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I am very happy with this person Danny but he is doing something that i don't know about. (link)
I feel that u should ask Danny what hes doing so you trust him more.


i have a crush on this one guy. we hang out as really good friends like every weekend. i really want to take it a step further. how do i tell him. and im scared if i tell him it will ruin a great friendship. plus, he lives like a half hour away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
U should just trust your heart and go ahead and tell him. What is the wrost thing he can say "NO". If he does at least in your heart that you told him.


Okay, so on this one episode of Hannah Montana, the one where her Aunt Dolly and her grandma (Mamaw i think?) are in this huge fight and Miley is going to win an award as best teen artist of the year as Hannah Montana...does anyone know where I could get a similar look-a-like of the dress she wore when "accepting" the award with her Aunt Dolly and her Mamaw fighting in the background haha. Sorry this question is so weird, I just really love that dress. Thanks! (link)
you going that dress in Dots. Thats a store.


Hi, My ex really loves me and I had to break up with him today cause there was no chemistry and i didnt like him. but i feel bad, and he did nothing wrong

any songs to explain this? (link)
You should listen to marey carey " shake it" it really helps you with stress off. You have to shake him you say you didn't have chemistry just shake it off.


Im 14. Theres a boy names Justin, hes also 14. i like and he likes me too.
I'd never EVER reject anyone so i decided i'd go out with me because he's really nice, and almost always calls me pretty:D

So, hes going to a different high school, and he doesnt know if we'd "work out" so i gave him some time to think about it...

well, that was yesterday, and he said he'd have an answer for me in the morning, and its 1:30 in the afternoon, and he wont reply to my text.
I dont LIKE LIKE him, but hes got me going crazy!!
and i cant help but want to kiss him... but my only fears are
1)Hes not a virgin.
2)I AM a virgin, and what if we get carried away?
3)Does he just hate me, because he wont talk to me? I only texted him 2 times, because i dont wanna be annoying, but will someone tell me whats up?
i dont know whats wrong with me, but advise would be good! (link)
So the boy doesn't like you for you he likes you for your body. So tell him that you don't want to be in a relationship with a person who doesn't like you for you. WE should break up.


My right thigh muscle hurts..a lot. When I lay down, when I walk, when I'm sitting, whenever I move basically. I'm not sure whats wrong with it.

http://i261.photobucket.com/albums/ii68/xocrystalox99/massage-therapy-point-thigh-knees.jpg

Theres a picture to show you where it hurts on my thigh whenever I do anything. Also, sometimes when I walk I kind of just.. stop..not because I want to, just because my leg doesnt move much and then I end up like tripping because of it. Any idea what this is?
Thank You. (link)
Well you should go see a doctor for that. It could lead to some trouble with that leg. I have the same problem because I got hit by a car. So please go see the doctors.


So ive been with my fiance for awhile and i really want to get married. I already have baby fever. I am moving 400 miles away from my family to live with him which to me would be a big deal if i was him. Hes going to college as a freshman everytime the topic comes up he says he cant. He is capible but doesnt want to. I dont know why he doesnt want to get married but it sucks. Can anyone help me. Is it me? Should i not be moving? What else can i do to show him i want to get married!! (link)
Just take slow with him. Guys like to take slow when it comes to being married beind a father.
Just take baby steps with him.


http://www.avon.com/1/1/202-slick-tint-lips.html



ummm abouut the glossy wine color, is it really that dark!?? i heard the reviews and like they say they love it but it looks too darrkk for me!

anyone who has used that product IS IT BETTER WHEN YOU WEAR IT?

also the opal color, is it a NUDE COLOR? i need a really nude nice shade for my lips and i think maybe that will work


if not, will the glazewear nude attitude work? HeRE:
http://shop.avon.com/shop/product.asp?pf_id=30992&from=search&find_spec=glazewear%20liquid%20lip%20color&camp=200817&dir_delivery=1&rep_delivery=1


please answer all 3 questions

thanks (link)
well the glossy wine is not that dark i tried it on. Yes it does get better when you wear you different.


This question if for anyone that has ever read Like Water for Chocolate. I have to write an essay on this, and i had no trouble reading the book but for some reason i'm having trouble coming up with the theme. I've never really read a book like this before, not really my type, but i had to for AP English. Now we need to write how the theme is portrayed in a death scene and there is just so many death scenes i figured i'd come up with the most important theme first then pick a death scene. Yet..i just can't think of a good theme, or atleast put it into good words. I'm not asking for someone to write my essay i'm just looking for guidance so please help! (link)
Do your BEST.Well you have to try something to find out if you like or not. Well I read that book its not that bad at the end.


17/f... senior in september.
For any of you who live in NY or might not, i desire to go to SUNY Downstate Medical Center, as a college choice. problem is, i dont know how im going to pay tuition.. what grades i might need.. SAT scores i might need.. because apparently this school is a little difficult to get in.. does anyone know where i can get more info? the website doesnt give me much info.. perhaps any of you in college who pay your own tuition can give me some guidance? thanks, its really appreciated!! (link)
Ok you can't say you can't do it until you try.
Take a loan, then get a job to pay the loans.
Just don't give up.


I need to think of a going-away present for my boyfriend who is going to California for a surfing competition, and right after that college in another city. I need something that he'd actually like or use. Some of his interests are surfing, photography, frisbee and music.

