link)
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Hi!
Okay firstly wish him happy birthday. Dont be bitter about it x
I think accept his request and send him a message saying youre sorry and if you can meet him to talk. If you do that and you meet him, explain to him the real reason you did what you did. But dont meet onhis birthday to do this because if things dont go well then its a bad birthday. Dont be bitter about him not wanting to date you or anything, try be mature about it when you talk. Because if he doesnt like you like that, you cant be mad at him about it its not his fault. Dont let a crush get in the way of a friendship, ive made that mistake before and its not a good one. Fix it before its to late.
Let me know if you take my advice and how things go. Goodluck.
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Female, 15
I am part of a pretty close knit group of about 7 people. We spend every recess and lunch together and we catch up frequently. We always are talking on our group chat and sharing things in our Facebook group. They're all my best friends. However, because we're all growing, our group isn't what it used to be. People are finding new interests and changing/growing.
I am quite weird and random, and sometimes I guess I come across as annoying to those who don't understand my humour. I love philosophy and am very curious about the world. I love nature and music. My friends don't really have that in common with me.
Recently every time I talk none of them listen to me, or they tell me I'm annoying or something. They say it in a sort of joking way, but because they do it so much I'm thinking they actually mean it. It's not everyone but it's a few people in the group. They go "you're so annoyinggg haha". I've mentioned how much they say I'm annoying several times before, hoping they realise that it actually affects me, but they just ignore it.
Whenever I talk to them about the world and issues that I feel actually matter, they turn around and start talking about how bummed they are that they got a 70% on their math test.
They're generally nice, but they can be pretty two faced at times, and fake towards each other and me, but only occasionally.
Overall I am confused and am not sure what I should do. Advice would be appreciated!! (link)
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Hey.
So i completely understand where you coming from - im 16 and in my friendship group at school i feel like the least important there.
But just because that friendship group cant understand you doesnt mean youre boring - there are tons of people in the world and even in your school with the same interests and would be great friends. I think maybe you could talk to one of the people in your group that youre closest to when none of thw others are there and see what they say. If things dont improve, you should look for a new group. Its hard to lose friends, but its a part of growing up and in the end you will be happier. Unfortunately not everyone is openminded and intelligent and not everyone can get along with everyones personalities. Just try talking to new people at your school you could find someone who really intersts you and they could show you there group.
Good luck and i really hope things work out for you
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I was taught that when a girl starts her period, it is often irregular, and will even out as she matures.
I am 18 and have had my period for more than four years, and it is not getting any more regular. If anything it is becoming more irregular. Just a few months ago I had a 36 day cycle, and more recently I had one that was only 19 days.
Is this normal? Will I even out eventually?
I did start university this fall, so the change and new hormones from the girls I am living with could have an affect, but that would only explain the more recent ones....
I'm just wondering if I should be worried. Do I need to talk to my doctor?(please say no, I am scared of doctors) (link)
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Im 16 but have had my period for 6 years .. mine has never been regular until i started taking pills for it. It really does help make it regular but you have to take them everyday. I wouldnt worry to much about it because it could be the smallest thing thattriggers it like stress. If you really are worried go see a doctor and see what they reccomend but i doubt its anything bad
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So my boyfriend wanted me to touch him because he was having a boner but I'm not sure how to handle it (link)
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Firstly if you dont want to - then dont. Dont feel forced to do anything you feel uncomfortable with and if he cant handle that then hes not worth it.
1) have some sort of wetness on your hands (lube,saliva ect)
2)slowly and lightly move your hand up and down his penis
3) tag up and down underneath the side of his shaft
4)gently squeeze the base and middle of his penis
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So I'm going into the woods with a couple friends, my mom has been letting me go there for about 2 years now. I lost my glasses about a month ago there, and now she won't let me go. I've already tried telling her I'd leave my glasses at home, but she still says no. I've decided to just go wirhout telling her, I'm going to do that if I can't convince her. So, if none of your answers work, that's what I'm doing. So, any ideas on how to convince her to let me go? (link)
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Before i give you my answer i would recommend not lying to your mom. I know its tempting, im 16 so i know. But youll break your moms trust and she most likely will find out some way or another. Also if something happens to you, your mom wont know where you are.
Now here are some ways :
1) explain to your mom who all will be there and what friends of yours are responsible. If theres a friend your mom knows and trusts tell her theyre going.
