Member Since: February 19, 2009
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Last Update: February 22, 2009
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This may seem like a dumb question but i am very ugly. how can i become prettier? if i need to add a picture i will. (link)
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You are not ugly, you might think that but your not.
And people might say you are, this hurts. I know but Somehow you have to ignore it.
Your beautifully created.
And i know you've been in your bathroom and have done something to your hair or face or something that made you feel pretty. Every girl has.
Just don't change your whole image to meet someone elses expectations. Just be you and eventually someone will come along and love you for you even if you were ugly,
WHich your not.
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I'm 17 and I don't know what it means to "pop your cherry" or w/e. My mom doesn't like talking about it 2 me and I dont want to look it up becuase of my 11 year old nosey sister. Please tell me.... i think it goes onder this catagory this is were i normally see it (link)
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Awkward subject...
It's in your woman area.
It's when you have sex, this tissue pop's and it looks like a cherry.
It really hurts from what i heard.
But it's only the first time you have sex.
It's just a little piece of tissue that bleeds when popped.
Hope i helped a tad.
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Okay, so I hann't had sex in over a year. Maybe a year and a half? Well, anyways, I was told that everything basically goes back to where you started, like your a virgin again. Like, your cherry hole thing closes, and your hole gets smaller? Is that true? And If it is, how bad would it hurt? Like the firt time, or maybe a little better? I'm so confusedddd:( (link)
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NOT TRUE.
It's not possible.
I promise you, it's not possible. Yes the hole gets smaller but you don't grow that tissue back ever.
But it might be a little uncomfortable the 2nd time because it's been so long.
I"m sorry you couldn't wait till marriage....
Sincerely, Emma
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ok so hope this dosent confuse anyone, im 15 && started to get my period september 2008 (&& as you all know wen you first get your period it can be very irregular as mine was) didn\'t get it oct. (lost my virginity that month) got it nov. & haven\'t gotten it since then i had unprotected sex bout a week ago (yes stupid i know, will i do it again no) he \"pulled out\" before he came inside of me (but seriously there\'s still pre-cum && stuff so we all know that dosent work) im suppose 2 get my period this week but still nothing so could i be prego? (sorry if any1s confused by this) (link)
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Oh geez, Another pregnant story...
Why can't girls control their hormones.
Well it's not confusing.
There is a really really good chance your pregnant.
I'm sorry but it was your body.
Now i really hope you can support this baby, it is a life and it does move and breath and can grow up to be something great.
THink about that.
I'll be praying for you.
Sincerely, Emma
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I want to buy a new straighter I want it to be 25 and under, i just need help on which ones the best thank youu (link)
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CHi is the best.
THe best for your hair and everything.
GO to ulta and ask about it, they'll tell you all about it.
Good luck.
SIncerely,
Emma.
:)
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i don't get out much, and i'm pretty anti social..
for some reason i have sexual thoughts about kids, i won't do anything about it and i hate myself 4 it...
i'm so confused cause i don't consider myself a petifile..but it can't be normal
it dosen't happen all the time, just occassionly
like i havn't thought about it 4 a while..what is wrong with me? (link)
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That's almost scary.
But i understand.
I think it's just a stage.
But if it becomes serious i would talk to a adult.
For now it's normal.
I wouldn't be around kids if your thinking these sexual thoughts.
But try to be more social.
DO soemthing each day you wouldn't do normaly.
Even if it's just wearing a piece of jewerly or clothing.
I'll pray for you.
Good luck.
Sincerely, Emma
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Ok, Here's the stitch.