ANY suggestions are helpful, because I don't have a clue...

btw, I have very limited time to think of something (link)
GET him a surfboard than tell him you love if you do. If love him i don't want rush in to things.


my boyfriend is amazing at baseball but since its the sumemr hes been eating un healthy and not practcing at all or streching and his hip and shoulder hurt.

he knows that he has to get back into doing it. how can i help.

like when i see him if we go out to wendys or whereever to eat what should he get and if i go to his house what should i bring for him to eat. i just want to support him in any way so if u can help me out thanks!!! (link)
well you can by bring fruits,let him lots of water, and go take walk everyday. He can anything he wants but he shouldn't eat it everyday than thats how the fat come piling up.
JUST KEEP SUPPORTING HIM LIKE GIRLFRIEND DON'T TRY BEING HIS OR ANYTHING.


i had sex for the second time the other day. and it was longer then the first time. we didnt finish, and i dont even know if he precummed. we were wearing a condom and all, but im not sure.

is it possible that i could be pregnant? i wasnt exactly counting down the minutes and stuff, but we were both still really nervous. i have 4 pregnancy tests in my room that my parents dont know about. and i could use them if i dont start my period in a few weeks.

but the thing is i dont track down my periods like im supposed to. i just let them come and go. how would i know if its the right time to try the tests? i really dont want to waste them, and i have a lot on my mind so i wont exactly be paying any attention to that kind of stuff.

i havent been throwing up or anything, and i havent gotten bigger, since its only wednesday and we did it on saturday.

and...this is a really odd addition to my series of strange questions: do girls poop if they are pregnant? because i heard somewhere that they dont, and then i heard somewhere that they HAVE to, or they arent healthy. but i dont know which one is true!!

but i also dont wanna continue thinking i AM pregnant because if i do, i can trick my brain into thinking i am because i can actually do that. i have before. and i dont wanna have a psychological pregnancy. (blugh)

but yeah. any answers to all these questions would be just peachy. ^.^ thanks. (link)
Yes girls poop when they are pregnant if the don't the baby is not healthy.The right to take the test is when your heart tells you and when you don't see your period in about a month.It could possible because the condom could have break. Are you sure he put condom on because don't do that?


Hi, I'm from the UK, hope you can help! I began dating a guy a few months ago through facebook (However, he is from my hometown and I did already know him). He is 26 and im 25 and he lives about 2.5 hours away from me. We got on so well in every way, we are perfect for each other, but the distance was a stuggle. We were emailing and texting every day, but only getting to see each other every 2 weeks which was really hard. He wanted to move back but couldnt find a job in his profession. Then about 6 weeks ago he rang up and said we should not see each other anymore as its too hard as he is skint, falling behind in his job (he has a professional job) and hates the idea of me paying to go up there all the time. He insisted he still really liked me, but i was sceptical. That was around 6 weeks ago and i was gutted, since then we have emailed around once a week, until last week when he text me saying he would be home on the weekend...would i like to meet for a drink? So i met him on Sat and we were together all night, and things were exactly the same - we still got on so well and he said things like if he lived here he would be saying 'l love you' by now! It was so nice, then Sunday he said he would try and come down in two weeks time...i just dont know waht to do though, im worried he'll change his mind again etc. He's text me a couple of times since the weekend, but nothing yesterday(its wednesday now), but it's so confusing. He is a nice, genuine person so i know he isnt using me. My friend said perhaps i should move up there, but i dont feel that i know him well enough and would be scared. Long distance is really hard, but i really, really like, even love him. It's taken so long to find someone I like, usually I just date and end up finishing with them pretty soon after. I hate feeling like this, it's so much easier when I don't like anyone and am single! Sorry for babbling on so much, but i would appreciate your advice - thank you!x (link)
OK you don't want to move and when he tryed to move with he didn't his professional job so just tell him that live him and your hard to stay in this relationship but it is hard because far away and maybe you two can another place to be.


I started my period a few days ago. I'm not sure if I just never noticed this before but I weighed myself after I went to the bathroom when I woke up. Then, a few hours later I weighed myself again because I noticed I was gaining weight and I was 2 lbs heavier after eating breakfast. Is this water weight associated with my period? I don't think I'm eating any more than I usually do. Any suggestions? (link)
Ok I feel the same way to just remember that after you period is finsh then all pain stops, your going to get back to your normal weight.


15/f
This guy i like is in one of my classes and we talked for like a week over the summer but he ended up having to go do something so we couldn't talk anymore. I don't know if he still likes me or not but today in class he waved to me and said hi and we had a short convo. But i am SUPER shy and every time i talk to someone i'm comfortable around my stomach hurts and my voice is REALLY shaky. He came over to me and my friends to talk to us but he was mainly talking to my friends because i was just standing there not talking. I get really shy.

Also, this isn't really part of the question but he has ALOT of friends that are girls and i will see him talking to them all the time and i know i shouldn't be jealous but he put his arm around my friend today just like a little hug time thing. I was like, "i wish that was me" but anyways, what should i do? (link)
ok when he comes around your friends tell them to tell him to talk to him. Try to find what type of club he is in then try to join have in. Then both of would have to say "Hi"


Hi! I'm the 8th grade class president at my school... One of my jobs is to design a shirt for our class... I've gone around and gotten some ideas from people.. But nobody can think of anything... We would really rather it say something about 2013 instead of 8th grade.. I hope somebody can help me!!!!! (link)
ok you put ideas on a piece of paper for everyone to decide on who does what at what time.


how do you hide pictures in the picture section? (link)
just put this picture is private


are guys less atractive to that when giving sex i hav some on my butt and a little bit lower? i was just wondering...im pretty skinnybut i feel like i have a big but and thighs because of the strech marks........................ (link)
well you have to be happy of what god give you. I have strech marks it used to bother me but now i use lotion.


When all I'm doing is making out with my boyfriend, he gets hard. I mean, we're like laying together and stuff, but is that normal, for guys to get hard from just making out? (link)
When a guy likes you they get hard so maybe he loves you so much. Don't out alot start to talk to each to see about each others days.




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