2) obviously leave your glasses at home and explain how it wouldnt happen again and you wont take anything valuble.
3) tell her youll keep your phone on so if she needs to get hold of you she can - and then do it so she doesnt stress.
4) before talking to her again do something she will appreciate ( clean the house, make her tea etc)
5) if she still says no be nice about it. Dont be rude, this way she will still maybe consider it.
6) be mature through the whole conversation
7) explain if something gets lost youll pay for it
Goodluck!
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A couple months ago I went to a party and got very drunk. A guy gave me a few Xanax pills and some lines of other drugs. We went into a hot tub and the water was too hot so I tried to get out but he pushed my head down under the water and then I blacked out. I came to and I was in a bathroom and my clothes were gone and the door was opening and then I blacked out again. I woke up and he was having sex with me. I blacked out again then woke up and I was blowing him and I tried to stop because I couldn't breathe but I blacked out again. This kept happening throughout the night where I would black out and wake up and he was having sex with me or I would be blowing him or whatever. I'm a recovering drug addict and have been speaking with my AA sponsor about this and she says it was rape. I feel sick and terrible every time I think about it and I can't stop crying. However I feel like it was my fault for getting too drunk, also I don't know if I said no or not because I was blacked out and unconscious the majority of the time it was happening. Was this rape or just me being stupid? (link)
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It is not your fault. Even if you said yes - being drunk means its not consent. Also since he pushed you under the water you probably didnt give consent but even if you did its okay, its not your fault.
People think that its the victims fault for being drunk but its not. Alchol and clothing is not the cause of rape, rapists are.
You need to report this if you havent,and get some help. You may feel like you dont need help but in the future you will suffer if you dont get help now. If you dont report it, he will just do it to more and more girls.
Please never feel like this is your fault. Message me if you need to talk
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Where i can find Basketball Trainer for boys ? (link)
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Go to different sport shops
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is there in loco parentis in michigan (link)
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Yes
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Female, 15
Hi so I recently got a scholarship to a Catholic school. My mom works there and she really wants me to move to this school because she wants me to learn about my religion more and teach it to my kids when I grow older. I grew up a Catholic.
The school I am at now is already a pretty good public school and is rated well, the Catholic school is good too, but the thing it that the school I'm at now is really good for art. Art is one of my passions and I have loved it since a young age, I get told that I am really good at it too. When I'm older I want to pursue a career as a designer, and the school I am at now is good for that sort of stuff.
I love all my friends too and it would be hard to move schools, but at this new school I would be with people who share my religion and I could date people who are Catholic too.
I'm having trouble deciding what I should do, because I know my mom would really like it if I went to this Catholic school, and it would be easier, but then again I really like art and I would still be getting a really good education at the school I'm at now, and I can still be with my friends.
I'm not asking anyone to make the decision for me, but any advice would be great!! Thanks! (link)
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You need to think of your future. If you are definite that you want to use art, then stick with this school youre at now. You could always join catholic groups ( such as youth and stuff).
If your main reason of staying is your friends - you will make new friends and you can always stay friends with those youre with now.
Think to yourself what is more important to you - your friends and art, or your religion and catholic friends
Before making your final decision make sure you are 100 %sure and have thought it through properly. Dont let people on the internet make your choice for you.
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So my whole life Ive been taught that the Ouija Board is not a toy, and I understand enough to the point that I dont even want to to touch or be near one, but I'm sort of curious and I kind of want to try it.... My friend says that to close whatever you've opened, you have to say goodbye, which I still think is bull, but he was raised on the same paranormal things I was.. He wants to use one on Halloween.. Is this true that you CAN control it and close anything you've opened to prevent a mess? Is there any other precautions you can take to ensure your safety? Or is it best, as always to follow my instinct and what my mother's taught me and keep away from it like always? I'm itching to scare myself this year, and do something dumb, but I dont want anything, especially that isn't human or that is negative/malevolent, getting attached to me.. Thank you in advance.. (link)
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One thing i have learnt is that your faith is suppose to protect you. Those who have faith in God are suppose to not be harmed. But since youre scared you shouldnt do it because that is supposedly opening up doors for the demons or whatever to come into you. Id also really want to try but id rather be safe than sorry.
And if you do then dont use it badly ( dont call demons into your home, dont make them angry) and when you end you HAVE to make sure they know they must leave and say goodbye and dont call any evil demons
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