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Okay...
So my name is Courtney and I love to give advice
although sometimes it's not the best, I try my hardest and people seem to like it.
I am a Sophomore in high school
I love music, and I know alot about it.
If anyone has any questions feel free to ask me
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I will answer ALL of them the best I can
Gender: Female
Location: Newton
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: August 7, 2007
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I have to get up at 6:00 A.M for high school... In your opinion, is it better to shower the night before, or when you wake up? Because, I have P.E...and when I take a shower, I preferably wash my hair. So, which way do you do it? This is a really weird question LOL (link)
Me too...
I usually take it the night before..
unless I am way too tired or something, then I take it that morning.....
but,personally I prefer night before
hope i helped
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There was this song I heard last night on the radio that I loved!! It was definitely a rap song and it was by Hurricane Chris or at least he was a part of it. I remember sorta one line it was like, "flash 'em with my _____(cant remember) and blind 'em with my mouth." I must have the words wrong cause google didn't have anything. Does anyone know what song it is? (link)
I'm pretty sure it's Ay bay bay
pretty good song
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Me and my friend are trying to find a job but we don't know how to start and i'm very shy so i don't know how to ask if they are hiring.Please help me (link)
I think 13 is too young for a job
The only place i know that hires that young is Party Rama near us....
You could always baby-sit??

Good Luck :]


14/f

next summer i have to get a job, and i was just wondering what kind of jobs (real ones) 15 year olds can typically get. not like babysitting or anything like that. a real job. i was thinking dunkin donuts, or an ice cream place or something like that, but if i had to have a resume, what would i put on it? i've never babysat before because my sister's always been the babysitter and i'm shy so i don't wanna like go up to people and ask.. idk like what should i do? (link)
I'm in the same situation
I have to get a job next month
I, personally don't want to get a job at the food store, but they DO hire at 15... if that's what you want
I'm going to work at Dunkin Donuts,
they pay $6 an hour where i am, and they hire at 14..... so that's a good one too
The only reason I like dunkin's better, is because it is less crowded and quieter, then market basket or something
but that's up to you
Good Luck :]


ohkay next year im going to be a freshman at highschool and im so worried. i know no one i moved here two years ago and i didnt make anyfriends with the 8th graders so i lucked out. and the boys situation is really bothering me. like its all about sex and making out and such,and i dont knwo if i m ready and it seems like if you are in a relationship then its pressured to so that kind of thing by everyone! and i guess this really started bothering me when i saw girls younger than me, like tlaking to the guys (and the guys where interested) to me it seems like i wouldnt be able to do that. im not one of those big flirts who hang all over guys. i have ppl ik that live further away who go got highschool (they are freshman) and they are telling me stories like how her a group of people went to a guys house and they were all hanging out until late. i mean it seems like its a big deal to me. my parents would have to know the parents and such, and im not willin got sneek out for that but i want to. i dont even know what im asking really, i just want to be able to hang out with poeple and not have such a hard time having a date and being pressured and crap. im really frantic about this. i would really like a boy to comment on how they are with girls. im jsut not ready for that...im scarred out of my mind. ik i muct sound stupid, but how did you deal with it.. the pressure of drinking and smoking adn drugs... yea sure now i can say i wont do it, but when it happens... i dont want to be one of those people you have to drive home, and i would hate for my parents to find out about it. alot of this is coming from what i wouldnt want my parents to see me like. i dont want to change, i dont think of myself as a goody goody by no means and it might sound like it but what am i suppose to do? please someone who is in highschool HELP and have experience (f/14)


ps sorry this is so scrambled. and thanks in advnaced (link)
I definitely know what your saying
I was a incoming freshman last year... knew nobody
and i was fine.
I was quite surprised, like you, when i found out that freshman were having sex, and doing drugs and just doing all that stuff
I was so surprised, and I made sure i didn't hang around in that crowd.
I know your worried that you don't want to do that stuff, or change, all you have to do is hang out with good friends, and stay out of the bad crowds.
Most of the guys don't pressure you either, some do... but you should know early in the relationship what kind of guy he is.
Like I said before, just don't get mixed up in the wrong crowd and you'll be fine
High School is fun, don't let any of that change that for you
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hope i helped