My mother just got back together with her 3rd Husband, [the one that i cant stand] they breakup then makeup maybe 3 times a year...as soon as things start goin well he comes out of the blue and walks back into her life. My mom knows how much i hate him but she dosnt seem to care. She mostly just wants 2 make sure im not mad at her, she dosnt care that i dont want to be a part of the "family" im the only one in the way and its exhausting! I feel like a complete bitch because im not helping my mother in any way but what about her? When she and my stepdad got married i only met the man once and 7 days later they got married. My mother is the type that's better off without a man but dosn't seem to relize that....after about 3 months ago she and my stepdad got in a serious seperation. Divorce papers had been sent and everything my mothers alchol intake started to increase and she has a problem [alcholic] and i used to wake up finding her passed out or drunk on the bathroom floor. Im the one that finally told her to get ahold of herself and to be honest it was like she was a 5 year old again. and that it was my job to help her grow up. about 2 weeks ago he shows up and shes been sober 4 about 2 months now after a serious alchol poisioning accident. he came 2 tell her he loved her and was gone. i used 2 live with my grandmother until my mom figured out this alchol thing out... but now that her and my stepdad are back together and ive had 2 move back in things are going the same way they used to when she did drink but without the alchol, and its not fair to me. I've tried to talk 2 her but she disagrees and then grounds me 4 a week or 2. I've thought about moving to my fathers, he lives an hour away [the real one] but he really would make things easier. i havent talked to anyone about this because im really scared starting my life over and things have just gotten so bad that i cant take it anymore. im only 14 , a freshman... i cant deal with all of this its just too hard. i used 2 have a eating disorder and when my mother found out. she didnt even care. im not doing that anymore... im past that but if i move to my dads im leaving everyone i care about behind all my friends and the rest of my family. if i leave i cant come back, i know that. im really scared and i dont know what i should do. i know this could be the right thing and this would help me in general but if its a mistake what happens then? what do i do about that? my life has gotten so twisted and hard i know this isnt a part of being a teenager. this is somthing different and it would really help me out if some of you out there would give me some advice. sorry this is so long but its a long story to tell. im at a crossroads and i need some advice,
thanks.
sincerely,
The Confused Stepdaughter (link)
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You poor little girl.
I'm 15 and a freshman too.
But i'm pretty mature for my age.
I've gone through the same things with you.
I can't give you a straight answer because i don't want to steer your wrong.
What does your heart say?
It's not healthy for you to be living like that.
Talk to a trusted adult.
Someone who cares and is understanding.
Not a friend. A adult.
A shrink.
IT hurts i know.
It really hurts and you wonder "why me."
BUt after a while and things clear up, you'll be asking. "Well why not?"
But don't loose hope and just hold on.
Try to get to know Christ.
If you don't already.
If will be life changing.
I will be hoping and praying for you.
I know what it's like.
I'm just now getting over my eating disorder.
I would starve myself.
But I would really like to stay in touch with you.
And talk to you.
Good luck.
Sincerely, Emma
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ok if a girl has sex for tha first time, but doesnt get pregnant, can her next period still be a little off or a few days early or late? (link)
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She might just be pregnant.
Call a doctor to be safe.
Or it could just be ironic.
I'll pray.
SIncerely, Emma
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No guys like me at my school. I guess Im pretty, all my (girl) friends always say Im sooo pretty and that they wish they had my looks and I never even ask them if Im pretty they just randomly say it. But all my friends that say that, have boyfriends or a bunch of guys like them. And all of my sisters and her boyfriends friends say Im hot behind my back. Im not popular but Im not a geek or anything either, just in the middle. Everyone knows me or knows of me, even all the popular guys! I just dont get why no one likes me. I have a very outgoing personality. Im average in body size. I mean whats going on?
Sorry if its long, and thanks for reading!
-L.o.n.e.l.y (link)
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Been there, done that.
Guys are stupid and were so complicated
and their so simple.
I don't get how we mix.
But your pretty and you sound great, Don't force anything. Just be friends with all the guys, be a tease but don't come off flirty and despret. MAke them chase you and don't give too much away at a time.
Your guy will come.
I'll pray for you.
Sincerely, Emma.
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15f Me and this guy like each other. Were not going out yet but i know we will soon. Im a pretty open person like when it comes to talking about sexual things. if that has anything to do with it. Lately, i have been thinking about having sex with this guy. We haven't even kissed yet and Im a virgin, so im thinking its just horniess? (link)
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What a tough situation.
Hun, I'm 15 and i've dreamt about sex.
BUt do not do it.
Not in your situation
He wants you because your hard to get, but once he gets you he will use you and throw you away.
Trust me. I know.
Go ask any other girl, if that girl had sex with him, what happened after.
Follow up on what happens if you get pregnant.
It's a life, like you and i.
It breaths and moves.
Do you rally want a baby at 15 years old?
I know i wouldn't.
I made promise.
I am a christian.
And i do have a purity ring.
I know strangers know nothing.
BUt PLEASE take my word.
Do not have sex.
you will regret it and yes it's exciting.
It's a GUY!
Their hot.
BUt don't.
You can wait.
Good luck.
I'll be praying for you.
Sincerely, Emma
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every time i wake up in the morning my throat hurts and its really red and swollen, i dont know why. i really cant think of anything except that i used to make myself vomit but that was like only for a month and like 2 years ago so i really doubt thats it so if you have any ideas why i'd like to know
thanks (link)
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IN the vomit it has really strong acid's.
I learned that in science.
GO to a doctor.
Asap.
It might become serious.
CAll a doctor, anything.
Or it could be just allergies.
Either way go to a doctor.
I'll pray.
Sincerely, Emma
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i started traking my period on line at mymonthlycycles since agu. and it really works its always right or around right! my last p. was Jan 8. than i was gonna get another one thru jan 27-31. But i got it on the 31 for one day and only spoting exacly two weeks after i had sex with my boyfriend (no condom in a rush lol) my avg cycle length is 19 day and was to get another on Feb 15-19 its the 18th and i have no signs of geting it! does this mean im prego! im 22days late! can i take a test now? or do i wait till its like 31 days? how does that work! (link)
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I have no idea. If your worried, which you are. Go to a DOCTOR.
THeir pretty helpful.
Good luck.
I'll be praying your not.
:)
Sincerely, Emma
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I am 15f, my boyfriend is 16m.
I am a virgin and he isn't.
I promised myself I would wait until i was 16, and my birthday is next month. i am ready to have sex but i am obviously nervous... naturaly.
My periods are not on a perfect scheduale yet, they can come every month for like 2 or 3 months, then not come again for 1 or 2 months. I have had my period for over 2 years now. This is the only thing i feel is holding me back for when i turn 16. What if i get pregnant.. i feel like i wont know right away. Please tell me if this is a huge issue or not.. i have gone to the gyno and talked to them and they said just to track it and that it is okay for now.... but i am just not sure about sex with it like that. (link)
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Wow. Your fifteen and ready to have sex?
I think if he's pressuring you, Dump him.
But if it's you, Hun, Why would you want to?
It's called hormones.
Sex is a very emotional, beautiful thing.
It's meant for marriage. But, There IS a good chance you can get pregnant. Think about it. If you were to have a baby at 16?
Could you support it?
This is a really big deal.
Talk to someone your comfortable with.
An adult or parent.
This is really not good.
You know i've thought about sex before.
BUt i became a christian and made a promise to wait till marriage.
Maybe you should do the same.
SERIOUSLY, I"m trying to save your life.
You'll hae sex and everything will be fine for a week or so then you'll break up.
It's how it always ends...
I vote, DOn't do it.
But i'll be praying you make the right decision.
Sincerely, Emma
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i used to cut myself when i was depressed but im not depressed anymore and i havent been for awhile but i havent been able to stop cutting, or burning myself sometimes i do it just cause i feel like i have to in order to be okay for the rest of the day or to go to sleep. i just do it on my hips because i dont want anyone to see. but i want to stop wanting to cut or burn and i feel like im never going to be able to stop.
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Awh! Poor child. Well i've been there. I know what your feeling. Trust me. There is a way to vent without hurting yourself. It's going to be really hard to stop cutting and burning yourself but your really only hurting yourself. Just try to find a different way to vent. Get involved in something when you want to cut or burn. Distract yourself. It really helps. Or possibly if your parents or legal guardian is understanding tell them about it. Be vague about it and go see a shrink. They make you cry a lot but it really helps. :)
Good luck to you.
I hope the very best.
I'll be praying for you.
Try to learn about jesus.
HE really can be a big help.
Sincerly, Emma
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