15/f

so im going to be a freshman, this september or august or whatever, and im like nervous. does it suckk incredibly? like do they seriously make fun of you? how bad is it? (link)
No Way!! It was pretty awesome from what I recall
I was an incoming freshman last year, and it was a new school, i knew nobody, and it was fine..
Honestly... you, like I did, are getting all hyped up about nothing bad.
Last year I thought freshman year was gonna be horrible, but it was good, and I think it's going to be the best year, besides being a senior

Oh! and a tip.... Just don't act all high and mighty in front of seniors... they think it's really annoying

Good Luck :]
You will be fine


can you call hair blonde or blond
and is someone blond or blonde? (link)
I believe it is blonde
but the french say it either way...
so it really doesn't matter


I am 15 and a female. my cousin and I are only a year apart.(he's younger) and I have always been sort of close with him and I liked that. I like being close with my family. but when I am with him it is different. I guess you can even say I have a crush on him & it has been harder to refuse with each passing year and whenever I see him. what should I do. im so confussed & I know this isn't right. Thank you! (link)
Okay...
My friend had the same scenario, and i told her that you basically just have to forget about him
Unless you think it's okay to go out with him,
but if you ask me it would be wrong
So.. you know you can't have him so the best you can do is just forget about him
I know it might be hard.... because you can't really control your feelings... but you have to try at least
Maybe find a nice boy at school or something and maybe a new guy will make you forget about him

Hope i helped :]
good luck


will someone please recommend to me nauseatingly cute songs such as i want to know your plans by say anything or a brand new colony by the postal service or take my breath away?

not songs like, i love my chick, or gettin some head. songs that like, are nauseatingly adorable and that you wish someone would sing to you and mean wholeheartedly.

thx in advance (link)
How about....
because you loved me by celine dion

it's cute i have it on my iPod

:] hope you like it

Oh! and I forgot
maybe...
Always be my baby- Mariah Carey
Just thought of that one also
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hey

this september, i'm going to be going into high school. i have a few questions. - you don't have to answer all of them; even if you can answer one, i'd be greatly appreciative.

1.) what's the FASTEST way to learn the map of my school? - besides getting a map & memorizing it

2.) how do i not become nervous the first few weeks when i'm getting accustomed? [like when i get lost, etc.]

3.) any tips on how to survive at least freshman year?

thanks so much, kidss. (link)
Okay......

1. you just have to keep going around and around the school... eventually it will stick in your mind and you should have no problem getting around. I was a freshman last year in a new school and i got so lost on the first day, but there were guides around the school, and by the time the week was over, I knew where everything was and no trouble getting around, so it just takes time, you will know it soon after you start.

2. Well... let's face it, you ARE going to get nervous, you can't stop that...... everyone is nervous going into a new high school, I definitely was.... but, when your getting used to the school, you meet friends and they help a whole lot. When i met my friends, my nervousness completely went away. Also when you get lost, just ask someone where it is you need to go, except i don't recommend asking a senior lol they can be pretty harsh. but don't worry, just don't act stuck up to them, and they'll leave you alone

3. Whew... Freshman year isn't bad.... at all. I was a incoming freshman last year.. i knew nothing about the school, knenw NO people and i turned out fine. What gets you through the year is friends. I don't know what i would have done if i didn't have them around during school. Another thing, is don't try to act all high and mighty, especially in front of seniors.... they will seriousy mess you up..... at least at my school they did. Just play it cool, meet somme friends and you will be FINE. Last year, i recall myself writing on advicenators asking how it is to be a frshman, and how i could survive.... and people gave me answers like ' OH IT'S GONNA BE FINE!!' etc. and i didn't believe them... but seriously IT WAS FINE!!! believe me, you will be fine, it is SO not as bad as some people make it sound to be

:] hope I helped

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